PornForPatric.....
I never really thought of it in that way, but yes, it is in a way a type of meditation because it take a lot of mental consentration....and yes lots of work and lots of time!
Quiet consentration and doing kegels for 20, 30 minutes, or an hour plus...without stopping, takes a lot or work....it cannot be rushed, and you have to have the patience of Job.....but the results is worth every second of it.
A couple of ways to maybe help you get over "that hands-free hump"....
When in boarding school and wanting to refrain from making noise or movement of
any kind, I used to do this...
While Flaccid:
My favorite way, by far for handsfree wanking...is done while FLACCID. It takes the
longest, but for me.....obtains me the most awesome results in the end.
1) Lay on your back and kegel. The jerking motion of your flaccid, shrinking and relaxing against your stomach or leg/thigh...will eventually cause a bit of friction on your cockhead. Concentrate on this friction, which will become more intense over time.
Make sure you refrain from getting hard for this will raise your cock off your stomach or leg/thigh and will defeat the purpose. It make take a hour or so, but when you do orgasm.....if it is like mine....it will be awesome!
2) Do the same thing but on your side...but letting your cock rest on your thigh/leg.
3) Lay on your side and tuck your flaccid cock between your balls and leg....reach around and grab the head and pull it as far towards your butt as possible. Shut your legs and then slowly straighten your legs until you feel your cock stretchiing. Start
kegeling. This will cause the cock to "jump", sort of "in and out" between your tightly
closed legs....basicly having it's way with your legs..:biggrin:...keep it up until you reach that awesome place....and enjoy!
While Erect:
1) You can do this laying down, standing up, sitting at the computer, whatever....just
concentrate and kegel with an erection...letting your cock jump up and down.....not touching anything....until you reach your orgasm....
2) This is Cheating ( I tried this at school and was caught..:frown1
The same, but in bed on your back....with the sheet over you with your cock making a tent with the sheet.....the friciton against the sheet while kegeling with do the trick...no hands, but a little help from the sheet...