Curvy or Skinny: What's your opinion?

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that is the nicest thing anyone's ever said to me, david. brb while i go drain my bucket full of tears. :tongue: lol. :hug: seriously though, i have not cried in a while. this definetely made me cry. thank you. i really appreciate the kind words.

stacy, you're beautiful. it's good to know someone else understands.

and thanks bryan, yet again. :wink:

Even I am crying by David's words.:redface:

You are very welcome. Don't let anyone say any different about you, you are beautiful just the way you are.:wink:
 

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I love a woman who is curvy and soft. A few extra pounds is more desirable in my eye. It seems more feminine in nature to me.

It comes down to individuals who click anyway.
 

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Even I am crying by David's words.:redface:

You are very welcome. Don't let anyone say any different about you, you are beautiful just the way you are.:wink:

Yeah, but it still doesn't help me get in your pants:tongue: (nor should it---I don't play in sandboxes I'm not invited to:biggrin1:)
 

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I love a woman who is curvy and soft. A few extra pounds is more desirable in my eye. It seems more feminine in nature to me.

It comes down to individuals who click anyway.

Definitely 100%

Yeah, but it still doesn't help me get in your pants:tongue: (nor should it---I don't play in sandboxes I'm not invited to:biggrin1:)

Oh, so that's how you play.

I'm on to all you boys trying to get my goodies.:tongue: Get in line.:biggrin1:
 

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I'm too old to wait in a line THAT long...:tongue: My knees would give out before the first 10,000 got through....:biggrin1:
 

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Wrestle Novice?!?! Are you CRAZY!?! :eek:With THOSE Buns of steel??? He can bend girders into unspeakable shapes by the mere flexing of his oh so talented glutes....:biggrin1:
 

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It's ok (pats head) you'll be ok--just go watch a few hours of straight porn and you'll be back to 100% straight thoughts in no time.:biggrin1:
 

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Well, yes, but they are ugly men, usually......it's done intentionally just in case there is something latent----Seeing Ron Jeremy in all his glory , for instance, would prevent Oscar Wilde from desiring a man...:eek:
 

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If you don't mind this coming from another woman, both of you girls are very beautiful.

I'm not exactly a skinny waifish lass myself (size 12-14/36D), but I have to say, confidence and happiness with your own body is everything. I used to be a lot skinnier but put on some weight after a major breast reduction. You'd think smaller boobs + more weight = less attraction, but I've not found that true at all. And almost all of my partners have been smaller than I am.

When you are comfortable with yourself, it really shows. Sure there are shallow, appearance-focused people, as well as those with just a preference for thin girls . . nothing wrong with that. But there are just as many men who love softer bodies with rounded bellies and hips and thighs. Attractive, intelligent men who will let you know just how much they appreciate you.

My boyfriend is the hottest man I've dated, and funnily enough . . he thinks I'm gorgeous too. He's 5'9 and about 155 lbs, size 29 jeans and nicely built (and well-sized cock, but that's just a nice extra!), incredibly intelligent, great personality, and just plain nice. He constantly tells me how much he loves my body (and mind! :wink:). Those guys are out there, and don't settle for anyone less than someone who appreciates you for who you are.

Love yourself, love your body, love all the things you have to offer . . and other people's admiration will follow. Confidence and happiness on a chunky girl (which honestly, both of you look like real women of normal size, to me) is a thousand times more attractive than a girl who has modified her body and style to fit mainstream tastes and bases her esteem on what she believes other people think of her. Doesn't mean you can't work towards losing weight if you wanted, but don't do it for anyone else. As long as you are healthy, be proud of what you have, and enjoy yourselves!

The whole average size vs. unreal expectations has backfired for skinny girls as well. My sister, who is naturally a size 0 (she eats like a horse), gets more negative attention than I do. She couldn't put on weight unless she locked herself in a closet and stuffed her face with twinkies for a week straight, but people assume she's starving herself and she feels embarrassed she's so thin. Case in point: you can never make everyone happy; some people will always find something negative to bitch about that is none of their business . . and unfortunately, they are usually the ones that get heard :tongue:
 

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Well, yes, but they are ugly men, usually......it's done intentionally just in case there is something latent----Seeing Ron Jeremy in all his glory , for instance, would prevent Oscar Wilde from desiring a man...:eek:

Ugh, don't get me going on Captain Kangaroo.:rofl;

Is it me, or did his dick not look that big? I don't see what the big fuss was.
 

