Am I in the minority with the following opinion?
Personally, I LIKE resting after i shoot my load.
I like riding the edge to get there, taking my time enjoying the feeling, but to me the orgasm is a proper ending.
Hell, I just did ALL that work, felt all that amazing buildup -- why would I not want to enjoy the most excellent feeling and release there ever was?
I completely collapse after most orgasms, and I LOVE the incomparable relaxation that I feel when I do.
Often during a second RIGHT NOW go-round, I find myself fighting my own body (when my cock clearly wants to rest) and my mind (when i feel a bit cheated for having done all the getting there and only a fleeting moment of BEING there).
Now, after a bite to eat and a nap? A couple hours later, babe, yes, let's do it again! But after that second one, you can forget it till in the morning.
I love being horny, I love sex, but I also love the release of sexual tension, and except on the horniest of occasions, i want to enjoy every phase in its fullest.
It's not psychologically how I picture myself, of course. Every man is "supposed" to be ready to go whenever, wherever, and as many times as is asked.
It's taken some work to feel okay about not being the fictional "stud", and to not worry about perceptions of my performance.