Cuckolding

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KTownBlondy:

Originally posted by DoubleMeatWhopper@Jan 18 2005, 11:33 PM
I see what you're saying, but I see it this way: the woman who cheats on her boyfriend or husband may be having a one-time fling, which is admittedly bad, but the poster is talking about doing this with different women just for kicks. He's not just taking the first sex offered to them, he's targeting women already in relationships: they're his prey. He's making a career out of wrecking people's relationships just because the idea of fucking someone else's chick turns him on. That's inexcusable. That's just my opinion.

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i agree with you Double Meat Whopper, it definately is inexcusable... ruining a relationship just to satisfy some sick fetish is horrible :angry: ....

 

[Pecker]

If he/she cheats on one, he/she will cheat on everyone.

Including you.

 

[ManInLondon]

Originally posted by BruceSter@Jan 17 2005, 08:28 AM
Hi guys (n girls)

one of my most favorite thrills is it to fuck involved (or even married) girls - turns me on beyond recovery almost. And I don't mean swinger girls, whose boys agree to it, I mean banging the chicks without the guys knowing it. It's ultimately cool to hear them scream for your dick while within the same breath joking about their boys' lack of crucial inches.

Who feels the same? or different? Tell me ur experiences!

Bruce

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Bruce never said he destroys peoples relationships. Just that he enjoys fucking attatched chicks.

With all this 'tut tutting' about the immorality of it all, aren't you forgetting that the girls do have minds and are able to say no if they so choose.

When I was younger I wasn't looking for a relationship, and loads of attached girls and guys used to come on to me. At the time I had no problem with fucking who and when I wanted. I was never looking for anything more than a quick fuck, and like Bruce there was something exciting about knowing you were fucking someone elses property.

Now I am older I just wouldn't behave in the same way. Relationships can be damaged, and I wouldn't wan't to be responsible for the break up of one.

However, if someone is prepared to fuck someone behind their partners back, it is likely there is something wrong with the relationship in the first place.

The figures for unfaithfulness are unbelievable, and I am sure Bruce isn't dipping his wick in all of those being unfaithful.

What he's doing is no different to millions of others. Just having a good time.

 

[madame_zora]

I had a realtionship with a married man once a long time ago. I didn't feel too bad about it because he had an open arrangement with his wife and I wasn't his only other partner, but since then I've decided not to be with married men. I think it's the responsibility of the person IN the relationship to be faithful, not the outside person, but still, mine is a selfish perspective. I don't want to give all of myself to only get half of them, it isn't really fair to me.

We all have to find our own place and define our own morals, but this does sound very immature. Fucking someone who's attatched just to prove something to yourself shows low self-esteem. I'd try thinking in terms of finding women who are available to you, because it sounds like a form of committment aversion to me, and if that's the case, there are more honest ways of dealing with it.

 

[MASSIVEPKGO_CHUCK]

Originally posted by DoubleMeatWhopper@Jan 19 2005, 01:32 AM
I have no respect for the slut who fucks around behind her boyfriends back, and even less for the scum that she fucks around with. People who treat infidelity as a game don't deserve to be in a relationship. The reason that this thread is in the Young and Hung section is because the behaviour being discussed exhibits a disgusting lack of maturity. :angry:

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I'l go along with that there, DMW. I once went out with one of my best friend's gf's sister, who I was told that she was divorced from her husband. Turned out later that not only was she not divorced but separated from her husband, and pregnant with his 2nd child. So I called it quits with that one.

As far infidelity goes, in recent yrs I've greatly resented it, since I found out that my late uncle's widow had been lusted after another man, even before he died and after.

 

[jonb]

Actually, EnglishMan, he said he enjoys fucking attached chicks without their boyfriends' permission. With permission's perfectly okay; without permission is what makes her a slut and him a bastard.

 

[ziggity]

this is one reason why long term relationships based on bodily or more shallow characteristics aren't a good idea in the first place.

 

[ManInLondon]

Originally posted by jonb@Jan 20 2005, 10:26 PM
Actually, EnglishMan, he said he enjoys fucking attached chicks without their boyfriends' permission. With permission's perfectly okay; without permission is what makes her a slut and him a bastard.