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Negative comments will always get amplified louder than the positive. I guess this proves that we as humans are naturally bad and selfish....
As long as you are happy with yourself, and you should be, you will find that there are a lot of people who fell the same way.
 

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If you don't mind this coming from another woman, both of you girls are very beautiful.

I'm not exactly a skinny waifish lass myself (size 12-14/36D), but I have to say, confidence and happiness with your own body is everything. I used to be a lot skinnier but put on some weight after a major breast reduction. You'd think smaller boobs + more weight = less attraction, but I've not found that true at all. And almost all of my partners have been smaller than I am.

When you are comfortable with yourself, it really shows. Sure there are shallow, appearance-focused people, as well as those with just a preference for thin girls . . nothing wrong with that. But there are just as many men who love softer bodies with rounded bellies and hips and thighs. Attractive, intelligent men who will let you know just how much they appreciate you.

My boyfriend is the hottest man I've dated, and funnily enough . . he thinks I'm gorgeous too. He's 5'9 and about 155 lbs, size 29 jeans and nicely built (and well-sized cock, but that's just a nice extra!), incredibly intelligent, great personality, and just plain nice. He constantly tells me how much he loves my body (and mind! :wink:). Those guys are out there, and don't settle for anyone less than someone who appreciates you for who you are.

Love yourself, love your body, love all the things you have to offer . . and other people's admiration will follow. Confidence and happiness on a chunky girl (which honestly, both of you look like real women of normal size, to me) is a thousand times more attractive than a girl who has modified her body and style to fit mainstream tastes and bases her esteem on what she believes other people think of her. Doesn't mean you can't work towards losing weight if you wanted, but don't do it for anyone else. As long as you are healthy, be proud of what you have, and enjoy yourselves!

The whole average size vs. unreal expectations has backfired for skinny girls as well. My sister, who is naturally a size 0 (she eats like a horse), gets more negative attention than I do. She couldn't put on weight unless she locked herself in a closet and stuffed her face with twinkies for a week straight, but people assume she's starving herself and she feels embarrassed she's so thin. Case in point: you can never make everyone happy; some people will always find something negative to bitch about that is none of their business . . and unfortunately, they are usually the ones that get heard :tongue:
that's the nicest thing! i'm also the same as you, dress size 14 but a cup size smaller lol, 36C. hopefully some day i'll be lucky enough to find me a guy like you who appreciates curves, bonus if he has a good size cock lol. you sound so happy and i'm glad you have someone that appreciates you, body and soul.
 

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It seems these days women are getting 'curvier' and the men are getting skinnier. I think skinny girls will always hold a certain status because of the media but majority of the guys i know have bigger girlfriends and like their women curvy. Unfortantly i am in the category of extra-curvy so need to rely on my personality to attract men :redface:
 

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Ugh, don't get me going on Captain Kangaroo.:rofl;

Is it me, or did his dick not look that big? I don't see what the big fuss was.
Well, it looked reasonably large to ME, but then again, according t reliable sources, you likely have the hairy blob beat downstairs, so your perspective is likely a MIGHT skewed....:biggrin1:
 

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that's the nicest thing! i'm also the same as you, dress size 14 but a cup size smaller lol, 36C. hopefully some day i'll be lucky enough to find me a guy like you who appreciates curves, bonus if he has a good size cock lol. you sound so happy and i'm glad you have someone that appreciates you, body and soul.

I'm originally from the US and I know there are guys there that like curvy women as well, but I have to say I never felt so admired as I have in parts of Europe. French women must have the highest confidence in the world, because every man there looks at you like they are appreciating a fine work of art. Same in Italy and Spain, and when I lived in Sweden, I and my curvier friends got a lot of attention from African, Indian and Turkish men. Not all societies have fallen for the hard bodied, unnatural proportioned stereotype . . some places still value major curves as a sign of femininity, beauty, and fertility. So if you're feeling a bit disillusioned, may I suggest it's time for a holiday? :biggrin1: