Cumming in your 40s, 50s and older

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  1. Kauri Tree

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    This survey is for the oldies like myself. I'm very curious as to how I average out in the cumming department with people from my age group. I often get depressed at reading the boisterous shooting achivements of our young-and-hung. But maybe I'm just fine for my age.

    I overwent a sort of sexual crisis during my early forties, when my ejaculations began dwindling sharply and my orgasms were very poor. I was told it was due to overwork and stress. I had an early retirement a couple of years ago and I must say that my libido has regained strength significantly. I eat well and drink fluids and I now have a reasonably frequent sexual activity.

    So the following are pretty much my vital coordinates these days when I'm about to turn 50:

    - I have sex or masturbate 2 to 3 times a week
    - I am small but my erections are very hard and stay stiff for long periods (can easily handle a 1h foreplay session).
    - Never taken Viagra
    - The only supplement I take is Maca, but only periodically. I find it has increased my cum volume and orgasm capacity.
    - I have measured my cum volume several times by ejaculating into a condom, then transfering to a syringe and ...voila, I get the exact measure in ml. No cheating. What I get is an average of 4 to 4.5 ml, with a maximum of 6.5 ml when I was exceptionally horny and after a 3 day abstinence. This is a lot more that 5 years ago but a lot less than in my twenties.
    - I have like 9 to 12 contractions per orgasm but I rarely shoot (like 6 inches); otherwise I mostly dribble.
    - After cumming I sleep, so no multiples for me (as in my teens!!)

    Am I ok? I'd like to hear from you oldies.
     
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    At 57 my orgasms are more intense and last longer than they used too. With oral sex I don't know if it is because my wife is better at it and she is willing or able to blow me for a longer period of time than in the past, or because I also give her more direction than before and I seem more relaxed, less anxious to cum, receiving oral sex. Part of it is that we have oral sex more often than we used too, sometimes twice a week.
     
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    OK, as part of this age group I have to say I feel lucky to have a satisfying orgasm, no toruble with erections, etc. I maintain an erection for a long time. I do have sex partners (men) and I now am starting to see a new guy semi-regular, so I am pretty happy. Still I do jack-off sometimes, but not as much as I used to, now that I have a partner more often. I have had comments and compliments on the amount of semen and how far I shoot it. I regularly shoot it on my mid to upper chest, and when especially aroused I shoot up on my face and hair, or when I pull it out of my partners ass, I shoot it on his face and neck. (I have sometimes jacked off with a partner who likes to see the show.. I have even hit the wall behind the bedpost a couple of times, but that is rare.

    I have never measured the volume of cum, but it fills up the bottom end of a condom (and not just the reservoir tip).

    Interesting topic..
     
  4. just me

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    have no trouble with erections... hard, stiff and stay... number of times per week and per session has dimenished ... orgasm still blasts my ass out BUT cum is less.... have tried viagra just to try it... it was good but i had anything outside of ordinary and normal.... one of the reasons i have not used rubbers... by the way I am married...
     
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    Hmmmmmm...I'm over 50, haven't used Viagra (yet) but like the other men in this thread, I'm not dead meat sexually...(no, I NEVER cruise young men)..I have to think a bit more about this before I comment.
     
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    I am 73, probably older than many of you guys admit to being. I stay fit through daily swimming. I still feel the need to cum at least daily and especially like to jack to porn and edge for an hour or so and to receive oral sex from time to time. Am not curently fucking anybody. I do sometimes use a small amount of Viagra to enhance erection quality. My quantity of cum and ejaculative force vary from mild to extreme.. not too different from age 40. The great thing about my cock is that it is larger in length and girth now than at any younger age.... do admit to jelquing to keep it healthy!! When erect, my cock appears just as vital and capable as at age 20. The sensation and pleasure that I derive from an orgasm has remained pretty constant over time and I can still cum two or three times in one session when desired.:smile:
     
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    Well, I also fill up the bottom end of the condom and, as I said, I measured 4.5 ml on average. So you are maybe like me, more or less. Unless you're talking Magnums in which case the reservoir would take up double the volume.On the rare occasion when I've shot my maximum volume the semen tended to seep up the space between my skin and the condom, making it a mess when taking it out.

    How old are you Jack btw?
     
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    You are amazing, donkeyboy! You must have great genes to have that stamina at 73!