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Does that mean that you think every woman who has sex outside of her relationship is a slut? And every guy who fucks an attatched woman a bastard?

 

[B_DoubleMeatWhopper]

Originally posted by EnglishMan@Jan 20 2005, 11:53 PM
Does that mean that you think every woman who has sex outside of her relationship is a slut? And every guy who fucks an attatched woman a bastard?

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If there is no permission involved ... well, yes.

 

[climber]

Originally posted by EnglishMan+Jan 20 2005, 11:53 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(EnglishMan &#064; Jan 20 2005, 11:53 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-jonb@Jan 20 2005, 10:26 PM
Actually, EnglishMan, he said he enjoys fucking attached chicks without their boyfriends&#39; permission. With permission&#39;s perfectly okay; without permission is what makes her a slut and him a bastard.

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Does that mean that you think every woman who has sex outside of her relationship is a slut? And every guy who fucks an attatched woman a bastard?

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pretty much...

 

[jonb]

Swinging: Cool.
Fantasizing about stealing a girl: Cool.
Actually stealing a girl: You suck.

 

[SurferGirlCA]

Originally posted by madame_zora@Jan 20 2005, 08:03 AM
I had a realtionship with a married man once a long time ago. I didn&#39;t feel too bad about it because he had an open arrangement with his wife and I wasn&#39;t his only other partner, but since then I&#39;ve decided not to be with married men. I think it&#39;s the responsibility of the person IN the relationship to be faithful, not the outside person, but still, mine is a selfish perspective. I don&#39;t want to give all of myself to only get half of them, it isn&#39;t really fair to me.

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I was going to mention that, too. I mean, the possibility that sometimes an "open relationship" may exist, but in that case, it&#39;s not cheating so the original post wouldn&#39;t apply. I&#39;ve been propositioned a few times in this manner and I always wondered if both parties involved knew the relationship was open. Not that some guys will say anything to get you in bed, but...

 

[madame_zora]

Originally posted by SurferGirlCA+Jan 21 2005, 08:10 AM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(SurferGirlCA &#064; Jan 21 2005, 08:10 AM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-madame_zora@Jan 20 2005, 08:03 AM
I had a realtionship with a married man once a long time ago. I didn&#39;t feel too bad about it because he had an open arrangement with his wife and I wasn&#39;t his only other partner, but since then I&#39;ve decided not to be with married men. I think it&#39;s the responsibility of the person IN the relationship to be faithful, not the outside person, but still, mine is a selfish perspective. I don&#39;t want to give all of myself to only get half of them, it isn&#39;t really fair to me.

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I was going to mention that, too. I mean, the possibility that sometimes an "open relationship" may exist, but in that case, it&#39;s not cheating so the original post wouldn&#39;t apply. I&#39;ve been propositioned a few times in this manner and I always wondered if both parties involved knew the relationship was open. Not that some guys will say anything to get you in bed, but...

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Yeah, it was very weird for me, but I guess it was a timing thing then that I didn&#39;t want a full time relationship anyway. I actually met his wife, since I&#39;d be lied to once before as a teenager and was taking no chances about their "arrangement".
It was a fun time, he taught me a lot about sex and I think of him fondly, I just don&#39;t think I have any need to repeat the experience.

Most guys who say they&#39;re in an open relationship haven&#39;t told their s/o yet&#33;

I agree with jonb, DMW, and the bunch that without permission, it&#39;s just a shitty thing to do to treat so casually the happiness of another.

 

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NineInchCock_160IQ:

Originally posted by BruceSter@Jan 17 2005, 04:28 AM
Hi guys (n girls)

one of my most favorite thrills is it to fuck involved (or even married) girls - turns me on beyond recovery almost. And I don&#39;t mean swinger girls, whose boys agree to it, I mean banging the chicks without the guys knowing it. It&#39;s ultimately cool to hear them scream for your dick while within the same breath joking about their boys&#39; lack of crucial inches.

