I am an avid bicyclist, and have a question for other guys about cycling shorts, jocks, and numbness. My lesbian cycling partner thinks I should wear spandex all the time. I am a little shy about it, although I've done it sometimes. I usually wear a jockstrap even though the shorts are designed to be worn without one, because I don't like flopping around on the bike. The jock, though, can cause chaffing and sometimes it just feels too tight after having everything all crunched up tightly on long rides. Do others experience 'numb nuts?' I just got a new bike and seat so hope this goes away. Any thoughts?