    Anybody else from our age group want to comment or measure up?
     
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    Well, I'm 42 and can get an erection as easily as when I was 18. Can't cum 5 times a session like i did then, but twice is easily achievable. Oral sex gives me better orgasms these days then either vaginal or anal. I think being fit and healthy - I'm the same weight as when I was 21 - plays a large part.
     
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    I'm an overwight 43 year old guy but my dick does not seem to think it is a problem.

    I can always go two rounds in a row and usually a third and sometimes a fourth. We have a session at night then another in the morning.

    By the end at least 6 condoms are goners and sometimes 8 or 9....I am always horny as heck in the spring.

    The idea of using something to get me hard just scares. It would most likely just break off after the 12th condom is filled.
     
  11. Mr. Snakey

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    Im 46 My erections a probably just as good as when i was younger I think the key to keeping a healthy penis is keeping a healthy mind Also for me personally being involved with a women half my age riding me everynight helps alot too:wink:
     
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    43 here. Despite lifelong attention to a healthy diet and excercise, its sad to see every aspect of my functions (except desire) slowing badly.
     
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    Still enjoying erections in the morning, throughout the night, and whenever, and still have an insatiable need to get off as much as possible.
     
  14. basque9

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    Kauri Tree... thanks for your kudos.... I attribute my stamina to good nutrition and daily swimming. I do what it takes to stay as fit and muscular as an older guy can!
     
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    Thanks for answering this thread. Seems desire and erections are not a problem at all for us. But could you please estimate the volume of cum you produce per ejaculation (or per session for those who can still repeat)? I think the decrease in volume over the decades is more of a factor in the ageing process.
     
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    Hi, I'm 60. Desire and volume remains very good, but it seem I don't keep my erection as long as younger (full erection was ever a little problem for me, my GP says it's due to my size!). I have tried this some weeks ago : three j/o in less than 4 minutes. Just once for the fun. :biggrin1:
    long life to our sexlife !
     
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    The amount of cum first time in a session is somewhere between a teaspoon and a tablespoon for me... second cum is a teaspoon or less... third time is measured in drops. I no longer push my luck for a dry fourth session! When I was very young and about to ship-out overseas for military service, I spent my last night fucking somebody and had a dozen cums in a single session. The last several were completely :tongue: dry.
     
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    46 here. As I workout 5-6x per week, and eat a healthy diet, my erections are just as firm as they ever were. Orgasms are, infact, probably more intense now than ever before. And, for some reason, I shoot farther now than ever before. Major difference is refractory period, but still can hit it a couple of times a night when I'm REALLY motivated!
     
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    I am 77. I was married to a female 29 years and until the last 4 of those years had intercourse fairly regularly once or twice a week. During that time I tried to downplay my gay side, but always feeling 'different'. The first time I measured my distance and quantity was at age 51 or 52 and I measured the distance of the first stream over 5.5 feet, some shy of 6. Because of the comments from a male with whom I had sex, I measured to tell him it was over 1 fluid ounce in a shot glass.

    Reading this thread just now, I hardened and climaxed in the same shot glass measuring only 1/4 fluid ounce. My distance has drastically decreased, only expelling a few inches (less than 6) for the first shot. During my 60s, I noticed no appreciative change in my sexual drive, nor in my amount or distance of shooting.

    About a year ago, I began an intense sexual cyber relationship and often had the second climax with him immediately after the first. We often counted the contractions and my usual were 9, 10, 11, and even 12. After a half year or so, on his part, we stopped engaging in this activity. This has been a dramatic let-down for me and no longer enjoy the multiple contractions, amounts of precum nor semen and distances, whether alone or with a partner.

    In my early 70s, I could tell a difference in the firmness of my erections, even failing to wake up with a boner in the mornings. Since beginning jelqing a couple of years ago, I am usually hard when I awaken now and have several hardons during the normal day. LPSG has certainly contributed to this, should I say "phenomenon".

    I hope I've not given too much info, Kauri Tree!
     
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    Thank u guys! Very interesting thread for sure!

    To me is soooooo charming a man with some gray hair and wrinkles around the eyes and already a long time profissional in something for a long time..and THE sexual experience and so many other things...just beautiful U all are beautiful!!!

    Kisses and hope everyone ages "nice"....:tongue:
     
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