Who feels the same? or different? Tell me ur experiences&#33;

Bruce

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Getting girls to cheat is so easy, in my experience they lie about sex just as much as men do if not more. Yet they get offended if anyone tries to point this out but it is so extremely true. I even have a friend who works as an amateur pornographer and fully 80% of the girls he has come to have sex with him on camera have boyfriends (sometimes girlfriends or husbands) that they are lying to. I read before my last trip to Europe that it is easier to get laid with a married woman in Poland than it is with a young college girl. Explanation I saw suggested for this is that the country is very conservative... no rubbing up against each other in night clubs... very little pre-marital sex... a lot of girls and guys there rush in to marraige at young ages before they are very experienced with relationships or sex and end up in relationships that are sexually unfulfilling. So they end up cheating a lot.

In my own little anecdotal bit of research in to the matter, this panned out to be true, at least in my case. I did make out with several young girls in the couple weeks I was in the country, and maybe could have bedded some of them if I had been there longer (and god I wish I had, girls over there are so fucking beautiful)... but the only one I had sex with was a married woman I met the second day I was there. She and her husband were both extremely warm and nice, as was almost every person I met in Poland, they took me out to dinner a few times, she even washed my laundry while I was there, and then she came on to me and we ended up having sex in the sand some place secluded. She was moaning things in Polish the whole time so I&#39;m not sure exactly what she was saying or if any of it was penis-related. Only thing I picked up was "proshe, proshe, proshe" which I know means "please". Her English was very poor so I don&#39;t know what about me she found attractive, she told me I gave her butterflies. Part of it may have been her feeling sorry for me, I went to Poland originally on a quest to find this girl I&#39;d been in love with for a few years, and I did find her, but she told me to go away.

Funny thing is I still get postcards and e-mails from her husband periodically. Really nice guy.

To date I believe this is the only experience I&#39;ve had involving actual full-on intercourse with someone who was in a real, committed relationship. Can&#39;t say that it was any more or less fulfilling than any other sexual encounter I&#39;ve had because of that reason. Though, if you don&#39;t especially like the person and are only interested in sex, it is kind of nice to know in the back of your mind that after the sex is over they&#39;re going to be going home with someone else.

By the way Zora, like the new pic. Lookin&#39; good.

 

[MASSIVEPKGO_CHUCK]

Originally posted by madame_zora+Jan 21 2005, 11:01 AM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(madame_zora &#064; Jan 21 2005, 11:01 AM)</div><div class='quotemain'>

Originally posted by SurferGirlCA@Jan 21 2005, 08:10 AM
<!--QuoteBegin-madame_zora

@Jan 20 2005, 08:03 AM
I had a realtionship with a married man once a long time ago. I didn&#39;t feel too bad about it because he had an open arrangement with his wife and I wasn&#39;t his only other partner, but since then I&#39;ve decided not to be with married men. I think it&#39;s the responsibility of the person IN the relationship to be faithful, not the outside person, but still, mine is a selfish perspective. I don&#39;t want to give all of myself to only get half of them, it isn&#39;t really fair to me.

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I was going to mention that, too. I mean, the possibility that sometimes an "open relationship" may exist, but in that case, it&#39;s not cheating so the original post wouldn&#39;t apply. I&#39;ve been propositioned a few times in this manner and I always wondered if both parties involved knew the relationship was open. Not that some guys will say anything to get you in bed, but...

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Yeah, it was very weird for me, but I guess it was a timing thing then that I didn&#39;t want a full time relationship anyway. I actually met his wife, since I&#39;d be lied to once before as a teenager and was taking no chances about their "arrangement".
It was a fun time, he taught me a lot about sex and I think of him fondly, I just don&#39;t think I have any need to repeat the experience.

Most guys who say they&#39;re in an open relationship haven&#39;t told their s/o yet&#33;

I agree with jonb, DMW, and the bunch that without permission, it&#39;s just a shitty thing to do to treat so casually the happiness of another.

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Well, I learned from the experience I described in my last post, and thankfully have not repeated the past.

Between you and me, I think I felt more relieved when i learned the truth about the whole mess, and just how far my "friend" was willing to go to get me & her hooked up. I really dodged a bullet with that one, and don&#39;t plan on it again.

It&#39;s disgusting the way alot of people devalue other&#39;s feelings in all this, and I certainly hope that whoever I hook up with doesn&#39;t.

 

[jonb]

The idea that women don&#39;t cheat is more Victorian idealism. The Victorians weren&#39;t necessarily misogynistic; they actually thought women were for various reasons more moral than men. So women were (naturally) held to a higher standard. As Gloria Steinem put it, "A pedestal is as much a prison as any small, confined place."

