Curvy or Skinny: What's your opinion?

[capttrak]

Stacy...you are very beautiful. You should not think anything less. I personally love a girl who is not anorexic looking. The potrayal on t.v, movies, in magazines is just wrong. I think that is why we have the highest population of anti-depressant use in the world. We are the one and only superpower and most of our country is depressed. I think people should be happy with themselves and not concerned with "looking like him or her." You have great proportions too. I just wanted to let you know I am one of those guys that's likes what's on the inside not the outside. As cliche as it sounds, because I have dated and slept with the model types and believe me...zip on the intelligence level. So again, just to recap, you look great.

 

[Theo8]

I really love a bit curved girls. I proudly say, I never had a gf, under 130 lbs.
Ok, i m also not a little guy, with 6'1", and about 190 lbs.
Playing with those curves closes the world around me, and makes me hot and wild. I guess most of the young guys thinking as, if they wanna have a serious contact, later at birth, their wife will gain minimum 10 lbs, count with 3 babys, that 30 lbs. If i add 30 lbs on a girl, will find their wife in the next 10 years. So as i count, a girls for serious contact is better a bit slimmer. But in reality i dont thinkink too much. In my world, girls between 120 and 180 lbs, is no question, just be kind and love and play with those nice curves, and..., oh i leave...

 

[jack65]

Hello

Both my wife & i have put on the kilos over the yrs, it hasn't stopped us loving,caring or wanting to be with each other in any way.

I believe all this crap we see nowadays about you got to be a skinny chick with bones showing is a real turn off to a lot of guys, if my wife got that skinny i would think she was sick/ill and take her to the doctors.

We as a people need to tell the media to stop this insane crap and also we need to stop believing in it too,
hell next I'll be buying all those pills and shit to get a dick thats 20 feet long because man aren't man with out 20 feet of dick.( i can see it now I'll have to rap the dam thing around me neck 5 times just to walk, then the bastards will sell me that Viagra stuff for sure lol.)

It really comes down to how do you feel about your self?, if you want to lose a few kilos/pounds then do it for you, if you don't then don't.


Be at peace with your self then others will be too.

Thank You.

 

[Osiris]

Someone please tell me that I'm wrong.

It feels like nowadays men no longer appreciate a little extra weight on women. Seriously, whatever happened to being ok with love handles or having a butt that jiggles a bit? All I ever hear, from men and from women, is that "skinny is sexy."

A lot of men go on and on about how they would never date a woman who weighed more than they did, or how their wives/girlfriends are so fat/overweight and how they wish they would be skinny again. I read about shit like this all the time and I even encounter people who openly talk about it. I rarely ever hear men say they're ok with their wives/girlfriends putting on a few pounds, or that they prefer thicker, curvy types to the skinny types.

On top of that, the mass media portrays women (actresses, musicians, etc) with slimmer physiques as what is ideally sexy and socially accepted. Open up any magazine and all you'll see are tall, slim, airbrushed women. Go to the movies and the majority of actresses you see on the screen are also the same. Don't even get me started on porn stars. I mean, extremely round and perky double-d tits on a stick figure? Come on, get real!

Maybe it's just me, but I really feel like a lot of men no longer find curvy women, or women with a little extra weight, to be sexy. It just seems like they're too busy being fixated on the cultural ideals that women should be skinny shouldn't have a single ounce of fat.

What's your opinion?

I hear that a lot too and I say that is such a load of crap in my personal book. Give me a nice voluptuous hourglass figured woman with a great chest and nice round bum.

I have dated skinny women and bigger women and as much as a woman's mind is the sexiest part of her, I do love a very nice set of large boobs and as such, when was the last time you saw a realy nice set of larger boobs on a woman with a size 1 waist and no butt? Never! Even the "skinny" busty models have curves. I prefer my women Rubinesque in appearance. My wife is no tiny model and other than trying to shed and tone her body from having 4 children? She is the sexiest woman in my life.

I also think a lot of guys lie about this as well.

If you put Kate Moss and Crystal Renn side by side, I lay you odds Crystal would be picked 8 to one over Kate Moss.

A word to the men:

GET WITH THE PROGRAM! Larger Ladies are the loveliest by far.

Oh, and Stacy? If anybody tells you you aren't hot or turns you down? Hit him over the head with his white cane and sick his seeing eye dog on him.

 

[B_625girth]

I like slender curvy women, some of the slender women today are(skinny) just straight up and down, and some way too skinny, ass no bigger than a hamburger bun, and almost no tit. some look like holocaust victims with upper arms like tooth picks. I find that pretty disgusting actually, but I do realize with some its a disorder. last summer, I mentioned to a bar acquaintance that his gf needed a cheeseburger, 2 of 'em. He looked at me and said," I know". I do like some girls with some meat, and don't solely base any decision on just the way some one looks. in my day(younger & single), I fucked 95 lbr's and 195 lbr's, and a lot in between. I found some of the larger gals to be very easy going, kicked back, very appreciate of time and company, not demanding on my time or money. you could spend one night with them a month, and have them not get pissed it you were seen dating the 105 lb beauty queen, and 2 wks later be having the time of your life with one of'em in bed.

