Curious about ladies with toys bigger than their man

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  1. Ramsey

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    Any women here have any toys bigger than your hubby or boyfriend?
    How does he feel about it?
    Can you feel him after you've played with it?
    Do you ever use the toy for your jay-jay and him in the other region?
    Do you get just as much enjoyment out of sex with just him as you do with the toy even though it's bigger?
    Did you bring up the idea about using the toy during sex or did he? Or does he not know about it at all (keeping it for private use)?
    How did the subject get brought up to be used during lovemaking?

    Any other thoughts or reasons just share!
     
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    boys really need to understand there is sooo much more to sex than just the guy's peen dimensions. the boy's peen is loverly, and feels damn good. but it's the boy what makes sex addictive.

    even on the solo tip i don't option for anything larger than average.
     
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    I think most guys have the issue of worrying that some toy would do a better job then them. I used to be a tad uncomfortable with my wifes toy, it was a vibrator egg, only because it seemed to have to be included everytime. It made me feel like I wasn't doing something right. Then I grew the fuck up lol. I realized, with her help, that the toy is just because she likes it and not because I can't or don't do my part very well. So I can understand where some of that comes from I think. Suffice it to say since then me and the missus have used a wide variety of toys, including a little guy called the feel-do which can be very pleasurable. So i guess what I'm saying is i agree with ya Mickey. A toy is a toy, but without the boy it ain't as much fun.
    ;-)
     
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    Not only do I not have anything larger than him, I wouldn't even choose anything his size LOL! Really I'm dead serious.

    Anyway, there's no competition between my BOB and my hubby. Give me the flesh every time. Even if I never get there, which would be rare, I'd still rather be with him. And it has absolutely nothing to do with size.
     
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    No to all points. Until toys have brains, I can't be bothered with them.

    That said, the odd (and the odder the better) costume, cock ring, chain, multiple partner, etc., is all fun and nice.
     
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    A large percentage of my toys are larger than my usual playmates.
    They get hidden away and never feature when the playmate is present unless some sort of humiliation play of part of our dynamic.

    No toys are used during a play date until I know how small/large he is and then I make sure any toys are smaller than he is.
     
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    This has been my experience with many of the women I've dated.

    However, I'm a big fan of SPH (small penis honesty) and am quite the submissive. I've always enjoyed knowing that she's got a toy bigger than me and when it comes out during play time, I just adore it.

    SHR
     
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    We have toys (well actually I do) Most of mine are realistic dongs. I live the feeling of anal penitration. She prefers the blind folds, whips, interactive toys. Sooooo I'm not jelious of my big toys
     
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    lordy!
    it never crossed my mind.
    nor did it cross my mind to get upset if his wanking hand grips tighter than my frickin' cunt. :rolleyes:
     
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    Tina has a 14x8 silicone dildo. Its a lot bigger than me. I still dont know how she gets it in her.
     
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    Bigger the toy, tighter the pussy!my man never complains
     
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    astounding logic there.
     
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    This must be a riddle. I have been unable to crack it yet. Anyone?
     
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    Crack...now there's a word for ya!:rolleyes:
     
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    summer time is an interesting time here at LPSG.
     
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    Yea.... I hear that. Maybe all the sun to the dome? :p
     
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    i was thinking summer break :tongue1:
     
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    I was thinking too many mojitos...
     
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    I have a small vibrator, a large dildo (bigger than my husband's) and a rabbit which is about the same size as my husband's. I use them when we are in for a long night. :)

    No to all the questions by the OP
     
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