cum to quick

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  1. thecar

    thecar New Member

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    whats the best way to stop cumming to quick as soon as i put my cock in my girlfriend after a few seconds i cum
    heard you can by sprays any help please
     
  2. 95LSv

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    There are quite a few products out there... There are desensitizing gels, they also have condoms with a numbing lubricant, haven't tried any of these but they're out there... Usually if I just wear a condom I can go as long as I want, you could try that... Also if you cum before you have sex you will last longer... Sometimes my girl does oral on me before we fuck and then i can also last as long as i want to...
     
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    The best way to beat this is to just have as much sex with her as you can. You'll learn to control it. I speak from experience, when I first started getting laid, I was a two pump chump.
     
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    get drunk.
     
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    practice makes perfect
     
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    I'm not that bad, but I'm definitely someone who can't last. I think I'd agree with the fact that practice makes better. It's all about controlling the muscle at your perineum.
     
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    kegel fin
     
  8. brinzaulsschwul

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    Here we go again

    The gels and creams might do something for you, but at the end of the day you need to learn to control yourself.

    This is an easy exercise for you to do anywhere, after you have practised in the toilet

    go to the loo with a full bladder
    start to pee and stop, by squeezing the muscles in the perineum, that's the place under you legs between your balls and arse
    DO NOT USE YOUR FINGERS OR THUMB TO SQUEEZE IT OFF
    hold the pee in for 5 seconds and let it go again
    now squeeze the muscles again and stop peeing
    hold for a further 5 seconds and then empty your bladder

    you are now ready to start practising
    you can start off with 5 reps and build up to 10, 15 20 and so on

    all you now have to do at anytime of the or night and in any place (no one will know what you are doing) squeeze that muscle and hold it for 10 seconds let it go and repeat this for 5 reps

    when you are able to do this with ease build up to 10 reps and do it 5/6 times a day

    Now go and jerk off and when you are getting close to cuming squeeze that muscle and stop the ejaculation.

    don't worry if it does not happen 1st time, try again and you will soon become a stayer!!

    Now for the immediate future and can try jerking off and cuming before you see your girl and when you have sex, you should last a little longer

    You did not say how old you are and I have assumed that you are young, if you are older, it might be worth a visit to your doctor to see if you have anything with the prostate wrong

    Good luck, relax and go with it try not to think about it and just enjoy the sex, try plenty of foreplay as well before you try to penetrate, bring her close to orgasm then enter her

    lots of things to do

    Brinz
     
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    When I first got married, I had this problem. My answer was to wear a condom. It dulls the senses and takes you longer to cum. As you have more and more sex this will lessen.
     
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    +1 on getting drunk... everytime i did that it was impossible for me to cum, so I lasted FOREVER :cool:
     
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    So true!
     
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