"daddy Energy"

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So I don't consider myself a gay man, necessarily, but I have been told I have a strong vibe of "daddy energy"

Not sure what that means and why I am not more sexually attractive to women. . .

Am I doing something wrong?

i think "daddy energy" means that whoever said that to you thinks you're a sexually dominant person, also you're not doing anything wrong, just keep being yourself and don't change who you are to please anyone

they may not be too easy to find but all kinds of women with all kinds of different preferences are out there, i'm sure at least one of them would both be your type and find you sexually attractive
 
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Probably everyone has a different definition of "daddy energy" but I would agree with GBL69, it's kind of a "take charge" attitude or swagger. Not always age related but can be related to experience level.

I'd guess whoever said it, meant it as a compliment that you would do well with guys if you wanted to try it. I'm sure there are women out there who would enjoy you- I think the gays stole calling men "daddy" from women anyway :p
 

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TY both for your responses.

I do not consider myself a "dominant" personality. I would say it's more of a "Don't give a damn" swagger, perhaps.

I know who I am and what I have, but don't want to take charge, I would rather be cuddled to take that edge off.
 
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TY both for your responses.

I do not consider myself a "dominant" personality. I would say it's more of a "Don't give a damn" swagger, perhaps.

I know who I am and what I have, but don't want to take charge, I would rather be cuddled to take that edge off.


Hello DC98,

I think there are different kind of daddy energies. There is a Daddy energy that is more of an attitude and implies a dominance as well.

There is a sugar daddy type vibe that indicates your lovers would benefit financially from your relationship.

I think this one is the best one, the nurturing daddy energy. The one that implies you are going to guide, love and assume a male driven role.

I don't think anyone viewing you as a day type is negative at all. Usually most people mean it as a compliment and our referring to your esthetics. The gay men I know find "daddies" attractive so in all it's a good thing.

About the cuddling... Are you taking applications???

Just kidding I don't mess with straight men when there are so many gorgeous gay men available.

Hugs, tugs and rubs
 
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Women are more complex than men. For a gay man if you look the part then you are in. For a woman, it's a complex algorithm of feelings, perception and consequences that I am seriously glad I don't have to put up with!
 

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At the end of the day, as others have said, you have to just be yourself. No good being labelled a tin of tomato soup only to get cream of asparagus inside.

The only thing lonelier than being alone is being in a relationship with the wrong person.

The hardest part about being straight is that you are expected to do all the chasing. So you basically need to put yourself forward to be rejected over and over again to find someone suitable. It's a numbers game though, so you can't win unless you keep rolling the dice.
 
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