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I was dancing at a party....over weekend at the lake....wifey got pissed...we left....at home she became very pissed...dropped kicked my drunken ass/bruises are starting to turn nice shade of black and blue....I slept in other room w/one eye open....hehe.....happy feet jeff has hung up my dancing shoes.....I blame it on the WHISKEY......surely i did nuttin wrong??....what u think???....her answer...I was not showing her enough atten....wow a fine way to get more kind treatment....
 

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There's dumb and then there's weapons grade dumb. Enjoying yourself with another woman in front of your wife definitely qualifies as the latter.
 

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I was dancing at a party....over weekend at the lake....wifey got pissed...we left....at home she became very pissed...dropped kicked my drunken ass/bruises are starting to turn nice shade of black and blue....I slept in other room w/one eye open....hehe.....happy feet jeff has hung up my dancing shoes.....I blame it on the WHISKEY......surely i did nuttin wrong??....what u think???....her answer...I was not showing her enough atten....wow a fine way to get more kind treatment....

Depends. Have you had a conversation where you talk about what is acceptable vs. not acceptable behavior? What flies in one relationship may not fly in another. Doesn't mean one is more right or wrong - it just means that the parties involved need to be on the same page.
 

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the ladies I danced with were all her good friends....next day they were visiting and I walked in...things got quiet...ALL 3 called me shithead at same time.....i showed them my hairy ass crack and left the room....they were laughing...I guess i get to live....dang...double standards....All i did was bump and grind a bit....GEEZZZZZ
 

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Calambo how would you feel if your wife was enjoying herself with another man in front of you in the same manner? I am genuinely curious. I know I would have an issue if my woman was.

BUDDY...in the enviroment of where/what we all doing....I am totally up for some fun....look/touch/bump/grind....kinda gets my juices flowing....in past we would go home and fuck like bunnys....many times she has danced w/my buddys and strangers....no naked hunchin...no bubbles..just country rock...I feel fine and trust her...
 

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I have danced with other women in the presence of my wife only with her approval, and no slow dances, no grinding dances.

I have also danced with a few gals when my wife is not present, again no slow dances, no grind dances.

the only time I did get in trouble was the one time i danced with an old flame without the wife's permission.
 

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You've mentioned in the past that you and your wife have been having some marital problems (the whole mancation thing). Naturally, that would cause her to be more prone to jealousy and be more easily irritated. You two really need to talk things out. You can't continue to do things that you know will bother her (or should know), otherwise your marriage is seriously going down the drain.

Talk to her! Or seek marriage counseling.
 

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I was dancing at a party....over weekend at the lake....wifey got pissed...we left....at home she became very pissed...dropped kicked my drunken ass/bruises are starting to turn nice shade of black and blue....I slept in other room w/one eye open....hehe.....happy feet jeff has hung up my dancing shoes.....I blame it on the WHISKEY......surely i did nuttin wrong??....what u think???....her answer...I was not showing her enough atten....wow a fine way to get more kind treatment....
It depends upon what kind of dancing you were doing and with whom. Did your know the woman??? Did you get too close? Was it dirty dancing?? That is all the questions you need to answer. Put yourself into her shoes and think how you would feel if you saw your wife dancing with another man the way you were dancing.
She sounds like the jealous type. So you need to be careful.
 

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There's dumb and then there's weapons grade dumb. Enjoying yourself with another woman in front of your wife definitely qualifies as the latter.[/QUOTE] YUP! :yup:

the ladies I danced with were all her good friends....next day they were visiting and I walked in...things got quiet...ALL 3 called me shithead at same time.....i showed them my hairy ass crack and left the room....they were laughing...I guess i get to live....dang...double standards....All i did was bump and grind a bit....GEEZZZZZ
Bump and grind?!?! :261: You are married that is not allowed.:mad::rolleyes::duh:


You've mentioned in the past that you and your wife have been having some marital problems (the whole mancation thing). Naturally, that would cause her to be more prone to jealousy and be more easily irritated. You two really need to talk things out. You can't continue to do things that you know will bother her (or should know), otherwise your marriage is seriously going down the drain.

Talk to her! Or seek marriage counseling.
Well said! It never ceases to amaze me how many men on this site complain because their wives or girlfriends are behaving in a normal fashion and they want to behave like 20 years old manwhores. :confused:
 

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i don't mind any guy of mine dancing.
shit, i don't even mind him getting some if i'm not there and he plays safe.
but grinding on someone else when i'm there is just fucking rude.
even worse if the relationship has hit a rough patch.
 

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BUDDY...in the enviroment of where/what we all doing....I am totally up for some fun....look/touch/bump/grind....kinda gets my juices flowing....in past we would go home and fuck like bunnys....many times she has danced w/my buddys and strangers....no naked hunchin...no bubbles..just country rock...I feel fine and trust her...
Different strokes for different folks, buddy :smile: