cunnilingus tips

[B_werfghj]

Hello all,
this is a question for the ladies out there!
I know that everyone is DIFFERENT in what they like, but
lets set some GENERAL standards when it comes to giving women head,
what are some of the techniques you find to be the best?
werfghj

 

[summertime01]

#1 is showing enthusiasm/true desire to find her 'spots'.
#2 is paying attention to my moans.
#3 is being gentle & teasing at first. i.e. licking/playing around the clit.
#4 I can fell me getting wet, of course, but like to hear SO say that, too.
#5 I like to fell him play w/ himself, if I'm not playing w/ him, to get himself ready for insertion.

 

[OldLady]

Originally posted by werfghj@May 15 2005, 05:38 PM
Hello all,
this is a question for the ladies out there!
I know that everyone is DIFFERENT in what they like, but
lets set some GENERAL standards when it comes to giving women head,
what are some of the techniques you find to be the best?
werfghj

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Not exactly techniques, but my thoughts:

1) Ask her what she likes (or if she likes it) when you do different things. Ask her to give you clear feedback.

2) If she doesn't like something that you've used before, never say "well other women like it!" This can be a huge mood killer (basically, adding insult to injury). Women are very different; treat each of us as individuals, even if something works for all of us, just don't tell us that, heh! We like to feel special and unique.

 

[feelsblind]

Hm. Well. Starting out with less is good because you don't know what she likes unless you've done it to her before. If you're too rough or start going constantly to one place, you'll ruin the mood. Try tongue exercizes before hand also to strengthen the muscles in your mouth.. Lick around the clit also before going straight towards it.

 

[BobLeeSwagger]

This topic has been done before with more responses. Might want to check the older posts, especially the recent one called "Eating Pussy" in Young & Hung.

 

[13788]

petite_asianbabe: I like it when my bf talks softly to me, listens to my responses/moans, is gentle and teasing. This is most important for me, to feel comfortable and relaxed.

As for technique, my clit is ultra sensitive to direct stimulation so none of that in the beginning. But licking, suckling, nibbling the lips and inserting his tongue is all fair game!