whatireallywant
Sexy Member
That's what's great about the internet though, you get to know the real person. But that's just it, it's the internet. Physical attraction always wins. I'm just as guilty of it as anyone, but it's sad to think of how many great people are being passed up because they aren't as attractive as others. But you have to be attracted physically, there's just no other way around it I guess.
I'm sure that's why I always get passed up, no one is attracted to me. And then they don't get to see what a great guy I can be.
You're right, we do want both. And it's hard to find.
Why are guys not physically attracted to you? You look amazing.
Well, supposedly different people are attracted to different things.
I actually was very thin in my teens, but I grew up in an area where no one liked "skinny women". Now I'm too fat for the guys who like slim women (which seems to be most of the guys), too slim for the ones who like BBW's, and not busty enough for either group! I'm pretty "average", although I'm bordering on "BBW" without the curves. I get noticed just as much now as I did when I was slim though. Not a lot either way, or not enough for me (it could be just that I'm starved for attention though! :biggrin1 I do get noticed though, sometimes. (one guy I recently met at a party has called me repeatedly since then, too!)
I'm as guilty of this as anyone else though. Of course I'm going to notice a good looking guy before I'd notice an average looking guy, but I'd actually be just as willing to date the average looking guy, if the personality is there (same with the good looking guy too - if you're good looking but you're an asshole, forget it! :biggrin1
And I've said this before and I'll say it again. There are very few truly ugly people, just as there are very few true "hotties" of either sex. Most people are somewhere in the "average looking" range, myself included. (I like to think I'm on the upper end of "average" though!)