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Is there any miracle drugs or supplements out there that can help for those of us who seem to cum too soon?

If I am sober and playing around with a partner it takes great concentration not to cum too soon. Like maybe a couple minutes after getting my cock in (pussy, ass or mouth, even someone else's hand). I do however stay hard for a bit after cumming so at least I can still fuck for a bit and get her off. The best fuck sessions are of course after a night of drinking where I can stay rock hard for hours before I cum. Have also had great sessions after taking a few Tylenol 3's for back pain or whatever, or when I was younger I used to party with other illicit drugs, they must numb my penis just enough. Just looking for something a little healthier that might do the trick. Cumming too soon with a partner is a big reason why I like to jerk off on cam. It's all me controlling it and I can edge for hours. I think the longest session I've had is about 7 hours. Lots of fun but can get pretty sore, but the huge cumshot at the end is so worth it.

I have tried the age old solutions but they don't seem to work. You know the ones... think about something non-sexual; jerk off and cum before having sex; desensitizing lube or condoms (which do kinda work but it can be a little embarrassing to have to stop and put on condom or gel just to prevent cumming too fast). Much rather take a pill or vitamin before hand.
 
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Dapoxetine is an SSRI I believe. It’s supposed to help with premature ejaculation. You can find it on some peptide sites. Check the recommended dosages.I think it’s 30-60mgs everyday. I tried it maybe a year ago. At 60mgs it was killing my sex drive completely
 
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Premature ejaculation is a big problem for me. When hard I can get off in 10-15 seconds. As the previous poster said about staying hard after ejaculating, I can keep a hard-on for several minutes longer and satisfy my wife. If we have a lazy day I can last much longer a second time after waiting 30 minutes. That is sometimes difficult with our busy schedule.
 

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Personally i would not risk taking any kind of drug, may sound obvious, but have you tried used alot of lube while fucking, even if nether of you need it, to reduce the amount of friction?
 
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Is there any miracle drugs or supplements out there that can help for those of us who seem to cum too soon?

If I am sober and playing around with a partner it takes great concentration not to cum too soon. Like maybe a couple minutes after getting my cock in (pussy, ass or mouth, even someone else's hand). I do however stay hard for a bit after cumming so at least I can still fuck for a bit and get her off. The best fuck sessions are of course after a night of drinking where I can stay rock hard for hours before I cum. Have also had great sessions after taking a few Tylenol 3's for back pain or whatever, or when I was younger I used to party with other illicit drugs, they must numb my penis just enough. Just looking for something a little healthier that might do the trick. Cumming too soon with a partner is a big reason why I like to jerk off on cam. It's all me controlling it and I can edge for hours. I think the longest session I've had is about 7 hours. Lots of fun but can get pretty sore, but the huge cumshot at the end is so worth it.

I have tried the age old solutions but they don't seem to work. You know the ones... think about something non-sexual; jerk off and cum before having sex; desensitizing lube or condoms (which do kinda work but it can be a little embarrassing to have to stop and put on condom or gel just to prevent cumming too fast). Much rather take a pill or vitamin before hand.
Try “edging” it’s where you stroke your cock to the point where you think your going to cum then you stop. This will help to keep yourself from cumming too soon. There are several threads about edging on this site. Check it out.
 

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Yes I edge quite often and for long periods too. It has definitely helped but damn the feeling of a warm wet pussy around my cock is just too awesome. Lube can help a bit too. After reading the side effects of that supplement dapoxetine it almost seems safer to go back the illicit drug route. Kidding of course, kinda. I think just the natural ways and techniques are the better option even if it means not lasting that long.
 

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It happens to all us guys at times. I can remember one time being with a lovely lady at her home and Wearing a sky blue leotard and white tights. She was already in her nighties. Those leotard and tights were making me feel very horny too,when she had me lying on the bed while slowly trying to get me naked. We really enjoyed one another's company while seeing how hard I was in those leotards, she knew I might have a premature ejaculation, as she continued peeling the blue leotard down to my lower waist. The feeling of the soft clinging lycra material slowly coming down was beautiful and wasn't sure I could hold in my pent up energy much longer. She stopped a few minutes, watching me squirm while trying to cover my now wet erection, still snug in leotard and tights. Now she continued peeling them off me,while firmly unsnugging the leotard with those beautiful white tights, when I prematurely ejaculated in them. She continued stripping both the soiled leotard, tights and ballet undies off. I was still hard for a short time once I was naked, feeling somewhat ashamed, but she gave me a big kiss and said she enjoyed seeing my premature ejaculation and don't feel bad about it. She said this can be a normal happening of a healthy male. It was a wonderful experience for both of us. So guys, if your'e still young, it can happen and most women will understand. Just enjoy one another's company even if you have a prematue ejaculation.
 
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