Curious but not sure. HELP!

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I am fascinated with looking at large penises, and the thought of having one myself (6.5 x 5.5). I've always wondered if this means that I'm gay or not. I love looking at titties and pussy (I'm a virgin) but I love staring at dudes with big dicks. I like looking at guys with muscles too but I don't see myself being able to be in a relationship with a guy. Bros are bros. I have fucked a guy once but I was really drunk and horny and the guy really wanted me to fuck him. I didn't enjoy it at all when I did it so I think that's enough of a reason to assume I'm straight.... Any ideas or tips? Thanks
 

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I am very similar to you, in that I'm also very curious. I don't see myself being in a relationship with a guy either, but I'm yet to fuck one. I definitely think its something I have to try to "get out of my system" so to speak or decide that I do actually like it in which case maybe I'm more bi than I thought. I like girls too...a lot, so I know I'm not gay!!
 

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Sexual orientation isn't black or white. It's not straight or gay. It's shades of gray, which you can see if you notice the options are in percentages. It sounds like you're mostly straight but are slightly physically attracted to guys.
 

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I used to be the same. Don't worry about deciding, enjoy what you enjoy.. go look at more tits n cocks until you're sick of them. (Who am I kidding.. can that happen?)
 

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First...people are curious about a lot of things and one of them is about the opposite sex and...yes the same sex, also. It is normal for us to wonder about things.

Second...I truly believe that we are BORN with our sexual identity, just as we are born with our skin color, eye and hair color, and a cock or vagina. It is us and always will be what makes us...well US. It was not a choice we were given before birth, and is something we cannot change. Some have an early awakening regarding their sexual persuasions, and for others...well, they are late bloomers and learn it later by being curious.

I was fortunate to have had an early awakening, and enjoyed dating females (and males) throughout my school years...was extremely happily married and had two sons (now divorced), and later had male partners. I can say that I have had a great and very happy life as a BI, and I would not change anything. Well, I would change the fact that BIs were not well received nor accepted for a long, long time, but things
are getting better just as they have for gays.

drs3360...
I would not assume that you are BI just because you enjoy looking and thinking about cocks...any more than liking titties and pussy makes you straight. You are still a virgin (good for you) and let you feelings lead you. You will know when it is right.
Good Luck!

bigman777...I wish you luck, too....let your feeling guide you too....
Btw...your heart and cock will tell you if you like girls or boys...or both. You will not have any control over it...:biggrin: Relationships between two people (MM or MF) happen when there is a special chemistry....it will and can happen!
Good Luck!
 
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sound advice here about ignoring labels. just do what turns you on. but about fucking that guy and not liking it: could it be because you were very drunk? or might you be more naturally 'bottom'?
 

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I am fascinated with looking at large penises, and the thought of having one myself (6.5 x 5.5). I've always wondered if this means that I'm gay or not. I love looking at titties and pussy (I'm a virgin) but I love staring at dudes with big dicks. I like looking at guys with muscles too but I don't see myself being able to be in a relationship with a guy. Bros are bros. I have fucked a guy once but I was really drunk and horny and the guy really wanted me to fuck him. I didn't enjoy it at all when I did it so I think that's enough of a reason to assume I'm straight.... Any ideas or tips? Thanks

Looking at meat doesn't make you carnivorous, just means you like the look and even wonder how it would be to feel it in your hands and especially attached to your own body. So no it doesn't make you gay, neither does the 1 time encounter when you were smashed.
 

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Thanks everyone. Maybe if I get laid of these days some of this will make a bit more sense! Lol. But seriously the idea of just doing what I've been doing is reassuring. And its also nice to know im not the only one with similiar feelings. I just feel like it's a part of me that I've never been super comfortable with or really talked with anyone about. Bringing it up is something I think I should have done a while ago.