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Done this a few times as well. Twice it was arranged by the man and twice it was the ladies I got chatting with leading to meeting. I can't say I know the history on the latter two, but both were extremely sexual and were attracted by size. I'd agree that it is an extremely masculine feeling and having both members of a couple really get into the way she is enjoying herself with you is amazing. I'd love to eventually find a great long-term situation like this.
 

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Hi Mrssmalllovesbig,you say your husband has a small dick but just how small is it and how big are you lovers in comparison.I would love to know the ansewrs to these questions .
My penis small just 3.5 inches...is it smaller than that?
 

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I have fucked a couple of guys wives while they watched and took pictures and i honestly really enjoy it. i like the feeling that I'm desired purely for my sexuality. I find it a serious turn on. Only once was it a one time thing, i still have sex with one guys gf and another mans wife fairly regularly. one of them has moved onto wanting me to fuck his wife on the regular "behind his back" he just wants to pretend to not know about it. she really does love being fucked by me and he is not really small but pretty average sized but i guess the idea of it really turns him on. he seems to love eseeing me make his wife scream. I think its alright as long as it doesn't become anything more than sexual. i'm not the type of man to try to take another mans woman i don't think its right when you have been given someones trust.
 

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has turned into a good thread with some very interesting, and informative as well as helpful stuff here folks! this is what i love about lpsg, an adult conversation on something most would never dare bring up anywhere else. wife and i have flirted more with the concepts of a swinging lifestyle but i must admit late night turn ons for me regarding the whole cuckholding thing. and i'm not small (not huge either) and i'm not necessarily into the humiliation thing, but the unabashed, unleased, untempered, uninhibited nature of a woman going for and getting what she wants and needs from her sexual lover is the greatest turn on i can think of.
 

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has turned into a good thread with some very interesting, and informative as well as helpful stuff here folks! this is what i love about lpsg, an adult conversation on something most would never dare bring up anywhere else. wife and i have flirted more with the concepts of a swinging lifestyle but i must admit late night turn ons for me regarding the whole cuckholding thing. and i'm not small (not huge either) and i'm not necessarily into the humiliation thing, but the unabashed, unleased, untempered, uninhibited nature of a woman going for and getting what she wants and needs from her sexual lover is the greatest turn on i can think of.

If you're looking for somewhere to start but are not sure then just find another couple to have "same room sex" with. Again they are everywhere and you'll be able to set your boundaries. If you meet a more experienced couple then they'll be more relaxed and start the evening off and you can watch for a while with your wife, and then if things progress after you and your wife make out then great if not there is no pressure.
 

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Hi, new member here. I am married to a stunning woman, and although this is not a thing for us, I have noticed that I am very turned on by the attention my wife gets from others. Seems like some men into this lifestyle may also appreciate the complement that other men find the wives desirable. I know I enjoy it.
 

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We are a young couple, we meet us in university. We are 24/26Years old yet.We are together about 5 years, in very good relationship,good sex, and love each other. 1,5 years ago we started thinking about this kind of relationship. My girlfriend only prefer long partnership with +1 guy, so we started to search a normal guy who alone, and live close to us, end interested this kind of sex. we found a guy 4 month ago,end since then we enjoy it much. We meet weakly if we got time for some threesome, but now i let my girlfriend to met him alone too... it works to us. It makes our relationship stronger.
Hi is a good lover, and hi got bigger size. At the first times it feels for my girlfriend pussy too big, but 2-3 meeting after she started to really enjoy it.
Now it works fine. The differences: with me she's usually got clitoral orgasm, and sometimes but not often vaginal. with the guy she got usually vaginal, and sometimes both. She enjoy both of them very well. but with the guy she can sex for about 1-1,5 ours because she can fel orgasm vaginally more times. With me she has got very intensive orgasm after 15-40 minute and usually she had to rest after it...
She likes wery much when we pamper together her.
And yes she's pussy get streched, but i did'nt mind because after 2-3 day after fucked by the guy it refit again time by time.
I enjoy when we both together, and enjoy when i only see her with the guy, its franatic to me to see how she enjoy his cock, how she wet, and moan loud because the size. she sometimes got more comlex orgasm with the guy because he can irritate well in vaginal end clitoral, but she felt more pleasurable,and got bigger orgasm with me because the feelings, so it works fine, we complete us with the guy.

