Cumming through grinding

Who cums through grinding? I have been cumming this way as far as I can remember but I hear a lot of guys can only cum by jerking with their hand.
I’ve done this before. Quite a few places throughout the years. Sometimes you jut gotta nut in your pants.

So do you cum on your motorcycle.
 
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Who cums through grinding? I have been cumming this way as far as I can remember but I hear a lot of guys can only cum by jerking with their hand.
This is always a huge turn on in my head...though when I've actually had the opportunity to do it in real life with a guy, it rarely has the pleasure associated with it that my mind thinks it should.

I guess I should step back and ask...are you referring to grinding by yourself with an object, like a pillow or something...Or with someone else? And with or without underwear on?

As far as my comment above about it not feeling quite as pleasurable as I expect it should...I've tried this with underwear or Speedos...slippery ones....and the motion has been pleasurable, but I can't seem to get my cock stimulated enough through the fabric to actually cum. Without underwear, I find that my cock flops around too much even when hard to maintain decent friction.
 
Used to use my mind to do that on the school bus. Lol - mind and micromovement. :joy:
 
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This is always a huge turn on in my head...though when I've actually had the opportunity to do it in real life with a guy, it rarely has the pleasure associated with it that my mind thinks it should.

I guess I should step back and ask...are you referring to grinding by yourself with an object, like a pillow or something...Or with someone else? And with or without underwear on?

As far as my comment above about it not feeling quite as pleasurable as I expect it should...I've tried this with underwear or Speedos...slippery ones....and the motion has been pleasurable, but I can't seem to get my cock stimulated enough through the fabric to actually cum. Without underwear, I find that my cock flops around too much even when hard to maintain decent friction.
I do it both with people and alone. I also enjoy doing it in speedos or underwear.
 
Hot way to get off with one night stand and be safe and hot.
I have never found anyone that is simply satisfied with just doing this. It's a bummer...because I think it would be lots of fun.
 
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It can be very hot and enjoyable if both are into it. Not everything has to be about penetration. I've also found that people who like to grind or frot are likely to also enjoy kissing and cuddling and exploring each others' bodies, because for them, it's a whole-body experience.
 
me on bottom his full body weight on me our dicks in between us side by side our balls are sack on sack grinding away the smell of his neck his chest on mine. I have my hands on his ass pulling him tighter on me. the feel of his body on me as I start to feel the tension build in my junk he starts to moan his grinding gets harder and faster. there is a little pain as my nuts are getting squashed between us but it is a good pain. I wrap my arms around him squeezing him tight as my cock explodes my sperm juice in between us. then Noah is breathing heavy one last grind and he cums to. he colapses on me catching his breath slime in between us we fall asleep in each others arms frotting is a good thing
 
Growing up I often had sleep overs with older girl cousins and we always slept in our underwear/panties and they always would climb on top of me and grind me to an orgasm. They often turned it into a competition to see which one of them could make me orgasm the fastest.

It was very satisfying for sure.
 
It can be very hot and enjoyable if both are into it. Not everything has to be about penetration. I've also found that people who like to grind or frot are likely to also enjoy kissing and cuddling and exploring each others' bodies, because for them, it's a whole-body experience.
Also, it gives two tops an opportunity to enjoy each other.



Amen to that...
 
In private, with any woman I was with, any grinding has eventually turned into intercourse. At a very crowded bar, a girlfriend backed her bodacious booty into my crotch and we 'danced' a little to the loud music. I got rock hard, but wasn't about to allow myself to cum, as the night was young. After we got home that night, I most certainly came deep inside her!

The only other times I experienced some serious grinding was at some lapdance clubs in the pre-Guliani days of NYC. Having gorgeous women intentionally move their butts, grinding away in my lap, always gave me rock hard erections, but I never allowed myself to cum, as I didn't want to deal with the mess, and walking back to my hotel with a giant cum stain on my pants!
 
I enjoy finding strippers who will grind away and hitting that moment where I let go and cum in my pants as she is grinding. Feels amazing and we'll worth the trip home with a strain in my pants.
 
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Frequently "dry humped" during teenage years before I had actual sex. Currently, just a tease or prelude to intercourse and I save my orgasm for the main event.
 
When I was younger, I used to "dry hump" my pillow. Sometimes in the early stages of sex, it can be really hot to grind against the woman. For some reason, it's even hotter when we're both still partially clothed -- me in my underwear and she in her panties.


When I and my wife were "just friends"* and she was living with a guy named Don, they would tell me about a guy across the way who'd put on a "sex show" for them every now and then. One night when I was there, Don came running into the front room announcing, "He's on!" and we scurried into their darkened bedroom to watch through the open window. At first the guy jacked off, then turned over and dry-humped his pillow to climax. The two buildings were close together and we got a surprisingly good view, especially with the aid of Don's binoculars!

He was a fairly stocky, good-looking, short-haired brunet with a fair amount of body hair. His dick looked a little below average, though perhaps on the chubby side. I remember Don pointing out somewhat smugly that the guy wasn't really that big (he was reportedly "pretty big" himself).

I must admit it was a really hot experience voyeuring their next-door neighbor like that. Especially since he had his windows open and blinds up, and was obviously aware of his audience. My future wife and Don would see him every now and then at the pool, but none of them ever gave any indication of the secret show. I always wondered whether the guy was a "solosexual" or whether he also had sex with chicks. He looked good enough to attract women, but for some reason his nightly performances seemed to hint to me of a solitary sex life.

My wife seems to attract things like this. Later, after she broke up with Don and living in another apartment building, a fireman in the apartment catty-corner across the way -- with his fly open, in full uniform and fire hat! -- used to jack off for her on his balcony every now and then. He would stare intently into her window while he flogged his cock. He was blonde and reportedly better hung.



* Though we were obviously nuts about each other, things never worked out for some reason or another, and we didn't have sex until just before we decided to get married, four years or so after we first met.
 
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I had a gf who was not into sex when she was on her period, but did like to have me hump her ass while she was in her underwear. She always wore silk panties which felt great to rub against. I'd grind on her and always shoot a huge load all over her back.