 

[Charles Finn]

it is not just the women
I like bigger people in general but I do prefer guys.
in the gay world you have to be 18-24 cute and skinny
once you pass 3o forget it
once your 40 there you get less and less attention.
I have a large cock and that does help but we are way too hung up on looks.
it has always mattered who someone is inside not their age and looks may peak my interest but if they have no personality why bother.
looks fade and we all age.

 

[Calboner]

I like slender curvy women

I'm glad to see that there are still some people in the world who understand that "curvy" means "having curves," i.e., a strong contrast between waist and hips, and does not mean "having a lot of body fat." Whether a woman is curvy has nothing to do with whether she is thick or thin. There are slender women who are curvy and there are thickset women who are not curvy at all.

 

[B_superlarge]

I've very much into big curves. If the extra meat is mostly enhancing the curves then I'm all for it.

I've known guys who would call a chick just 5 to 10 pounds overweight "fat" and they didn't care whether the extra meat was enhancing her curves or not.

I've known guys who were into big breasts but didn't want anything else on her to be big. She could have almost a flat ass but so long as she had those big breasts they considered her built. They loved a "tight little ass".

To the OP, you must be referring to white and/or Asian guys you've known or know of. Yes, most (not all) white and Asian guys are like that. They are usually only into big breasts (not all are into big breasts) and want her to be smallish to average in all other departments. Most (not all) black guys put much more emphasis on the butt and thighs having much curve and size, and big breasts are just a plus.

Someone explain to me why many guys only want women to be extra endowed in the breasts and nowhere else. I have a theory on this but I'll leave it out of this conversation.

 

[jimbob369]

Curves on an overall skinny frame are the biggest turn-on. For example, my friend has a pretty skinny figure on the top (unfortunately, she's only in the A-cup), but on the bottom, she has big love handles and a nice, round ass. One night, we were at a party together, and she asked me to dance with her to a song (I can't remember which one), but it was one of those rap/ R&B songs where you basically grind with your partner. The rest was a blur for the next few minutes, as all I can remember was grabbing her love handles and dry-humping her in the ass. Needless to say, I got a raging hard-on, and when the song was over, I sheepishly apologized to her as we were sitting down, since I was sure she felt my big cock rubbing on her booty :biggrin1:


Anyways, to get to the point of the thread, I prefer curves.

 

[Nekoman]

Someone please tell me that I'm wrong.

It feels like nowadays men no longer appreciate a little extra weight on women. Seriously, whatever happened to being ok with love handles or having a butt that jiggles a bit? All I ever hear, from men and from women, is that "skinny is sexy."

A lot of men go on and on about how they would never date a woman who weighed more than they did, or how their wives/girlfriends are so fat/overweight and how they wish they would be skinny again. I read about shit like this all the time and I even encounter people who openly talk about it. I rarely ever hear men say they're ok with their wives/girlfriends putting on a few pounds, or that they prefer thicker, curvy types to the skinny types.

On top of that, the mass media portrays women (actresses, musicians, etc) with slimmer physiques as what is ideally sexy and socially accepted. Open up any magazine and all you'll see are tall, slim, airbrushed women. Go to the movies and the majority of actresses you see on the screen are also the same. Don't even get me started on porn stars. I mean, extremely round and perky double-d tits on a stick figure? Come on, get real!

Maybe it's just me, but I really feel like a lot of men no longer find curvy women, or women with a little extra weight, to be sexy. It just seems like they're too busy being fixated on the cultural ideals that women should be skinny shouldn't have a single ounce of fat.

What's your opinion?

Plenty of men still like women with a little meat on their bones. Personally, I can't stand the Hollywood/Porno steroeotypical skinny little thing. Besides you'll never find all guys agreeing on anything relating to women and attractiveness -- you only need to find one guy liking you the way you are, for you -- the whole package, not just your body weight.
My wife is a size 8-10 and I wouldn't change an ounce of her. Honest.

 

[B_NineInchCock_160IQ]

Someone please tell me that I'm wrong.

It feels like nowadays men no longer appreciate a little extra weight on women. Seriously, whatever happened to being ok with love handles or having a butt that jiggles a bit? All I ever hear, from men and from women, is that "skinny is sexy."

Maybe certain things have happened to you recently to make you feel insecure about your own body or something, but I really don't believe that the above is ALL you ever here. There are tons of guys out there who appreciate women with curves.

Personally I enjoy lots of different body types. I think skinny girls can be hot. I think curvy girls can be hot. It just depends.

 

[Notthe7]

The thinner I get the more pronounced my curves get. I agree with what Cal said and a few other people.

