Here's something I've been struggling with. I like "Daddies." Older, masculine, assertive men who are often into domination or leather scenes. Men who smoke American Spirits or Reds and may have an affinity for not cleaning their jockstraps. Men whose entire body is covered with enough hair to keep them warm if they were stripped naked and left in the middle of a snowstorm for four weeks. Men with internet handles like "Topskin72" "CUM2DADDY"or "Skull Mason." (I thought I'd just throw that in there, LOL!) However, In my journeys (read: cruising) I've noticed that many of the guys who fall into my qualifications are also HIV positive. Now, I don't have a problem with men who have HIV, but it seems that there are few daddies, at least in my area, who are negative or not infected. I'm not sure if that's because of the time that they grew up sexually in or their sexual habits (since unprotected sex almost goes hand in hand with leather, S & M and other dominant scenes) but I would like to find some good, hard, rough top men who don't have HIV. If you have comments, advice or just want to call me out on something random that you've clearly taken out of context...feel free to leave it right here in this thread.