Damn I think that I'm falling in love

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  1. Axcess

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    I think that I'm falling in love with a girl that I met few months ago . She single but she clearly think me as a friend . I don't want to fall in love with a girl that I don't have a chance with her in a million years . That's terrrible . What I should do ? :frown1::frown1::frown1:
     
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    Ask her out! Make it a date and be as charming as possible. You won't get anywhere without asking.
     
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    I agree, you should take a chance and ask her out.
    O dele una secret nota con a cita de Neruda o algo romantico.
    Entonces ella sabe pero no sabe que es usted. Verdad? :shrug:
     
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    I don't know who said it but: "showing up is 90 percent of success..." -

    And women are not mind-readers - she may Want to think you are more than a friend, but women (most?? some??) are VERY hesitant to make ANY move...as we 'expect' men to chase us...so gather up the supplies for a picnic or whip up your favorite meal and invite her over...

    Nothing ventured - nothing gained.
     
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    I don't know who said it but: "showing up is 90 percent of success..." -

    And women are not mind-readers - she may Want to think you are more than a friend, but women (most?? some??) are VERY hesitant to make ANY move...as we 'expect' men to chase us...so gather up the supplies for a picnic or whip up your favorite meal and invite her over...

    Nothing ventured - nothing gained.
     
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    You're never gonna know until you ask her out, & discover for yourself.
     
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    does she know how you feel?
     
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    Ask her out I guess....

    if she seems a little suprised then ur gonna have to explain to her that u do actually have feelings for her without going overboard or fightening her off!!

    At the end of the day all u can do is have a go!!

    Good luck!!

    Falling in love is the WORST I know!!!!
     
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    I tried to ignore it when that happened to me and a year later i still regret not doing anything about my feelings. Definitely take the above advice.
     
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    How is falling in love the worst? lol
     
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    Cos u have no control over it and who it happens with.....thats why they call it falling.

    Ur emotions just do their own thing.......
     
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    I guess I'm lucky because the love of my life feels the same way about me.
     
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    Agreed!
     
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    Only regret the things you do, not the things you haven't done.

    Talk to her. She'll respect you all the more, whichever way she feels.
     
  15. Axcess

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    No She doesnt' but I feel that I'm in the friend zone with her .
     
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    I will try before Valentine day . I tell you all how it goes. I hate falling in love . I agree . I don't like being without control of my emotions . If she don't feel the same ( I suspected that ) is even worse.
     
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    Personally I would wait til after Valentine's day. Otherwise you'll be together or on a date on Valentines day and it will be weird cos its new.
     
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    I would second this. A Valentine's Day date so early in a relationship might raise expectations unrealistically high - better off to start with both feet firmly planted on the ground.

    Lots of luck to you.
     
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    I finally revealed today my feelings to her but she says that she likes me only as a good friend. I'm okay with it . I expected that response anyways.
     
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