Hi guys, I know I have been away for a while but once again my curiousity has brought me back.
As you can see there is a big weight issue for women, we think guys won't like us unless we are skinny and have flat tummys but I'm tired taking things from what I read on magazines, I want to address this to all the guys out there (and women if you are lesbian).
What kind of woman would you prefer in terms of appearance? A skinny woman like in the movies or a curvier woman?
Thanks
P.S I am not stating that one could be better than the other, all women in my opinion are beautiful!
Wow! Thank you! I've always been surprised with the compliments I get here because I never get them in real life!
That's the funny thing - I am actually considered fat because my BMI is slightly in the "overweight" range. From a health stand point, I am actually trying to lose some weight and get it back to within a healthy BMI. I perceive myself as fat and I know I am based on my BMI, but it's interesting to see that people perceive me differently. Maybe I just do hide my fat really well!:biggrin1:
Anyway, according to what's been discussed here already, it's interesting to see that the definition of skinny and curvy among different people can be as varied as day and night!
Seriously, If Cece thinks she's fat, then I must be one of those people who is so fat they can't get up and their skin starts grafting to their sofa.
i've got girlfriends that are unbelievably fit who talk down about themselves being fat, needing to lose weight, yada yada, all the while right in front of women who really do in fact need to lose weight, not caring one iota of how much worse they must be making that woman feel. if you are a woman and you think you're "fat", and you feel awful about yourself because of it, and the reality is you're pretty much just fine, everytime you say you need to lose weight in front of another woman who IS heavy, have you ever thought about how much worse it makes her feel than you ever felt??