dating a girl but dreams about boys

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  1. curiosity_87

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    hi guys
    as my previous posts suggests that i sometimes have dreams about boys
    but strangely enough i still get them now even though i have a girlfriend
    and the funny thing about them are they are of men that are really good looking like those abercrombie and fitch models or whatever
    last night a dream where i was kissing this guy in some dark place and we were caught by a dog that stopped barking when it saw us and a little boy who ran away. i haven't told my gf about these dreams yet i scared that it might scare her away and i don't want to lose her yet.
     
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    They're only dreams and they don't have to mean anything and you don't need to tell your girlfriend, I'm all for honesty but if you dreamt about fridges every now and then you wouldn't feel the need to tell her about that. In dreams the places we go aren't necessarily places we want to go in real life.
     
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    50/50 like me huh?:cool:
     
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    My mom has dreams about having affairs with various famous guys, like film actors, politicians and others. It doesn't mean she's actually going to meet and get involved with them obviously. One time she dreamed that she got it on with Julia Roberts. So what. My mom's bi in her dreams. They're just dreams.
     
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    So then if I dreamed that I got it on with you, would that make you bi...?:rolleyes:
     
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    if u feel u want to live out one of those dreams, then you should experiment to see if that is really what turns u on or not... just dont do someting like marry her before u find out about yourself...
     
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    They're dreams. I had a dream where I was fucking Mrs Claus... so it doesn't make into old women from the North Pole... who don't exist.
     
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    I am married, sometimes, have a real good session with the wife, but sometimes dream about fit guys, do what feels right man.

    Explorer your sexuallity.
     
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    Ok, so do you also dream about girls?

    I used to have dreams about guys but always tried to dismiss it. I think it was my subconcious trying to tell me something.
     
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    Hmm ya this sometimes happens to me too... I try to not read too much into it as I have more intimate dreams about girls (ie just jacking with guys, actual kissing and passion with girls - hence my 60/40% :p)
     
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    Unlike you, I never dreamed about other guys, wasn't curious and wasn't even interested in experimenting until the night it happened following a lot of alcohol. Up until that time I would have considered myself 100% str8.
     
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