New i only partially agree with you. I agree that what i want can't be found and money will be needed. But i don't think a woman who appreciates and wants sex should be summarily categorized as "dumb", i just think it's not a biological necessity or interest for women.
I admit not the best wording. Let me clean that up a bit lest the queens get their hives to buzzing, or just opt to aim their drones where they themselves arent allowed...I meant more along the lines of naive, gullible, ignorant to society's nuances at large. I say that because where it remains to be truly discovered if it isn't a biological necessity or interest by women at large, what we do know is what is almost a universally known societal cost of sex that differs for men and women.
is a man who wants sex with many women "dumb?
You're just further highlighting the apple/oranges reality of what you think should be a universal truth. We cannot in any way really consider the hetero male or female's desire or necessity for sex equivalent specifically because they come with starkly different levels of effort to acquire, and starkly different consequences to endure as a result, although there are those rare times when we can identify some equivalence in mitigating circumstances. We may see a homely, or older woman reliably attract many men high up in the attraction hierarchy, and she'll be somewhat free of slut shaming for exercising her sexual appetite as there's an appreciation for the effort/charm she would've presumably had to put forth. On the other end we can look at just about any of the prominent men swept up in the MeToo Movement whose status already granted them a willing, eager, and statutorily legal plethora of sexual options, only to habitually delve into situations of dubious consent, and predatory intent. I would call those men dumb for seeking sex in those situations.
Anais Nin who seemed to have a finer appreciation of sexuality, was certainly no dummy, but she relegated herself to one partner in Henry Miller. I would argue that it's just not in women's DNA, as I've been single over the years and hear and see the same thing from women, seeking serious, meaningful, monogamous relationships... i would assume it's most likely the same in Canada and this biological mentality is sadly universal.
Metaphorically, this exists in the car world...Consumers and enthusiasts prattle endlessly about the features, layout and price points they want their ideal vehicle to have and insist if they were heeded they'd put their money where there mouths are. Then some manufacturer does exactly that..and endures low sales because then there are nothing but complaints about the design, or platform, or whom the make happens to be. Nissan had this problem with the 1st gen R35 GTR . Toyota has also dealt with this in the Toyota86/Subaru BRZ and the Supra with BMW guts.
So too do I think this idea persists in men that there isnt a sizable population of women whom desire sex for the experience and nothing else; they're out there but we have to be honest with ourselves about what features they may/or may not have that seemingly are more important. For every Rihanna that won't even look at a DM, how many Lizzos will lick your balls and ass at the same time if you happen to recommend a restaurant she likes? 50 Cent has access to some of the finest women to walk this earth, and yet Chelsea Handler is his common fuckbuddy, why do you think that is? People have been shipping Chris Evans and Scarlett Johanssen for years, turns out the whole time he was banging with Jenny Slate. This is not to say there aren't drop dead gorgeous, young vivacious women out there on your same sexual wavelength, but societal reality for the most part will never spawn a sizeable population that will be motivated by that what already comes so plentiful and easy. So in order to get what you want you may have to compromise. The Chevy loyalist that wants twin turbo all wheel drive will never get that in a Camaro or a Corvette, they either bite. bite the bullet and learn to love and appreciate a Nissan GTR or piss and moan to a manufacturer not in anyway motivated to give you what you want.
So look at your age preferences, your weight/height requirements, racial preferences, etc., and tell me if its more important to get the amount casual sex you seek, or more important to maintain a strict adherence as to whom you allow the opportunity to share in your pursuit of casual sex.
