Mr. Snakey
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Word bond.:smile::wink: In all candor i was just in New York. The first time in years. I had the city on my mind.Uh yeah... you know betta! LOL!
Word bond.:smile::wink: In all candor i was just in New York. The first time in years. I had the city on my mind.Uh yeah... you know betta! LOL!
How do you know if a person is just being nice or is genuinely interested in dating you?
Universal question for all single folks. A: You don't unless you get to know the person a bit better. Within the first few minutes of friendly chatter, if the person IS interested in you there will usually be a comment about their dating availability slipped in or a kind word about meeting again.
If you are interested but don't know just be friendly back and slip in a comment like "Yeah, I just moved down here by myself a few months ago and..." Bait that hook and wait for a bite.
People who like you that way tend to hold your gaze a bit longer than usual. Rings on fingers are also good clues.
Good Luck NJ.
Str8cfcuk has brought up an excellent point in his most recent
Two Questions:
1) How can I tell when a Southern man is interested in me and not just being polite?
2) When you are new to an area how do you figure out the dating decorum? If I dont get some big white boy cock soon, Im gonna have to do a road trip back to the Garden State and hit up one of my guido guys! njqt466
Hmmm, I wish I could say I'm glad to know I'm not the only one to experience this; but then a gain I'm not the type who believes that misery loves company.Interesting thread. When I spent some time in L.A. in my first trip out of the Midwest earlier this year, I had the most baffling time with both girls AND guys. It's just...a whole different animal. I couldn't get the hang of how it works there.
You could always go on Craigslist (that's DOT com by the way) and ask how to meet men in your area. Or you could just be blunt and say that you're a "SBF looking for a SWM". I've done both with no luck. :redface::frown1:
It's wrong that I laughed at that last part isn't it? :redface::tongue::frown1:For me? I'm really into large breasted women who are loose. Loose meaning slutty, or loose meaning a stretched out bucket cunt? I lucked out a few times by hanging out at the bra shops and the abortion clinics. Just kidding!
Sweetheart,
Ahhh, gotcha! It's not my driving force to a fulfilling life. Though I can see how it may seem that way. I guess I let my horniness overwhelm my good sense when I responded to his post.I think Uncut means that people can smell when someone is dissatisfied with themselves. Putting yourself in the way of meeting people is one thing but allowing the pursuit of the one to be the driving force along the way to a fulfilling life is another.
Two Questions:
1) How can I tell when a Southern man is interested in me and not just being polite?
2) When you are new to an area how do you figure out the dating decorum?
3) The above would be even more difficult if a person was returning to the dating scene after the end of a long relationship. How would a person go about dealing with all of that?
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Originally Posted by uncut
It's when you stop looking that you find someone.
You know I love you babe; but if one more person trys to sell me that old chestnut I am going to scream like a banshee! :aargh4:It has been my experience that, that is just bullshit. :suspect:
My experience tells me differently. I did not have sex until I was 25, women didn't seem to be interested and I was clumsy, insecure and self-conscious which wasn't helping. I met a girl who was as confused as I was and had sex for the first time, finally! After that I was more relaxed about sex and life, after that it was easier for me to talk tp and be around women and I believe that is the only reason that I was able to make an impression on my future wife a few months later.
Having your true love, the one, soul mate, whatever just fall into your lap is a very rare thing. I don't know anyone in real life for whom that has happend, so excuse me for being so skeptical.
My wife didn't literally fall into my lap, but the first time I met her she was sitting on a log in a meadow, she was backpacking with her boyfriend, we spent about a month in the same area, all of us went on hikes, did some fence work and we brought in extra food so that we could eat together. Two years later, after marrying the guy, she came back into the front country of the wilderness area and looked me up, within hours we knew we were in love. We have been together for over 33 years. I don't know if our story exactly meets your criteria or not but it sure worked for us.
It works for me and my wife also!I met her almost 17 years back,I new when I spoke to her she was the one and I don't regret it today.:smile:I don't know if our story exactly meets your criteria or not but it sure worked for us.
Two Questions:
1) How can I tell when a Southern man is interested in me and not just being polite?
2) When you are new to an area how do you figure out the dating decorum?
3) The above would be even more difficult if a person was returning to the dating scene after the end of a long relationship. How would a person go about dealing with all of that?
Probably the same way I am; with enthusiasm, trepidation and a smidge of ineptness.:tongue:
3) The above would be even more difficult if a person was returning to the dating scene after the end of a long relationship. How would a person go about dealing with all of that?
Probably the same way I am; with enthusiasm, trepidation and a smidge of ineptness.:tongue:
Ahhh, your too cute NJ.
Two Questions:
Ahhh, your too cute NJ.[/quote] I know, unfortunately I'm not a puppy. :frown1: Cute, charming, sexy, none of it seems to be getting me dates lately.:redface:1) How can I tell when a Southern man is interested in me and not just being polite?
2) When you are new to an area how do you figure out the dating decorum?
3) The above would be even more difficult if a person was returning to the dating scene after the end of a long relationship. How would a person go about dealing with all of that?
Probably the same way I am; with enthusiasm, trepidation and a smidge of ineptness.:tongue: