In your experience are girls usually really open about sizes of exes or past partners? I asked my girl “have you had bigger than me” and her response was “no (name) stop”. Not insecure or care very much, just curious if she was telling the truth or by the way she said it was more of a “non answer”. She was way more experienced sexually than I was. Just wondering what people think lol
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Why are you asking such a question? The answer to this is probably what you should be focusing on than hers.
With that said, girls will not openly tell their boyfriend/husband about past lovers willingly or ever for that matter. Most men cannot handle that, like at all, period. Even if you tell her that you can handle it, she'll still be hesitant. I can't tell you how many women have told me that telling their boyfriend/husband that they've had bigger or a lot bigger ended up destroying their relationship. Most guys just can't handle the truth and as it festers in the back of their minds, it grows into something that will park a wedge between the relationship.
My advice: don't do it. She's with you and your cock is perfectly enough for her otherwise she wouldn't be fucking you, right?
With that said, girls will not openly tell their boyfriend/husband about past lovers willingly or ever for that matter. Most men cannot handle that, like at all, period. Even if you tell her that you can handle it, she'll still be hesitant. I can't tell you how many women have told me that telling their boyfriend/husband that they've had bigger or a lot bigger ended up destroying their relationship. Most guys just can't handle the truth and as it festers in the back of their minds, it grows into something that will park a wedge between the relationship.
My advice: don't do it. She's with you and your cock is perfectly enough for her otherwise she wouldn't be fucking you, right?
She's doing you a favor, because it seems she likes you. If you want what's probably the unfiltered truth, "no (name) stop" most likely translates to "I have encountered and encompassed penises that might rival the dimensions of your limbs, and 99% of the time me or my friends have revealed that to potential partners, they have been revealed to be cucks, bi curious, or extremely insecure and I don't want to have to deal with any of that in a relationship"
Your best move is to make an uneducated assumption that you are indeed the biggest she's ever had, and never brag, speak, or ruminate upon it again, because I promise you unless she's like some unicorn that really gets off on her male partner's homoerotic proximity, no good can come of this question.
And as a rule of thumb, if you're asking, you're most likely not.
I wasn’t exactly sober when I first asked her. And i don’t plan on asking again. Been together a fairly long time and it doesn’t really eat at me. She’s just always been fairly open about the stuff she’s done so guess I just didn’t know what to make of her response to it 
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My partner and I go with other couples. And I've seen her have sex with men who are both bigger and smaller than me. And she's seen me have sex with other women who have bigger and smaller (breasts) than her.
I ask...why do you even really care?
I guess a part of me gets turned on by it? I don’t really know honestly.
Lol I see the point you're making, but I don't think it directly applies. I don't think your wife's perception of your dalliances with other women is really going to be affected by different breast sizes, but I almost guarantee you'd clock some semblance of an attitude shift from her if we were talking about vaginal tightness or viscosity, maybe she....; namely I do think she'd care more than you'd expect if you found another woman wetter or tighter than she(with the implication of better as opposed to different)...
Which leads back into my advice to OP, because Im guessing if you did happen to find a woman wetter, or tighter, or younger to an objectively "better" degree than your wife, if she came to you with such questions you'd be parroting OPs gfs answers.
It’s probably just better to assume I’m not the biggest and don’t broach the topic again.
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Others have addressed this part of your post, and I'm in agreement with them
I've been with a few women who were highly sexually experienced, and they were the ones who brought up my size as being large or huge. On the occasions I asked abut how I compared to others, it didn't bother me in the slightest that I wasn't their biggest, as I already know that I'm above average and not in the truly huge (8"+) category.
I had a long term Friend With Benefits and we were very open about our pasts and her extensive sexual history (compared to mine!) She did tell me that she had been with a few guys bigger than me, but here it was she had been fucking me for years, so if being the biggest really mattered, I wouldn't be in the picture! Our sexual chemistry was truly hot, and we both knew how to really please each other, making our sex life together something we both craved and thoroughly enjoyed.Been together a fairly long time and it doesn’t really eat at me. She’s just always been fairly open about the stuff she’s done so guess I just didn’t know what to make of her response to it
In one discussion about penis size I had with a FWB as she had once again brought up how big I was, I must admit it did turn me on that I was bigger than almost all of her previous lovers. The biggest complement was that she was fucking me, not them!
Yes, take your own advice! She's with you, she enjoys you, and best of all she's having sex with you. Your penis is "just right" for her because it is part of you.
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After all of the years we have been together, we never had such a discussion. It's pointless. The OP asked if GF if she ever had men who were bigger than him. Am I supposed to ask my partner that? Of course she's had men who were bigger than me. I've seen it at events when we go with other couples.
And interestingly enough my partner likes the fact that other women find me physically attractive and want to have sex with me. It sounds counterintuitive to a lot of guys but it's true.
Preselection 101, not counterintuitive in the least for anybody with a base level grasp of female heterosexuality.
I'm also guessing your partner likes the idea that even in her enjoyment of seeing you with other women, that you consider her a superior lay based on certain metrics.
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