Funny, I used to think I had the same problem. 1-2 minutes and SPLAT. Then I started seriously watching and timing amateur porn, and guess what? While the professional (?) porn guys seem to last 30 min to an hour, once you start timing the amateurs from their penetration to ejaculation it's usually only about 1-2 minutes. Oh some last a bit longer, and there are guys who squirt within seconds. Real guys, in the real(ish) world come quickly. Stop worrying about it. In my very early days of vagi-sex, I was briefly a premature ejaculator. I was scared, nervous, unsure, and I could spray my little pollywogs before I finished the initial penetration. My record was squirting hands free with NO penetration three inches away from those pouting lips. Literally, I pointed and fired. I had a great, understanding partner, and ultimately things calmed down considerably. But now, vagi-sex lasts under 2 minutes. And it no longer irks me.