she had the baby the first week of june and i got to see it.. but that was all i wanted. there has been no problems. the contract is safe in the bank.
by the way it is a boy.
I give you a lot of credit. I know for a fact I couldn't do something like that. It would always weigh on my mind that I had a child out there somewhere. I mean, the process of doing it is always fun, and you had two lesbians do you, so that was even better.
As long as everyone involved was ok with it I guess all is well. I just really hope that one day you don't change your mind and want to be a part of this child's life. It is much harder for a man to change his mind and want back in then it is for a woman. That's just the reality of the situation.
I have a question, though. You say these lesbians are friends. I assume you're going to continue being friends. If so, this child will be in your life in some fashion. Are you ok dealing with that part of it?