It was interesting to find this group, because maybe like most big cock loving gals, I thought any guy with a big dick was gonna be happy with it!
My current beau has a beautiful white horse-cock, but he seems like he has a really conflicted relationship with it and with women as a result! I was wondering if any dudes out there might be able to clue me in on to what is going on inside his head?
1) We had sex after the first date -- I liked him a lot already and remember thinking (I hope he isn't super small cuz this kid is awesome!) -- exactly the opposite. Biggest white boy I've ever met. Unfortunately, although we've been seeing each other for seven months he still seems really hurt and confused about the sex on the first date. He asks me a lot whether I like him or I just like his dick. Or he will put me in hypothetical: "What if I was ugly and had a small dick, would you like me then?"
2) He seems really skeptical of women and not very appreciative of their attention, I figure it is because so many girls see that monster and want to fuck it so he has never had any trouble getting girls. But I don't know...
3) It makes me feel a little bit nervous too because it is just so big, and I do love it and always wanted to be with a guy with a massive cock, but when we fuck it is so much like real porn it feels weird. It makes the animal nature of human sexuality so obvious that I feel confused... Also sometimes I am just scared because it is so big it is like a monster!
Otherwise we are really good together, we both love each other and have told each other, we hang out all the time and are really close, but for the first time in my life I feel like sex is actually the most problematic part of our relationship...
What gives??
Why is it so hard for us, and especially for him, to just relax and enjoy all that big dick sex??
He wanted a wholesome girl and in a nut shell he thinks you're just like all the rest of the women he's complaining about but you're too hard headed to get the hint he's putting out for you which is to move on or you're very smart.
What he doesn't know is that you're just what he needs, he's just never had it before so he doesn't know it when he sees it, hindsight is 20/20 but most guys are too busy looking at the goods.
Maybe you're a wholesome girl who craves large cocks, he might learn something from you if he'd just shut his mouth.
You're not willing to give up his cock so he fucks you because in his mind you're easy, he knows you love his cock so he doesn't have to put much effort into the relationship so he thinks.
Even though he complains all the time you're right there to fuck him so in his shallow mind he thinks he's right about you but he will not commit to a decision, he's indecisive because he's never met a woman like you.
You're a woman who craves large cocks but also at the same time you care about his fragile ego.
If he had a clue that he really cared about you then he wouldn't have so much diahrea of the mouth, he does so because it's a defense mechanism.
He wants you to break it off because he's too shallow to see it through himself, he's treading on new ground and that makes him very uncomfortable.
He'd rather go back to what he knows than walk blindly.
You just have to show him that he's being foolish without hurting him too much, you're dealing with a fragile species called Homo Sapiens who think they're smart & wise along with an incredible ego.
He's still transitioning when it comes to finding the kind of girl in his fantasy, some wholesome girl that sucks his cock daily because she loves him and not just because she's in love with his large cock.
The only problem with that is that he can't see the forest through the trees, he's already found what he's looking for but he needs it spelled out.
In his mind he's faced with two dilemma's,
One:
He likes the sex he has with the cock craving women he complains about, girls who put out on a first date and don't mind a booty call, they're often the ones calling him back for more.
And two:
The problem with him is that wholesome girls who love to suck cock but are not just in love with his cock or worship it are also the kind that can hold out, which is still hard for him to accept.
He wants his cake & cookies at the same time.
He's complaining about what he doesn't want to give up, he's caught in the middle.
What he doesn't understand is that you could hold out on him but choose not too, he's too caught up in thinking he's always right.
He loves it when a woman slobbers all over his cock telling him how big it is because deep down it boosts his ego, he might complain but deep down he loves it when his cock is the center of attention.
If you're in love with this guy then show him by holding out on sex & see if his mouth lines up with his feet.
Give him a taste of wholesomeness with a dash of this is my pussy not yours and make him put up or shut up.
Your best option might be to dump him and move on, it's up to you but if you think his personality and cock is worth it then go to any lengths and make him understand instead of trying so hard to be understood.
C.