But it only work with full of honest, and strange love. She is a best "friend" to me, and i am one of her best "girlfriend", we can talk together everything.
And we would like to married with in 1-2 years
 
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If you're looking for somewhere to start but are not sure then just find another couple to have "same room sex" with. Again they are everywhere and you'll be able to set your boundaries. If you meet a more experienced couple then they'll be more relaxed and start the evening off and you can watch for a while with your wife, and then if things progress after you and your wife make out then great if not there is no pressure.

Probably a dumb question but . . . . . .

This thread has me wondering if there is not a female version of "cuckolding". I can think of a couple where one of the ladies has much larger breasts, thinner ,a tighter pussy or what ever. The male seems to always be the only one humiliated?

I enjoy swinger porn and I have often heard comments such as "Your cock is so much larger than my husbands" or "wow, can you wife really suck that thing?" but I can not remember hearing similar comments about the females from the males.

Something seems wrong with this scenario.
 

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Having been in the lifestyle for a while, I have noticed patterns of behavior on cuckold/hotwife and swinging websites.

I'd like to offer some advice for newbies to cuck/swinging sites:
  • Many of the swinger males and cucks don't really have wives into the lifestyle. They may well be married, but their wife is often a prude (which is whey they are wanking online).
    Many of the pictures that guys send you of their wives are fake--especially the ones that are comprimising (very slutty).
  • Many Bulls and Doms are really just looking for "real amateur" photos.
  • Be wary of guys who ask you what your wife looks like as their intro. They aren't serious. They either want a quickie or photos of her.
  • A couple that truly wants someone to join them will usually want to know your interests first. Distance and appearance will usually follow.
  • Be wary of the "women" who claim to be raging sluts. They are often guys.
    Be wary of men who claim to be massively hung. Even if it's true, and it's probably not, they aren't serious about the lifestyle.
  • Get to know all of your partner's interests and limits so you can answer when asked.
  • Many people are into much more than what is in their profile. Don't be afraid to ask!
  • Don't bother messaging oldbull613 unless you are actually in that area code. These area code people are all business.
  • Anyone who types, "pics?" is probably a collector and likely not serious.
  • "Don't worry, I never save pics on my computer," usually means they do.
  • Too many guys, especially submissive bi hubbies, have been duped out of their wive's pictures by smooth-talking Doms/Bulls. Don't be duped, or you'll be seeing your wife's pussy all over the net the next day.
  • Any woman who begs you for pics is probably not a "woman". I'm sure you know this already, but it's especially common on cuck sites.
  • If a guy can't accept a G-rated photo of your wife, then move on. He's a collector.
For those who might greatly object to these tips, I'm generalizing greatly.
 

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My wife is in the process of searching for a long-term bull. She really is not so much into the one-nighters. We have a fairly large place and it has been discussed that a live in or partial live-in situation might be arranged. This happened once in the past but the guy was a reservist and was called up. I paid him a faily decent allowance while he was servicing her. He came over most weekends and sometimes stayed from Friday night until Sunday night. Since he left she hasn't found the right guy and has experimented with a couple of one-nighters with mostly positive results.
 

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Well my wife is currently having 2 lovers, both of whom have very large cocks and she's starting to get emotionally attached to them as well as sexually/physically. It really is very hot to see someone love another person based purely on the amazing sex she has with him. We both agree that if in the course of sex, she gets pregnant to her lover, then she would keep the baby and we would assess our relationship/marriage to see whether it is best that we stay together or maybe she would find greater happiness with her lover. It is dangerous but also very hot and she is enjoying her life so much now she's practically glowing.. on the one hand she has me, someone who will always love her, and on the other hand she's having absolutely amazing sex and is somewhat even wishing that something good such as pregnancy comes as a result of the sex. This lifestyle isn;'t for everyone but I can't stop her happiness.
are you kidding me! You would truly risk bringing a child into a situation like this? I can understand your attraction to this fetish, but to have child born of a fetish with no real idea what type of homelife or security it would have is insane!

I will never understand this fetish.. I guess its because no one can satisfy my wife like I can.. noone knows her better than me or what she likes better than me so whats the point?

to each his own is fine but when you invlove innocent children are born of a sexual fetish its crazy sorry
 

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Hi, new member here. I am married to a stunning woman, and although this is not a thing for us, I have noticed that I am very turned on by the attention my wife gets from others. Seems like some men into this lifestyle may also appreciate the complement that other men find the wives desirable. I know I enjoy it.

