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Yes it is called closeted and specific bisexuality.Is their such a thing as two straight men possibly experimenting with each other, but no one else?
Yes it is called closeted and specific bisexuality.
No judgement here man. Sorry to be so blunt earlier but a lot of guys come here trying to protect their straight privilege by downplaying the homo/bisexual nature of their extracurriculars, or setting logic traps to fulfill their straight baiting fantasies...you just sound like you found a guy you'd go bisexual for, and are trying to reconcile it with your current heterosexual relationship status....which really isnt even the most pertinent question in such a situation, because the real issue there would be the purported monogamous nature of your guys' respective relationships...It happens to all of us in some sort of way, I have a wife, and am exposed to sexually attractive women everyday, for some of whom I imagine the feeling is reciprocated..It isnt really a problem unless I think being unfaithful is a valid option.Makes sense. My best friend and I love women, but we have this crazy chemistry between us. Nothing ever happened. We can tell there's some attraction going on. We don't look at other guys in any kinda way, but we look at each other a lot. It's crazy. He has a wife and I have a girlfriend.
Yeah or bisexual at the least. Im not knocking the opportunism exercised, nor am I even denying that plenty of guys wouldn't at least try it out if they could do so without it being found out. But an actually heterosexual college guy would categorize another mans mouth the same as a dogs, just not an option.Plenty of college guys want girlfriends but will settle for a convenient warm mouth and be happy to trade. Does it make them gay
Answer: yesIs their such a thing as two straight men possibly experimenting with each other, but no one else?
Answer: yes
There has been some very intense research on the nature of friendship. Bottom line, a friendship builds on each individual’s unique nature and experiences.
Here is how one expert in the area of friendship describes your relationship with your buddy.
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“In light of close friendship’s voluntary, personal, affective, mutual, and equal qualities, such friends negotiate a private moral sphere within the constraints of the cultural and public moralities shaping their possibilities.”
You and your buddy are in a unique relationship (a private moral sphere) that might not last. There are hundreds of variables at play for each of you. Whatever moves you are considering, they should include clear communication, along with elements of support (solidarity), and personal caring.