i'm the opposite way.Also, I would not like to have a stay at home mom, part-time or something like that is fine. Maybe when my child is still a very small baby, she can stay home if she likes. But in the end I would not like to share my life with somebody who likes staying 'at home' for a long time.
i would not have kids with a person who wasn't willing to have one of us be a full time parent until the kid started school.
(it's a tangent, but i firmly believe that my kids are best raised by their parents and not left with strangers until they are old enough to tell me exactly what has happened while they were away from me.
there was a recent case that strengthened my opinion.
Plymouth nursery Little Teds Child Day Care Unit Laira shut down in child porn probe as Vanessa George, employee, is arrested | This is Plymouth
i don't judge parents who choose to use childcare though.)