Cybering with a friend or family member under an unknown alias

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by B_curiousaboutthis, Jul 10, 2009.

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Have you ever cybered with a friend/relative when they didn't know it was you?

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  1. B_curiousaboutthis

    B_curiousaboutthis New Member

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    Has anyone on here ever cybered with a friend or relative under an alias so they would not know who you were? I have done it multiple times with multiple people. Tell your story and who it happened with if you have.

    Cousin
    Brother
    Couple Friends
    Friends dad
    GFs aunt

    I have done it with all of them as a male and as a female.
     
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    That's creepy and deceptive.... and flirting with incest.
     
  3. B_curiousaboutthis

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    Sorry, I don't see how it is creepy.
     
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    Would you have sex with parents if they happened to fall asleep naked with their legs open?
     
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    No way. I have fantasized about fucking my gf's mom.
     
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    My Ex sent a post as someone else! Then read me the riot act for what I said.. He's an Ex and I DID FEEL VIOLATED!!
     
  7. B_curiousaboutthis

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    I have never done it with malicious intent. I just find it erotic, especially if the male fronts like some 100% str8 guy but gets off cybering with other guys.
     
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    This sounds like an episode of "To Catch a Predator."
     
  9. MarkLondon

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    :eek::eek::eek::eek::eek: :yikes:
     
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    I once stumble upon a a friend online. We met online and chatted alot and would cam but neither ever showed face. We were in no way related and not telling her who I was wasnt on purpose other than to protect myself. Anyways we knew each other through a friend, weren't directly friends. When we both found out we knew each other and who each other were, I was kinda stunned, she freaked out. She asked me to delete all photos of her and not to talk to her again. Turns out she had a huge crush on my best friend and started to casually see him about a year later. I dont think I have spoken a word to her aloud since but we agreed to not tell anyone about it and to delete the pics.
    I was quite shocked for a long time afterwards. One time she had me give a show to 2 of her friends, who I know I know(they didnt cam that day). I have always wondered if she told anyone she knew, I actually never told my friends. I wasnt going to tell them I do random online dick shows online, last thing I need is my buddies finding out about that. Oh well its a weird thing anyways and weirder if you do it to trick someone. Id rather not know if someone I knew found out about me, makes my skin crawl, and Im an exhibitionist.
     
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    I did with my roommate. I was wondering if he was gay too and I was too shy to ask, so I faked my self on msn and popped that question
     
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    Oh my, you have wrong thoughts! Violating...
     
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    The poll results are a bit alarming. I'm gonna be very careful if I ever cyber in future!

    Or is this just a teen thing?
     
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    I was a teen by then....
     
  15. edonline

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    I was once in a chat room and another guy started flirting with me so we took it to private messaging. He told me some vague details about himself and when we swapped photos, I instantly recognized the background as a friend's parent's yard which I been to several times (we traded faceless pics, btw). I put two and two together and realized that it was my friend's father. I put an end to the conversation, saying I had to go and put him on block. I might have continued chatting with him and possibly told him my identity, but he's real Conservative and very religious, which turned me off.
     
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    No this is just weird and I'm not into cyber sex and I do not want to know anything about what turns my relatives on.
     
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    im 98% straight and have cybereed as a guy and girl with others, noone i know though, could be hot, just not sure if its morally correct. id feel weird after
     
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    I was chatting in a chat room once and this one person took a liking to me. Finally one time he asked if he could send a picture of him and his wife, to see if I be interested in meeting up with them. I said sure no idea who it was, sent pictures and when I opened them I recognized them immediately sitting naked on thier sofa together. Asked what type of person or persons they were looking for. He stated they liked to have a guy down the street from them. Asked if they had any friends they like to get together with. Both like to get together with several of thier friends, and started describing them. Asked if they wanted to see some cool pics. They thought be cool so I sent a pic of my lower half, they wanted to know how far I lived from them. We decided to meet at cafe and the look on thier face when I came walking in and asked if they were so and so, was priceless.
     
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    oh my god you make me laugh young man :biggrin1:
     
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    Several years ago I was cybering with a few people and ended up talking to this guy. We chatted for several minutes under made up names. He got on cam and showed me his chest but it wasn't until he gave me his email address that I realized it might be one of my best friends. He gave me his number because he wanted to chat and I knew it was definitely him. I was horrified. The funny thing is we were meeting later that evening to go to a concert. I never told him it was me. I knew it would embarrass him.
     
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