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Used to last about 15 minutes but now barely 1-2. Get instantly hard and then need to cum. Tried edging but not really working. Any help please.
Try kegel type exercises concentrate on holding and squeezing taint area,go for reps and time held multiple times a day.When taking a piss stop flow a few times everytime you go.When trying edging do it properly, stop before you shoot as many times as you can.Also boner pills can help you last longer but try the rest as well.Good Luck.
 

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Used to last about 15 minutes but now barely 1-2. Get instantly hard and then need to cum. Tried edging but not really working. Any help please.
Sounds like prostatitis. When I had it I would ejaculate as soon the tip of my cock hit my wife’s lips. Warm bath and Advil usually clears it up. Or else antibiotics from the doc
 
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Used to last about 15 minutes but now barely 1-2. Get instantly hard and then need to cum. Tried edging but not really working. Any help please.
I’ve always had this problem. I’ve tried literally everything you can think of, and nothing has ever worked. With age it has just gotten worse. Apparently men cum quicker as they get older too, so i don’t have much hope
 

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I’ve always had this problem. I’ve tried literally everything you can think of, and nothing has ever worked. With age it has just gotten worse. Apparently men cum quicker as they get older too, so i don’t have much hope
I never had an issue other than the prostatitis until I started taking erection pills and now it is a struggle to cum and rarely happens during sex
 
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I never had an issue other than the prostatitis until I started taking erection pills and now it is a struggle to cum and rarely happens during sex
That’s impressive! By erection pills are we talking ‘viagra’?
 
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Only way to get an erection mating more than about 2 minutes
My wife and I don’t have a very active sex life, and although I’ve had the sort of issues viagra is used for on a number of occasions we’ve never felt the need to use it. I never knew it could make me last longer before I cum. That’s very interesting!
 

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Funny, I used to think I had the same problem. 1-2 minutes and SPLAT. Then I started seriously watching and timing amateur porn, and guess what? While the professional (?) porn guys seem to last 30 min to an hour, once you start timing the amateurs from their penetration to ejaculation it's usually only about 1-2 minutes. Oh some last a bit longer, and there are guys who squirt within seconds. Real guys, in the real(ish) world come quickly. Stop worrying about it. In my very early days of vagi-sex, I was briefly a premature ejaculator. I was scared, nervous, unsure, and I could spray my little pollywogs before I finished the initial penetration. My record was squirting hands free with NO penetration three inches away from those pouting lips. Literally, I pointed and fired. I had a great, understanding partner, and ultimately things calmed down considerably. But now, vagi-sex lasts under 2 minutes. And it no longer irks me.
 

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Videos or it didn’t happen, people!

Quick cummers are amazing.
Not like 30 seconds though!

I am used to cum quite quickly, too quickly to be honest but as I’ve got older it’s got better. I’ve recently started taking meds that have almost made it impossible to cum as a side effect so I’m at the other end of the spectrum now! :mad:
 

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Not like 30 seconds though!

I am used to cum quite quickly, too quickly to be honest but as I’ve got older it’s got better. I’ve recently started taking meds that have almost made it impossible to cum as a side effect so I’m at the other end of the spectrum now! :mad:

No such thing as too quick for me. I would love to date a quick cummer.
 

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When I was with the first woman I had ever had sex with penetration probably lasted 5-7 minutes at best. At the end of our relationship she cheated on me and broke up with me and I was really depressed, but we hooked up a few more times. The few times we hooked up after I could only last a few minutes, she even made a comment about how quick it was, which was obviously embarrassing for me.

The point is that there can absolutely be a mental cause for cumming quickly. Society tells us that a man cumming quickly is a bad thing, so it causes paranoia that its going to happen and then it happens. I think its similar to guys who have average sized penises but think they are small, society tells them that small is bad and they start to become paranoid about it until they are convinced.

I think that when you find someone you are really comfortable with and you have a lot of sex with them, in a relaxed setting, you'll start to perform better and better, whether or not that means taking longer to cum.
 
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Just the opposite here. I use to have a lot of control and could last until I was ready to cum. Usually 15 to 20 minutes or after she came. Not It's a real struggle for me to cum at all. I hardly ever cum from intercourse.