If she is as aroused by the cuckold scene as you are then maybe you two should act on it. If she's so stunning, then I doubt you'd have problems finding a Bull.

I got into the scene in my early 20's. It wasn't an accident; I knew what cuckolding was, and I know that I was interested in being a Bull (I was a single male, never married, very high sex drive).

One of the first couples that I interacted with online were local, but they weren't my type. I decided to help them find more agressive, dominant bull (I'm more of a regular guy), so I posted an ad for them and used my email address so I could filter the fakers out for them. My experience came in handy here. I got a few responses from some real Bulls and one seemed to be their type and I hooked them up and they met and I hear it went well.

Maybe this is an option for you. PM me if you need help getting into the scene.

Cheers.
 

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My wife is in the process of searching for a long-term bull. She really is not so much into the one-nighters. We have a fairly large place and it has been discussed that a live in or partial live-in situation might be arranged. This happened once in the past but the guy was a reservist and was called up. I paid him a faily decent allowance while he was servicing her. He came over most weekends and sometimes stayed from Friday night until Sunday night. Since he left she hasn't found the right guy and has experimented with a couple of one-nighters with mostly positive results.


Why do you both do this? I really liked the picture of your hands. Kind hands. I couldn't stand it if my wife did that, and I have thought about it. Doesn't it make you feel crummy?
 

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My wife and I have played in the lifestyle. Currently, we are on hiatus (meaning we are concentrating on other parts of our lives).

Before reading this, please take into account that I am generalizing--heavily. Everyone has different life experiences, etc. However, the parts about me are not generalizations :)

My wife and I would fall more into the hotwife and not the cuckold category, although I think it is a continuum and not an either or issue. As for me, I am not into humiliation by anyone. The blatant machismo aspect seems to be a bit retarded and a sure fire way to get me to snap out of the fantasy. However, I absolutely love to hear my wife talk about the bigger men she has been with (that would include most others), what the physical act felt like, the raw sexual passion, etc.

I am very secure in my sexual abilities, despite being below average in size. I have repeatedly brought many women to their first orgasms, first multiples, squirting, continuous (2 minute plus) orgasms, etc. (Most women love oral, fingers and most importantly: a gentle, sexy voice, and a great mind). Most women prefer to be enveloped, desired and consumed and chose the long term prospect of that feeling over size and the raw sexual power size alone provides.

When I was younger and before I could adequately gauge my smaller size in comparison to other men (or even knowing if and when I would reach my maximum size), I read and saw a lot of pornography. I could tell I was substantially smaller than the men in magazines. However, that did not abate my desire to fulfill a woman's desire as I had seen in magazines. At 18 or 19 I had figured out I would never hear a woman say "Wow" or "You're huge!" when taking off my pants, so I realigned my goals to having women say "You are incredible!", etc.

As an aside: You can tell when a woman is lying...some women know how ego shattering it is for a man to realize he is not endowed and go the opposite route to try and pretend you are big. Always awkward. It is as if they mention that an imaginary chocolate cake is in the room. It makes you wonder if they are more in the mood for chocolate cake.) When you are younger, you may be avoiding an ego-shattering event with a younger man, but after a certain age, it makes a woman seem very manipulative.

Most (not all women) respond more to confidence and technique than to just size alone. I am not saying larger endowed men and technique are mutually exclusive. However, I really started working on my other skills earlier in life with more zeal than most naturally gifted men. I had nothing else to fall back on. On the other end of the scale, I think men with sideshow-sized cocks face this same problem and develop their other techniques earlier as well.

So now that you know a little bit about myself, I can explain why the hotwife/bigger guy experience is such a turn-on. When reading those magazines all those years ago, I would see women overcome with desire when being filled by large men. As a young man, when fantasizing (either at the time or later on), I would imagine that I was the one with the large penis, taking her to places she had never been before, being the biggest one she had ever seen, etc.It is natural when reading pornography to take the stories and inject yourself into them.

Well, those fantasies became deeply rooted during my formative years. Because I can not actually physically perform them myself, I compromise with my fantasies with a surrogate. It is not his cock that is a turn-on to me, it is the fantasy of what it does to my wife and women. I don't fantisize about pleasing men. However, the idea of putting a large cock into my wife harkens back to these early, almost ingrained, fantasies. It is why for me that I view extra men as the equivilent of a marital aid.

