Dad - son question

Thanks for your comments. At this age mostly young guys are looking for "contact" with me. And that confuses me...

I have very friendly open interaction with all ages of men in my gym however it is mostly the younger ones who stop to greet, introduce themselves and chat.

I'll be 56 in April.

Enjoy your interaction with them. Sometimes they are looking for a role model, a mentor and sometimes they are just plain horny! ;)
 
My first boyfriend was a Daddy who loved to spoil me. He was á President and CEO of a bank and had inherited wealth. He adored me and we did every imaginable thing when it came to sex. Back in those days 1983, we called our sex partners lovers. I moved on to another city and made my career but always learned so much from him. He was 30+ years older than me and passed away too soon in a car accident many years after we were “lovers”. He made me feel very special and one day I hope to see him again.
 
I'm 40. And yeah, I use an app to meet up with another guy sometimes. You know, needs and all. But never with much success.
When I hit this age I though well that's it. I have my age on there. Not that I was even that lucky or look that great. But I figured it was all over with luck on there.
I get more interest now than ever before. Lots of 20s guys and more in their 40s too. It's really different. I did not expect the opposite.

But I guess I'm now in that official 'dad' age so maybe that. Is that more a thing than I thought? Met up with a guy passing through not that long ago who what wanted to give me a bj. He was 20. Half my age. The whole dynamic is new to me. New feeling. Knowing this is the same age gap as me and my parents. But damn was he into it. One of those deep sloppy bjs. Grabbing himself and running his hand along my hairy thigh to my ass. Wanted to swallow too. I mean, damn. Hot damn.

I try to be careful on there. But either everyone suddenly went full btm slut or hitting 40 was the golden ticket. Idk. It's new. But I didn't feel gross about it. I thought I would if I went through with it. But instead I feel, better about myself for some reason.
 
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It's fairly popular for hot young men to look for older sexual playmates. As long as both of them are enjoying it, what's to feel bad about? I've enjoyed lots of young men this way. Some college boys get so horny for a daddy to fuck them after a long study session, that they enjoy my services to distract them for a few hours. lol. Enjoy!
 
In a nutshell yesterday I fuck with young bodybuilder 23, from my local gym. I'm 47... Should I feel like trash after all?

I go to a gay nudist resort in the summer; there I met 3 couples. Each couple had a senior and a junior.

I was amazed; all of the juniors are as hot as fuck. When Kurt and I were alone he said to me that he noticed how much pre-cum I was oozing. I told him he had that affect on me. He told me that he is so into older men.

I find it strange, however, it is not just the physical. Kurt et al may find mature guys are hotter mentally than a pure physical fuck.

Enjoy your experience. Obviously he enjoyed his time with you. Don't over think it.
 
My first boyfriend was a Daddy who loved to spoil me. He was á President and CEO of a bank and had inherited wealth. He adored me and we did every imaginable thing when it came to sex. Back in those days 1983, we called our sex partners lovers. I moved on to another city and made my career but always learned so much from him. He was 30+ years older than me and passed away too soon in a car accident many years after we were “lovers”. He made me feel very special and one day I hope to see him again.
Wow what sweet story sorry he passed away
 
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I'm 67, the BF is turning 29 in a couple of months. That's us in the avatar <<. We've been together 3 years, are planning to get married soon.
I don't feel bad about the relationship in the least. We treat each other fairly and respectfully, there's really very little we have conflicts about that could remotely be based on some antique view of an "age gap". He like older guys, I like guys (age isn't a big deal). We like a lot of similar things and care for each other a huge deal.

There's more pressure from outside the relationship telling us it isn't quite "right" and to that, we both say "Fuck off" to anyone who feels the need to demean what we have.

Your situation doesn't require either of you to feel like "trash" even if people around you like to suggest you should, that you're clearly "preying" on the younger man - even if he's the one who approached you.

Your relationship is between you and the 23-year-old, not with any outsiders.

So feel good about having a very good time with the (potentially) new BF, ignore any age comments, and enjoy what time you do have together. Tune out that voice in your head (which isn't even YOUR voice, it's just social expectations, and straight social expectations to boot!) and fucking enjoy what life has tossed at you in the form of that wonderful younger man who happens to also like you.
 
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My first boyfriend was a Daddy who loved to spoil me. He was á President and CEO of a bank and had inherited wealth. He adored me and we did every imaginable thing when it came to sex. Back in those days 1983, we called our sex partners lovers. I moved on to another city and made my career but always learned so much from him. He was 30+ years older than me and passed away too soon in a car accident many years after we were “lovers”. He made me feel very special and one day I hope to see him again.
What sweet story hate here about him passing
 
My first boyfriend was a Daddy who loved to spoil me. He was á President and CEO of a bank and had inherited wealth. He adored me and we did every imaginable thing when it came to sex. Back in those days 1983, we called our sex partners lovers. I moved on to another city and made my career but always learned so much from him. He was 30+ years older than me and passed away too soon in a car accident many years after we were “lovers”. He made me feel very special and one day I hope to see him again.

What sweet story hate here about him passing
That is really sweet, and I hope that he's the first face you see whenever the time comes @Floodwater . <3