Cut or uncut

[Beekeeper13]

Who cares? Why is one better than the other? Not like we had a choice if we got cut, why should cut be a lesser choice? uncut is superior, really? The maintenance ? I am cut and never felt a need to treat someone better or worse only based on if they are cut or not.
The reason for this, I have been chatting, hanging out with this great guy. He asked me before this goes any further are you uncut. When I said no. He oh and told me it would not work out, WTF!

 

[ultimaterobot]

I'm uncut but it'd so strange to hold it against someone considering it's not like you get to choose.

 

[B2TW2021]

His loss. Not yours.

 

[Hardybob]

Wow, pretty harsh!

 

[thickcockjames]

Unmmmm I think you’re projecting a lot right now. I’ve literally never been with someone who has ever mentioned a preference to it, let alone even hinting at it being a deal breaker for a relationship.

You do need to realize that outside of the US, circumcision isn’t very common. So when you’re polling the world (this site is global) then the general preference would be uncut.

I haven’t really seen anything here condemning circumcised penises, having a preference is just that, a preference.

I have my own reservations about the practice myself, I’m not happy that it was done to me without my consent and sometimes when I see and uncut penis I wonder what it’s like or if it’s preferred. But then I remember, and don’t take this as offense, how ridiculously shallow the concept of caring about that is in the real world.

 

[Beekeeper13]

Unmmmm I think you’re projecting a lot right now. I’ve literally never been with someone who has ever mentioned a preference to it, let alone even hinting at it being a deal breaker for a relationship.

You do need to realize that outside of the US, circumcision isn’t very common. So when you’re polling the world (this site is global) then the general preference would be uncut.

I haven’t really seen anything here condemning circumcised penises, having a preference is just that, a preference.

I have my own reservations about the practice myself, I’m not happy that it was done to me without my consent and sometimes when I see and uncut penis I wonder what it’s like or if it’s preferred. But then I remember, and don’t take this as offense, how ridiculously shallow the concept of caring about that is in the real world.

Sorry Karen,
You think I am projecting. I just had this shitty thing happened. I voiced what this guy did to me. I don’t need it man-planed to me about what is a barbaric custom in the US. Or be told that this site reaches most of the world? Lucky you no one has ever done that to you. Does it mean it matters less because of that FACT. You’re right he was ridiculous, I dodged a bullet. But so was your PROJECTING comment. Less of a poll more of a few thoughts and thought it might be interesting to see if anyone else had had this happen. But now that I look your mostly straight so your odds or below the target audience I was going for. You know men who have sex other men on a regular basis or even prefer the to date men.

 

[thickcockjames]

Sorry Karen,
You think I am projecting. I just had this shitty thing happened. I voiced what this guy did to me. I don’t need it man-planed to me about what is a barbaric custom in the US. Or be told that this site reaches most of the world? Lucky you no one has ever done that to you. Does it mean it matters less because of that FACT. You’re right he was ridiculous, I dodged a bullet. But so was your PROJECTING comment. Less of a poll more of a few thoughts and thought it might be interesting to see if anyone else had had this happen. But now that I look your mostly straight so your odds or below the target audience I was going for. You know men who have sex other men on a regular basis or even prefer the to date men.

Hey chill man. I’m cut too, it wasn’t my choice either. But your tone of your original post is very much one of “oh poor me” like it’s a daily occurrence that someone calls out cut or uncut being better toward you.

Sorry you took so much offense to it, surely didn’t mean to be that rude. You can look at literally every other post I’ve ever made and I’m almost always very kind. I didn’t think my tone was as aggressive as it was.

 

[Beekeeper13]

Hey chill man. I’m cut too, it wasn’t my choice either. But your tone of your original post is very much one of “oh poor me” like it’s a daily occurrence that someone calls out cut or uncut being better toward you.

Sorry you took so much offense to it, surely didn’t mean to be that rude. You can look at literally every other post I’ve ever made and I’m almost always very kind. I didn’t think my tone was as aggressive as it was.

WOW, your photo you don’t look cut. Yes I was hurt, after two months of talking, hanging out. Getting to know this guy on a deeper level to be kicked aside based on something that I had no control over. I was hurt and yeah I was feeling sorry for myself. Sorry if I miss read your comments.

 

[thickcockjames]

Yeah, I’m not sure what it’s called, but I got like half circumcised or something haha. I’m from a tiny town and the doctor who delivered everyone and did that procedure wasn’t necessarily youthful or reliable.

Sorry to hear that. That’s a pretty shallow reason to break up with someone IMO. it sucks because of the time and the built up excitement over the idea of a new relationship I’m sure. But, in the long run you don’t want to be with someone who puts that much stock into something you had no control over.

Best of luck to you man, glad we were able to squash the drama there. Sorry again.

 

[Southeasterner]

Who cares? Why is one better than the other? Not like we had a choice if we got cut, why should cut be a lesser choice? uncut is superior, really? The maintenance ? I am cut and never felt a need to treat someone better or worse only based on if they are cut or not.
The reason for this, I have been chatting, hanging out with this great guy. He asked me before this goes any further are you uncut. When I said no. He oh and told me it would not work out, WTF!

He is very ignorant. Don´t waste your energy thinking about him.
No one is better than anyone else for being cut or uncut.
It's such a silly idea that it makes me laugh! His loss, definitely!