Keep in mind this is a support group. I suspect a shower with 14 inches has had multiple problems especially in puberty when he was showing a bulge that all the kids noticed. I wouldn't wish a 14 inch dick on any guy. It would be better to be small. There would be a lot less sneering.
Oh, I don't know, Freddie53. Given the choice between being a kid that everyone noticed for being large compared to being a kid that everyone noticed because he was small, I know which one I'd choose to be.
And you know, it ultimately doesn't make a difference anyway, because if kids want to sneer, they'll find SOMETHING to sneer about. Large, small; smart, dumb; tall, short; fat, thin; skin color; hair color; sexual preference (known or surmised); level of sexual experience: there's always SOMETHING that those who sneer can choose to sneer about.