 

[13788]

Captin_hung: Ah this makes me remember of how my uncle got sent to prison
his girlfriend of 2 years cheated on him with her ex. But to bad for the ex that my uncle had a very bad temper he saw him in town one night and bet him to a bloody pulp.
The ex got taken to hospital and had to have facial reconstruction now hes so ugly he cant get any woman not to mention that he now has brain damage, so i dont think he will be making anyone cheat anymore.

So just a warning to those who get off on other peoples girls,becareful who you mess with cause there are some people out there who would and will take great delight in destroying your life if you mess with their relationships

oh and did i mention that my uncle gets out at the end of this year

 

[B_HungSpermBoy]

Originally posted by SurferGirlCA@Jan 20 2005, 12:30 AM
I know the original poster is getting an "earful" here, but I have to chime in with those expressing disdain for cheating. I know we&#39;re all only human and I know some relationships are messed up and prolly should have been over by the time the cheating happens, but I think if you&#39;re mature enough to decide you want to be in a relationship, you have to take responsibility for that and all the ramifications. We could start a whole &#39;nother thread on how low self-esteem causes people to enter into relationships they really shouldn&#39;t be in, and then perhaps sabotaging them by, oops, cheating. Bottom line, if the relationship is over, level with your partner/spouse and let both parties have a say in how things end. The pain may still be there, but it allows each person to keep their dignity and self-respect.

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I&#39;m not very experienced in relationships,but it seems to me that there&#39;s a lot of low self-esteem in a situation like this to go around. If a guy or girl really wants to cheat with someone&#39;s spouse or partner behind their back, it seems like that guy or girl also has low self-esteem. Hurting an innocent person is fucked-up for all parties.

 

[malito]

Having been on the other end of this type of behavior, it hurts&#33;&#33;&#33; I was over seas serving my country when I found out that my girl friend of several years was getting it on with one of the draft dodgers. I knew him and knew that he was hung well.
I was over 3,000 miles away and there was no way I could have done anything about it. I decided to count it up to being small and got real drunk. In face i became a real drunk for a long time. It just hurt so bad. You may think it is all cool and you have some sort of power but, it hurts real people.
I&#39;m over that now and have a loving wife of 30 years. All we think of is us.
If you are into this sort of behavior I pitty you. You have no respect for the other man, her, or yourself.

 

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NineInchCock_160IQ:

Originally posted by malito@Jan 27 2005, 08:59 PM
Having been on the other end of this type of behavior, it hurts&#33;&#33;&#33; I was over seas serving my country when I found out that my girl friend of several years was getting it on with one of the draft dodgers. I knew him and knew that he was hung well.
I was over 3,000 miles away and there was no way I could have done anything about it. I decided to count it up to being small and got real drunk. In face i became a real drunk for a long time. It just hurt so bad. You may think it is all cool and you have some sort of power but, it hurts real people.
I&#39;m over that now and have a loving wife of 30 years. All we think of is us.
If you are into this sort of behavior I pitty you. You have no respect for the other man, her, or yourself.

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First of all, if you and your girlfriend are in a monogamous relationship and she is screwing someone else because they have a bigger dick than you do... fuck her... and not in the literal sense... because you can do better. Obviously you&#39;ve figured this out by now if you&#39;ve been happily married for 30 years. Sounds like you could have benefitted from figuring this out sooner.

Secondly, why are you blaming the dudes with the big wangs? If some girl in a relationship goes out looking for extracurricular sex... it&#39;s not our responsibility to stop her. If this is a problem for whomever she is involved with, well, either this couple has incompatible views on fidelity, or she&#39;s somehow dissatisfied with the relationship and needs to move on anyway, or maybe she&#39;s just a very sexual person and why ought we try to stop her from getting what she wants? I use the term "very sexual person" here, because personally I don&#39;t really believe strongly in monogamy. If you had a problem with this behavior you might in stead refer to her as a slut. anyway, if a girl is cheating, and this is somehow a problem, then I&#39;m quite sure the problem lies deeper than what the size of some other&#39;s dude&#39;s dick is. This guy did you and your future wife a favor.