hey folks,
i know there are many positive opinions on curved cocks (a lot of girls/boys love them more than straight ones) and i don't want to convince anyone with a curved dick that there is something wrong with it. if you have one and you are comfortable with your piece, that is a great thing that shouldn't be changed.
but in my case, i just couldn't get along with the fact that i have a dick that faces the earth even if im 110% aroused... so it wasn't actually the curve itself that bothered me, but that it curved downwards. i didn't liked it that even if i was fully erect, my dick looked as if it only had a semi. not to mention the weak erections due to these psychological concerns.
and most of those sex positions which allow kissing and "classic" intimacy (like missionary) were difficult/immpossible with my dick. of course a downward curve is great for e.g. doggystyle and i also love penetrating a woman from behind. but i'm more like this stereotype nice guy who likes to kiss and cuddle and making love instead of "f.cking her brains out" so it hated it that i can not do missionary.
anyway, i had my first surgery last year and it was a failure.
i realized only afterwards, that the doctor never talked with me about my problems, my concerns, my wishes and what i would expect from the surgery. he just looked at the pictures i brought with me, said "lets do this" and thats it. and i trusted him so much, i didn't insist on asking my questions but kept quiet.
at first i was happy with the result, even though it wasn't what i hoped for (i wanted to have an erection above horizontal). i asked the doctor a bunch of times if it is ok to have erections during the healing period and he was always like "yeah, you can do whatever you want cuz those stitches gonna hold no matter what". so i started masturbating (very gentle) two weeks after the surgery and since i really liked the new look of my cock, i masturbated at least twice a day.
maybe there is no connection, but fact is that one of the stitches ripped and my downward curve partly reappeared.
then, again, back to the start, i didn't liked how my dick looked, so all the psychological problems reappeared as well. in the last months i tried very hard to be ok with my situation and i had ups where i kind of liked my cock. but there were a lot more downs, so since shortly i decided to have another surgery but this time the right way.
i looked for another doctor who also had the necessary skills but wasn't a complete asshole like the first one. someone who would spend time to listen to me and talk with me about the outcome of the surgery.
i was lucky to find a doctor like that and i could tell him about my wish to have an upward curve and upward pointing erection.
i had my second surgery last week, so it is too early to say much about the outcome. during the day i focus not to have erections, during the night i can not prevent it from happening. i already saw the "new" shape of my erection, but only as i was laying down, not while standing. but so far to me it looks really good, because my dick always pointed up and to the front if i was erect while laying on the bed and now it points to my chin.
i will see the doctor today and will ask him what i can do to prevent the stitches from ripping. even if it means not to have an orgasm for a month, so be it, but i surely don't want a third surgery.
again, i don't want to convince anyone that a curved cock is not healthy, i just thought i'm gonna share my story with you guys, maybe someone with the same problem will find it useful!
i attached two pics i took in the morning.
cheers
i know there are many positive opinions on curved cocks (a lot of girls/boys love them more than straight ones) and i don't want to convince anyone with a curved dick that there is something wrong with it. if you have one and you are comfortable with your piece, that is a great thing that shouldn't be changed.
but in my case, i just couldn't get along with the fact that i have a dick that faces the earth even if im 110% aroused... so it wasn't actually the curve itself that bothered me, but that it curved downwards. i didn't liked it that even if i was fully erect, my dick looked as if it only had a semi. not to mention the weak erections due to these psychological concerns.
and most of those sex positions which allow kissing and "classic" intimacy (like missionary) were difficult/immpossible with my dick. of course a downward curve is great for e.g. doggystyle and i also love penetrating a woman from behind. but i'm more like this stereotype nice guy who likes to kiss and cuddle and making love instead of "f.cking her brains out" so it hated it that i can not do missionary.
anyway, i had my first surgery last year and it was a failure.
i realized only afterwards, that the doctor never talked with me about my problems, my concerns, my wishes and what i would expect from the surgery. he just looked at the pictures i brought with me, said "lets do this" and thats it. and i trusted him so much, i didn't insist on asking my questions but kept quiet.
at first i was happy with the result, even though it wasn't what i hoped for (i wanted to have an erection above horizontal). i asked the doctor a bunch of times if it is ok to have erections during the healing period and he was always like "yeah, you can do whatever you want cuz those stitches gonna hold no matter what". so i started masturbating (very gentle) two weeks after the surgery and since i really liked the new look of my cock, i masturbated at least twice a day.
maybe there is no connection, but fact is that one of the stitches ripped and my downward curve partly reappeared.
then, again, back to the start, i didn't liked how my dick looked, so all the psychological problems reappeared as well. in the last months i tried very hard to be ok with my situation and i had ups where i kind of liked my cock. but there were a lot more downs, so since shortly i decided to have another surgery but this time the right way.
i looked for another doctor who also had the necessary skills but wasn't a complete asshole like the first one. someone who would spend time to listen to me and talk with me about the outcome of the surgery.
i was lucky to find a doctor like that and i could tell him about my wish to have an upward curve and upward pointing erection.
i had my second surgery last week, so it is too early to say much about the outcome. during the day i focus not to have erections, during the night i can not prevent it from happening. i already saw the "new" shape of my erection, but only as i was laying down, not while standing. but so far to me it looks really good, because my dick always pointed up and to the front if i was erect while laying on the bed and now it points to my chin.
i will see the doctor today and will ask him what i can do to prevent the stitches from ripping. even if it means not to have an orgasm for a month, so be it, but i surely don't want a third surgery.
again, i don't want to convince anyone that a curved cock is not healthy, i just thought i'm gonna share my story with you guys, maybe someone with the same problem will find it useful!
i attached two pics i took in the morning.
cheers
Cheers
