Dancing and Erections?

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  1. bobbybrowj

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    when dancing with a random girl at the club and I feel aroused, is it best to let the girl know im hard by grinding on her more or should I try and point it up and outta the way? let me hear your thoughts ladies
     
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    the topic name would make a great reality show...
    I can see it now!!
    Dancing with erections...
    new famous people every week...
    first to go soft or jizz their pants gets voted off..

    um... if a girl is grinding on you...
    I think the point is to get you hard...
    its kind of a turn on & power thing???
    if you don't like it & think its a problem...
    don't grind on bitches...
    dance like normal people...
    not a stripper working a pole for dollar bills...
     
  3. ManlyBanisters

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    There are 2 possible answers:

    1. All women are the same and all women when dancing with a man whose penis becomes errect will respond in exactly the same way. Grind the bitches with your massive woman conquering man-meat and they will be begging for it before you can say "Who's first, hos!"

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    2. It entirely depends on the woman in question, what mood she's in, whether she's attracted to you and if so how much, how drunk/high she is, what friends she has with her or who she thinks may be watching, whether she finds that kind of thing playful or sleazy in general.

    Take a wild guess which of those answers is serious.
     
  4. D_Doewell Dadong

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    Lets hope there isn't any grinding like in the film superbad
     
  5. dolfette

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    if a guy i'm not already intimate with starts grinding his chubby against me, i'm going to do something unpleasant and aggressive.
    it is, technically, legally, sexual assault.
    i suggest you make quite certain that the lady in question is into that before you make such a move...you wouldn't want a nasty surprise like me.
     
  6. vince

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    I'm hoping for number one. :redface:
     
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    If you two are on something, meaning a type of realationship, she will love and that will turn her on.
     
  8. D_Rawkesbye Deadheade

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    Check her blood alcohol content before making any decisions.
     
  9. D_Doe_Ray_Mi

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    I think the above female response is pretty representative of how that unsolicited act might likely be received. I.e., the correct response is # 2. Be smart and I'm quite sure your common sense concurs.
     
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    I don't know any woman who would enjoy having some random guy in a club grinding his erection against her unless she's expressly given him some indication that she wanted him to.

    And as Dolfette says, technically in most jurisdictions it would qualify as a sexual assualt. If you don't want a kick in the balls and a possible feel of your collar by the police I'd keep your boner to yourself.
     
  11. B_jeepguy2

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    I dunno, I remember dancing with my prom date when I was 17, and I was hard as a rock the whole time. I tried to keep her from rubbing against me because she was not my gf, just a good friend that I asked to go to the dance but I was 17 and very horny. I am pretty sure she knew what was going on in my pants but she was cool about it.
     
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    You were 17 she was a good friend, randomers in clubs is a different matter no ?
     
  13. B_jeepguy2

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    Yeah pretty much the same deal. Unless it is someone I was involved with sexually or wanted to become involved sexually I would keep it low key. LOL Chances are she already knows, and if she lets on that she wants more then I would go for it!
     
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