The danger is a wife's desire and fantasies are not built by the same experiences. In my case, it is from seeing and reading about larger men fulfilling women when I was an early teenager and in some ways fixiating on that. Women tend to have the same type of experience (a little later) regarding their body images. Feelings of inadequacy, etc. However, with women, it tends not to be so sexually driven. They did not grow up associating their "inadequacies" with sexual performance. They tend to be two separate issues in a woman's mind.

The ability for me to more easily separate sex parts from people allows me to compromise with a surrogate to fulfill a fantasy. For my wife, not so much.

If from reading this you are under the impression I am really comfortable with my size, I still am not. I stiil often have feelings of inadequacy. However, I have learned to separate my size from my performance. But it is a learned response.
 

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My wife and I would fall more into the hotwife and not the cuckold category, although I think it is a continuum and not an either or issue. As for me, I am not into humiliation by anyone. The blatant machismo aspect seems to be a bit retarded and a sure fire way to get me to snap out of the fantasy. However, I absolutely love to hear my wife talk about the bigger men she has been with (that would include most others), what the physical act felt like, the raw sexual passion, etc.

Firstly, I'm concerned about your nickname and profile. If two people share the same account on this site, they'll get permanently banned. :frown1:

Secondly, you are a cuck if your wife fucks other men: that's the definition. But the cuckold lifestyle goes far beyond that. You seem to think that HWing is separate from cucking, but I see it as a subset. I agree with you that the main difference between ordinary cuckolding and HWing is humiliation of the hubby. Then again, aren't you humiliated when your wife talks about bigger men who she's been with? Aren't you humiliated when she she has bigger, more powerful orgasms or when he leaves her loose and sore in a way that you don't? Aren't you humiliated when you know that he's going far deeper into her than you could ever hope to go? Or when he dumps a big load deep inside her body?

Most (not all women) respond more to confidence and technique than to just size alone. I am not saying larger endowed men and technique are mutually exclusive. However, I really started working on my other skills earlier in life with more zeal than most naturally gifted men. I had nothing else to fall back on. On the other end of the scale, I think men with sideshow-sized cocks face this same problem and develop their other techniques earlier as well.
Not all Bulls are hung; it's not always about penis size. Most seem to be more confident and aggressive than the cucks (which is often why they are called "wimps"). I find that confidence is the main commonality among Bulls -- rather than penis size; I have a few Bull friends who have an average endowment, but have huge personalities. I think that many women find this attractive--especially the confidence that their hubbies might lack. A true cock-slut, however, still won't even consider a man who is under 7". :cool:

So now that you know a little bit about myself, I can explain why the hotwife/bigger guy experience is such a turn-on. When reading those magazines all those years ago, I would see women overcome with desire when being filled by large men. As a young man, when fantasizing (either at the time or later on), I would imagine that I was the one with the large penis, taking her to places she had never been before, being the biggest one she had ever seen, etc.It is natural when reading pornography to take the stories and inject yourself into them.

Many cucks go through the arduous trouble of finding a Bull, making sure he's real, safe and serious, setting up a meeting, working out the details and all of the other logistics just to see his wife take a big cock for, say, an hour. This still amazes me, since he usually just sits back and watches. It doesn't seem worth all the work, but I'm not complaining. Most cucks, in the "bigger guy experience" are men who want to see their wife react to a huge cock: what it does to her; the added taboo and vulgarity of a massive cock being forced into her; sometimes the humiliation of a bigger man taking his wife (or 'ruining' it for him); just the visual of seeing her open and wrap around his big shaft. It's intense, and very humiliating for many cucks. A submissive cuck will get off on the humiliation, but you seem to get off on the vicarious nature of her getting a good fuck from a big cock. I haven't seen this too often, but you aren't alone. There are many straight guys on this site who are fascinated by seeing a big cock penetrate a woman. Visit the Adult Sites forum and you'll see plenty of evidence.

Well, those fantasies became deeply rooted during my formative years. Because I can not actually physically perform them myself, I compromise with my fantasies with a surrogate. It is not his cock that is a turn-on to me, it is the fantasy of what it does to my wife and women. I don't fantisize about pleasing men. However, the idea of putting a large cock into my wife harkens back to these early, almost ingrained, fantasies. It is why for me that I view extra men as the equivilent of a marital aid.

The ability for me to more easily separate sex parts from people allows me to compromise with a surrogate to fulfill a fantasy. For my wife, not so much.

