There is a seres on the UK Channel 4, that I caught briefly last night when I got in, called sex in noughties (00's). A lady called Dear Deirdre who has been writing an agony sex advice column in one of our lowbrows for more than twenty five years was unequivocal. Cybersex is cheating. Her rationale was that any sexual experience that did not involve your partner, but another, was cheating. She was specifically refering to camming where people were jerking off whilst just focusing on the other person's genitals in the act of masterbation. Personally, I have an issue with her definition of a sexual act not involving a partner. Does this make any form of solo masterbation cheating, watching porn or reading erotica? I thought that women, particularly, were being encouraged to discover their own sexuality and that fantasy was part of a healthy sex life?