the_reverend
Sexy Member
What do you mean by that?
which part do you need explaining? i was being a bit glib, but pretty sure i was still clear. lol
What do you mean by that?
which part do you need explaining? i was being a bit glib, but pretty sure i was still clear. lol
I didn't know you where saying it in a joking way. A lot of people don't know what date rape is, or they define it differently. They think if the girl got drunk on her own, then they can do whatever they want.
I think it's best saved for the third date.Date rape. What do you think?
I'm sorry for what happened to you Nick, but I appreciate you sharing.
I really feel for you Nick and I'd like to say that years later, that feeling that you'll throw-up or wanting to kill goes away. It takes time to process that your boundaries are violated and blame yourself...society blames us on the onset. You blame yourself that had you done A,B,C,D different, it would have never happened.
Thanks. I think in some ways it was particularly difficult to accept as a man. But I processed it with a therapist a long time ago and have long since placed the blame where it belongs. In no way am I psychologically threatened or diminished by circumstances that were beyond my control. I appreciate your feedback.
Hmm, okay then. Truthfully, there are no words to describe that horror, which someone who has not been raped can understand. :no: I think it's commendable that you would want to help a firend through what will pobably be the most difficult thing in her life. I just hope you aren't pushing too hard, in your efforts to help. That can cause the victim to go further into shut-down mode.No. I was never raped. I just Know a few people who have been. I'm just trying to understand.
the fact that some of these women have been stupid doesn't make it ok though.why on earth did the woman put herself in a situation alone with these guys when she did not know him and there was no need to.
so for all you know you were the one throwing him onto the bed and ripping his clothes off? i don't really think that's a date rape situation...you wanted to shag him but can't remember the act.A couple of years ago I did find myself in a date rape like situation. I was out with friends at a bar and started talking to a guy. Helped by loads of free rounds, yes, I had too much. By that time I had already chosen to go off with this guy. When I said I was ready to go home, he hailed a cab, got in it with me and came inside my place. And after that I have no recollection until 5am the next morning when I found this guy in my bed.