You seem like a straight guy who simply likes seeing his wife take a big cock. There is tons of porn out there for straight men that feature hung men penetrating tight women. You aren't alone here. It's a shame that your wife doesn't enjoy it as much as you do. Cuckolding (or HotWifing) can be an incredibly erotic experience if it's sane and safe.
 

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Interesting. I disagree with your premise that hw is a subset of cuckolding is a subset of another. Classically, a cuckold was a husband with a wife that cheated or berated him. Is it cheating when you both are there? And my wife loves me, she has never humiliated me. The term I use is the modern lifestyle definition. It describes a couple who seek out other partners (sometimes female) but they are not into the whole dom scented encounter you have imagined. Aggressive bulls get weeded out because we aren't into them. There are other, much less aggressive people who put the extra M into the MF.

I agree however that hw'ing is fun. My wife does put up some interesting detours. She only wants it to be spontaneous, no planning. Sometimes, in a marriage, people say things like that and then want you to do it anyways. Because, I am in doubt as to whether she wants me to plan or would she just be hurt/scared etc that I would do it, I err on the side of caution. So as of late, we are on hiatus.

I am ok with who I am physically. I have other talents, I know how to use them. I no longer view myself as having to have the biggest cock in the room. My earlier post attempts to describe how I believe my fantasy life came to be.

As for sharing a user account, I don't.
 

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Interesting the comments here.
All of you have to know there are different kinds of cuckolds. See these URLs:
Cuckold Types | ZenFetish
I'm a non-traditional one.
See also for a good expliantion:
The Cuckold's and Cuckolder's Guide

I became a cuckold by accident. 14 months ago. My wife wished (after a very hot holiday) to become a hot wife. We visited a club (in the Netherlands) where at some evenings single men are allowed to come in. During the very first visit, she was fucked within 15 minutes after arrival. But there was a man who was waiting for his chance and who was very kind to her. To make a very long story short, both of them were having fun and sex almost the whole evening, ignoring me completely. My wife was in heaven because he gave her much attention, carressing her, petting with her. They had of course a lot of sex too. I was in heaven also. Seeing my wife act so freely. As if she was fallen in love. Instead of having threesomes or foursomes wit me, she did have them, all alone.
The second visit was almost exactly the same. Now, with another man, an Englishman.

We did communicate (and still do) a lot about what happened and still happens. We concluded that I liked to see her making love with other men, she really likes NOW making love wit other men. She likes to tease me with that. She wants me being a spectator, no I have to be a spectator. It makes her very horny when she is seeing how arosed I become by her lovemaking. I confessed to her that my interest in ladies dropped to a very low point. Her attained freedom, which she did enjoy so much, was my most dearest present I could give her. I don't have other sexual related wishes anymore for myself.

Our already very good marriage, became even better, much better. She confessed however feeling guilty to be so selfish. I assured her she gave me with that too the most beautiful present she could give me.

We went on with our visits and met a black man from the US who does visit Europe 5/6 times a year. He was wonderful to her, is her regular lover now and is always our guest at home. He has an 7 inch (I estimate) cock but his glans is however one of the most biggest and beautiful ones I ever saw. When they make love, I'm air. Hours long they make love without paying any attention to me. Sometimes my wife commands me to suck his dick. That was always one of her dream. For the rest I have to play with myself and taking pictures.

The email traffic between them is heavy. For the first time in her live, she is exchanging emails about sex with somebody. Sometimes I have to read them. Hot, very hot. A lot of fantasies how to handle me. But till now, these fantasies didn't became reality because they do forget that I'm in the same room: they are lost in each other.

Is her black lover a bull? No, he is more her lover.
Is he dominant? To me a bit, because he really does what he wants to do with her without any hesitation. Really anywhere, really anytime.
Dominant to her? No. But if their fantasies come true, I will be dominated by both in the future.
Do I have a small cock? No, if erected it is some more than 7 inches.
Do I feel humiliated? Not exactly, because that word has such a negative sense. Ans my wife is loving me more than ever. I don't know another expression, thus humiliated is good to me.
Am I cuckold in normal live? No, I have a normal sexlife but there is strong tendency I'm becoming her plaything.
Do we have an agreement about restrictions when making love to him?
No, we agreed she may do what she wants. Without really any restriction.
Does she everything to him? The only thing she didn't do (till now) is doing it anally.
For the rest, he gets all I got in my whole live.
And I love it all.

Why I'm member here? Because I like big cocks.
My dream is seeing her fucked by four black guys with huge cocks.
May I have too something to dream of?

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