Intersting views. Didn't really have much contact with my dad growing up but my mother indicated he wasn't small. I've recently got back in contact with him & he does his best to be supportive. He knows both me & my brother have whoppers that outclass him & he doesn't seem to mind although since finding out he has become slightly more vague about sex, and has gone from actively bringing it up in conversation to waiting for it to come up & then taking a rather passive role. I had cause to ask his advice recently. I went through a phase of being sexually active in one way or another 8 times a day, the end result was a horrifically swollen penis with a foreskin so swollen that I couldn't retract it at all, even to urinate. Going to the toilet was extremely painful as I had to gritt my teeth & yank, while squatting over the bath because it came out at a different angle every time. Being a medic I knew this meant circumscision, my foreskin had worked fine previously. I took the opportunity to talk to my dad about it as I knew he had it done when he was younger. He was cagey but said he was so young he didn't remember as he was born with a tight foreskin, so couldn't allay my worries about loss of sensation etc. He surveyed his friends that had been done after becomming sexually active for me, on the pretext of "my son shags so much his cocks gone wrong". So I got a reassuring phone call from him. If I'm honest, now he knows I'm a big lad, bigger than him, he's become shyer. As for my boys, when I have them, I just hope they come to terms with it quicker than I did. I went to a mixed sex boarding school, and if I'm honest I'm not good looking. The male population of the school was divided into 2 groups. The majority who were unpleasant, and the minority who regarded it as a thing of wonder. I hope my boys learn the techniques I had to discover by blunder. I hope they are happy in themselves. Above all I hope to instill in them that having a penis makes you male, not necessarily a man