Samantha Hopkins
Loved Member
As a gay male who dresses female, I have always thought it was kinda neat when a guy would cum before he wanted to. It makes me feel sexy.
If you have a regular partner, learning dick control can be really fun for both of you. Basically you start communicating. What you want to do is get inside him. Don't move, just be there. Trust me, this is fun for the bottom. while you are there, start looking for that "i am going to cum feeling" as you get batter and better at knowing the "I am going to cum feeling", you will start pulling out in time to not cum. At the same time, you will get used to being inside of him and can last a bit longer.
The first guy who I did cock control with was in college. I could blow him for hours and he had no problem, but as soon as his cock touched my ass he would spray his load all over me. I thought it was sexy, because I had usually spent a couple of hours getting dressed, doing my hair and make up. He had a thing for garters and high heels, and making him cum and wanting me was the whole point for me. But it really bothered him terribly.
What I did was tone down the dressing and make up and I put two condoms on him. We would spoon in bed together, with his cock pressed against my hole. It was delightful torture for me. He would push into me little by little. getting used to my body. It was all I could do not to push back on him. we would just lay there, talking. Talking and talking and talking. Once he was able to be fully inside me without exploding, we took off the condoms. I spent hours every week, with him inside me. It was really relaxing and comfortable.
Eventually he was able to make a few thrusts without cumming. Then he was able to catch himself and stay inside me without cumming. Seriously we would count his thrusts. Three and four thrusts in a row would leave him grunting and gnashing his teeth to keep from cumming. Eventually it became 5 then 10 and then he could go like a minute, by Christmas break he could do three or four minute stretches without having to be still to keep from cumming.
Christmas break was a bit of a set back, but a Saturday in bed cured that. Then all of a sudden, one day, he didn't stop. He just kept going and going. Once he found his dick control, I could ride him cowboy like a lunatic and he would wait until I came or came at the same time. It was awesome for him and me. He ended up married with kids, but we have always stayed in touch. We have a really cool connection.
A lot of married guys have the same problem, so being willing to work it out with them has been fun.
If you have a regular partner, learning dick control can be really fun for both of you. Basically you start communicating. What you want to do is get inside him. Don't move, just be there. Trust me, this is fun for the bottom. while you are there, start looking for that "i am going to cum feeling" as you get batter and better at knowing the "I am going to cum feeling", you will start pulling out in time to not cum. At the same time, you will get used to being inside of him and can last a bit longer.
The first guy who I did cock control with was in college. I could blow him for hours and he had no problem, but as soon as his cock touched my ass he would spray his load all over me. I thought it was sexy, because I had usually spent a couple of hours getting dressed, doing my hair and make up. He had a thing for garters and high heels, and making him cum and wanting me was the whole point for me. But it really bothered him terribly.
What I did was tone down the dressing and make up and I put two condoms on him. We would spoon in bed together, with his cock pressed against my hole. It was delightful torture for me. He would push into me little by little. getting used to my body. It was all I could do not to push back on him. we would just lay there, talking. Talking and talking and talking. Once he was able to be fully inside me without exploding, we took off the condoms. I spent hours every week, with him inside me. It was really relaxing and comfortable.
Eventually he was able to make a few thrusts without cumming. Then he was able to catch himself and stay inside me without cumming. Seriously we would count his thrusts. Three and four thrusts in a row would leave him grunting and gnashing his teeth to keep from cumming. Eventually it became 5 then 10 and then he could go like a minute, by Christmas break he could do three or four minute stretches without having to be still to keep from cumming.
Christmas break was a bit of a set back, but a Saturday in bed cured that. Then all of a sudden, one day, he didn't stop. He just kept going and going. Once he found his dick control, I could ride him cowboy like a lunatic and he would wait until I came or came at the same time. It was awesome for him and me. He ended up married with kids, but we have always stayed in touch. We have a really cool connection.
A lot of married guys have the same problem, so being willing to work it out with them has been fun.
