not a quiz. the questions are just starting points if you want them. are you as close to your kids as you'd like to be? do you get to spend time doing stuff with them? do you feel like society supports you in this? do you encounter problems because parent/child facilities are aimed at women? are your employers sympathetic if you need time off or can't work late? is it assumed that their mother knows more and should deal with the kids? are there things that bother you?