cunnilingus tips

Discussion in 'Women's Issues' started by B_werfghj, May 15, 2005.

  1. B_werfghj

    B_werfghj New Member

    Joined:
    Mar 30, 2005
    Messages:
    126
    Likes Received:
    0
    Hello all,
    this is a question for the ladies out there!
    I know that everyone is DIFFERENT in what they like, but
    lets set some GENERAL standards when it comes to giving women head,
    what are some of the techniques you find to be the best?
    werfghj
     
    #1 B_werfghj, May 15, 2005
    Last edited by a moderator: Nov 13, 2010
  2. summertime01

    summertime01 New Member

    Joined:
    Feb 11, 2005
    Messages:
    208
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    1
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    North Carolina
    #1 is showing enthusiasm/true desire to find her 'spots'.
    #2 is paying attention to my moans.
    #3 is being gentle & teasing at first. i.e. licking/playing around the clit.
    #4 I can fell me getting wet, of course, but like to hear SO say that, too.
    #5 I like to fell him play w/ himself, if I'm not playing w/ him, to get himself ready for insertion.
     
  3. OldLady

    OldLady New Member

    Joined:
    Jun 9, 2005
    Messages:
    47
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    A nicely padded 8'x10' room
    Not exactly techniques, but my thoughts:

    1) Ask her what she likes (or if she likes it) when you do different things. Ask her to give you clear feedback.

    2) If she doesn't like something that you've used before, never say "well other women like it!" This can be a huge mood killer (basically, adding insult to injury). Women are very different; treat each of us as individuals, even if something works for all of us, just don't tell us that, heh! We like to feel special and unique.
     
    #3 OldLady, Jun 9, 2005
    Last edited by a moderator: Nov 13, 2010
  4. feelsblind

    feelsblind New Member

    Joined:
    Mar 3, 2005
    Messages:
    14
    Likes Received:
    0
    Hm. Well. Starting out with less is good because you don't know what she likes unless you've done it to her before. If you're too rough or start going constantly to one place, you'll ruin the mood. Try tongue exercizes before hand also to strengthen the muscles in your mouth.. Lick around the clit also before going straight towards it.
     
  5. BobLeeSwagger

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Mar 11, 2003
    Messages:
    1,481
    Likes Received:
    1
    Gender:
    Male
    This topic has been done before with more responses. Might want to check the older posts, especially the recent one called "Eating Pussy" in Young & Hung.
     
  6. Imported

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jan 1, 2000
    Messages:
    56,713
    Likes Received:
    55
    petite_asianbabe: I like it when my bf talks softly to me, listens to my responses/moans, is gentle and teasing. This is most important for me, to feel comfortable and relaxed.

    As for technique, my clit is ultra sensitive to direct stimulation so none of that in the beginning. But licking, suckling, nibbling the lips and inserting his tongue is all fair game!
     
Draft saved Draft deleted