Dads and Sons/Boys

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by B_CBTallthetime, Jun 21, 2008.

  1. B_CBTallthetime

    B_CBTallthetime New Member

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    So at the gym today I see a 55 yo (or so) dude, big roid gut, very vasuclar, but clearly not in the best of shape. He is with a younger dude, maybe 22-24yo. The younger pup is not huge, not small. Very defined. GI Joe haircut. Both guys are wearing white tanks, small shorts, same shoes.

    So, is this a Dad/Son thing? Any of you had experience with this?

    Sort of fascinating - how does the old stud keep up with the pup? They share expenses? How does this sort of thing work?

    Welcome any comments -
     
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    Im sorry, were these people real father/son or were they fuck-buddies...

    (sorry I dont really understand the question)
     
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    sorry - fuck buds

    but the age difference was so great - maybe I'm just super naive, must be quite the relationship. looks as if the pup is starting to roid up big time
     
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    when I was 18 i was dating a 36 yo man...when I was 19 i was dating a 44 yo man.....I guess there was a dad/son dynamic......It was assumed that I didn't pay for anything...I didn't mind at all
     
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    I miss not paying for anything.
     
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    me too:eek:
     
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    Me three!!
     
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    Will you pay for everything for me daddy?
     
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    Here's fifty cents. Don't spend it all in one place.
     
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    i never understood the appeal of that... but i guess then again i've never really been attracted to someone that much older than me.
     
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    Go out with them and find out the truth.:smile:


    No. Your daddy will have to pay his own way.:biggrin1:
     
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    but if a dude is in his early 20s and the other guy is in his 50s, that must make for some interesting situations

    I guess Indy's 19/44 is closer to the two dudes I saw at the gym today.

    I'm guessin that some of these pups are "projects" for the dad - roid them up, sculpt them.
     
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    I’m not as old as the guy you mentioned but do date those half my age and am looking too settle down with one (again). With me it’s not like a father/son thing although I suppose it’s like that in a lot of ways. I view it more as somebody I can be best friends with and vice versa and just happen to be attracted too much younger guys. There are a lot of younger guys with issues that appreciate the wisdom of an older guy and there are a lot with no issues that are simply attracted to the mindset of an older guy from my experience. Stability I think is another factor.

    Never had a problem keeping up with anybody as I’m pretty active myself.

    One thing that is a problem is others often only see a younger guy that dates/lives with an older guy as a piece-of-meat gold-digger and don’t think there could be anything involved like real mutual interest, companionship and/or love. Some can be rude about it even but I expect they are just jealous or simpleminded.
     
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    Thats what some people desire. I was at a cruisey spot once, well populated with young handsome guys.. in comes an older gent and I swear 1/3 of the guys swarmed after him. Some young folk have issues and I dont know any older dude who would turn them down..

    Age was never an issue for me. Some older men are attractive, some let themselves go.
     
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    been there too ;) even sucked a 55y.o. when i was 20 and always used to fantasize about my dads cock
     
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    This kind of relationship is not at all different from the older man/younger woman that is pumped into the brains and psyches of straight men. The Dad/Son/Boy, Coach/Player, Bear/Cub, Sir/Boy dynamic is a male version of the Man/Cheerleader, Teacher/female student dynamic and fantasy that permeates a lot of porn.

    My man is 10 years older than me and I know a lot of couples where there is an age difference of more than 2-3 years. The age difference is not a big deal at all.

    The other thing to consider is that age is not what makes someone a "daddy" or a "boy/cub/pup." Attitude and chemistry between two people is key.

    As Indy has said, he looks like a daddy but is all boy on the inside. I look and act more boyish most of the time and definitely have my daddy tendencies. If I am around older, more mature men, I fall into a more cubbish role by default. Similarly, when I am around younger men, I assume a more mature, "daddy" type of role.

    I also have a buddy who is the daddy in his relationship, even though his BF is 5 years older than he is (46-51). they work out together and are both in phenomenal shape.
     
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    Cool stuff -

    How many have been an older dudes muscle project? Take a younger guy and build him up into a real muscle giant?

    Sounds fun.
     
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    I’m the type that gravitates towards a swimmers build so as soon as that status is achieved we leave the gym and head to the beach! :cool:
     
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    Do you get to choose what your swimmer wears to the beach?
     
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    You mean as in sunscreen or suntan lotion because why would we wear anything else at the beach? :biggrin1:
     
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