Being curvy is not a synonym for being overweight and/or fat. A lot of bigger people have taken the word and made it something it is not.

 

[teasedsilly]

It really only matters whether you're comfortable with your own body. If you look at yourself in the mirror and like what you see, then just look for people who can appreciate you for who you are. However if you don't like the way you look, then change it. It's unhealthy to live only to please others, you've got to please yourself first.

 

[Tristessa]

The thinner I get the more pronounced my curves get. I agree with what Cal said and a few other people.

Being curvy is not a synonym for being overweight and/or fat. A lot of bigger people have taken the word and made it something it is not.

When I say curvy, I mean curvy . . not overweight. However, I think it's more common for women in the size 8-16 range (that's UK, in US I think it's 6-14?) to have natural pronounced curves. Most women's boobs shrink with weight loss. I consider myself curvy, not fat, though I'd be happy losing a size or two.

Take a look at some of the girls here

In the fashion/celebrity world, they'd be considered huge. I think they're gorgeous. (she's a size 16)

 

[135145]

curvy every time, gorgeous figures

 

[lovesmen]

I agree with you to a degree. I am always getting hated on because of my body. I'm tall, I'm thin and busty and automatically girls think I'm a ignorant bitchy slut and guys think I'm easy. I understand that big girls have alot to be angry about ( at one point I went up to a size 8-10) so I get it but it's not fair to say that skinny women are fake and this, that and the other. It hurts us too. We're thin not deaf.

 

[pulick]

curvy ..

 

[zacktoria]

I am with teasedsilly....I am a big girl and I love myself. I see it this way..love me or don't waste my time. We live in a crazy body crazed world...we "real" women need to stick together and support each other! Regardless of size, shape or race. Every woman that posted here...from me to you...your BEAUTIFUL just as you are!

 

[Tristessa]

I agree with you to a degree. I am always getting hated on because of my body. I'm tall, I'm thin and busty and automatically girls think I'm a ignorant bitchy slut and guys think I'm easy. I understand that big girls have alot to be angry about ( at one point I went up to a size 8-10) so I get it but it's not fair to say that skinny women are fake and this, that and the other. It hurts us too. We're thin not deaf.

I was never stick-thin, but I used to be much thinner and my boobs were huge. Believe me, I understand. I'm 5'11, was a size 8/Q cup at the time of my reduction. There's a picture of me in my gallery pre teenage years (no one believes my age there, but it's true . . just look at my clothes :tongue, where I have bigger boobs than I do now. The way people treat you when you look like that is horrible.

As I mentioned earlier in the thread, my sister is a size 0 (and flat-ish) and gets a lot of negativity too.

I think the point is, skinny doesn't mean fake and curvy doesn't mean fat and busty doesn't mean slut. Women come in all sizes and shapes, natural and modified. But the idealized woman in the media is a woman that doesn't often occur naturally, and I think it's skewed the view of what most women should look like, leaving perfectly normal sized women to question their own bodies and men expecting us to wake up airbrushed and smiling. That's the shame. The natural healthy body is beautiful, imperfections and all, regardless of size.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

Curvy is by far more attractive to me and my husband. In highschool and up until a few years ago i was under a 100 lbs and i looked sickly. I couldnt help it at the time and it took being on some major doses of steroids to put on some weight inadvertantly. At first i wasnt too happy with having to go by sizes in the double digits, but having large breasts was where my attitude began to change. I always wanted very large breasts and knew i'd have to get implants if i was ever going to see them on my body.

Since stopping the steroids i've lost over 20lbs and im still very curvy. I know that in order to have the hips and breasts that i have to sport a little bit of a tummy as well. The 36-24-36 measurements arent ideal because in order to have the 36 measurements, your waist would almost always be more than 24 inches. I am large waisted (which explains my love for corsets) and now my breasts can offset that a little.

When we go to the strip club, the curvy black women are my very favorites to watch. They are gorgeous, real, and know how to move to accentuate their already super sensual figures.

A majority of the women at the club are far thinner than i am and virtually flat chested, an A cup at best and the men love it. I hate seeing these body types in porn. When my husband and i started making amateur vids, i trashed and edited a lot of them because my ass didnt look anything like i was used to seeing in porn. Those women are so unrealistically tiny that they made me look horrid on cam as far as i was concerned.

Since posting pics here on lpsg, i found that some of the most popular pics are the ones that i hate the most. Men seem to be turned on more by the photos i thought i looked like a fatty in.

I think men by nature are geared to love the curvy feminine physique, its the media that has merged these uber-gorgeous faces with emmaciated figures that begins to change what they find to be the ideal.

When i have erotic photos taken of me, i try to pose as much like Betty Page as possible. She captures a moment in time where women were naturally curvy and men found her to be ideal. In some of her photos there is no doubt a little tummy pooch, along with most pinups with big tits you see sucking in their tummy as much as possible.

I didnt intend for this to be so long, but i had to jump in and share my thoughts!