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Counting rings!?!:eek::smile:

No, Chrissy pretended not to get the question. The question is simple. Did you ever start dating a guy and have sex with him, then after the dynamics of a relationship died, or evidently weren't going to to anywhere, did you stay at it just for the great, big dick, sex?

Funny given that so many women stay in abusive, no great sex, relationships all the time.

There aren't that many big dicks that are good at fucking so I guess it makes sense many women would say no. It's why women say size doesn't matter, most haven't had great, big dick, sex how would they know?

I wonder if Chrissy is having great, big dick sex? She probably is.

I don't agree, and Chrissy is having noneofyourdamnbusiness for breakfast lunch and dinner. :smile:
 

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Funny given that so many women stay in abusive, no great sex, relationships all the time.

There aren't that many big dicks that are good at fucking so I guess it makes sense many women would say no. It's why women say size doesn't matter, most haven't had great, big dick, sex how would they know?
I know. Believe me. I have hit the huge-cock-lotto more times than is fair. I've also had amazing sex with the largest-hung man I've known in the same week as phenomenal sex with a guy with less than half his length, and maybe a bit over two-thirds his girth. I am no stranger to the penis, and for me, penis size is just not important. Other things have a much greater impact on my enjoyment than size. You don't know what it's like to wrap your pussy around a cock of any size. So what would you know?

EDIT: I'm not trying to speak for all women. I am fully aware that for many women, size is very important. I just do not support some man telling those of us for whom it is not that we don't know any better. It is patronization tantamount to telling a lesbian that she just hasn't met the right man!
 
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EDIT: I'm not trying to speak for all women. I am fully aware that for many women, size is very important. I just do not support some man telling those of us for whom it is not that we don't know any better. It is patronization tantamount to telling a lesbian that she just hasn't met the right man!
^^^that!
 

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I forget the expression here for having seconds when convenient with exes, but upon reflection, it was that habit that started my sexual behaviour. I dated, had relationships, in the perfectly normal manner, but seem to have had a high percentage of exes who would hook up again just for sex, even ten years later. I slept with one ex for old times sake a few weeks before she got married.

In hindsight my head wishes that I had behaved differently, but my heart (and libido) usually won the day. These friends were using me and I was fine with that. We are suckers for the ego boost of being desired. Strange world.
 

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I know. Believe me. I have hit the huge-cock-lotto more times than is fair. I've also had amazing sex with the largest-hung man I've known in the same week as phenomenal sex with a guy with less than half his length, and maybe a bit over two-thirds his girth. I am no stranger to the penis, and for me, penis size is just not important. Other things have a much greater impact on my enjoyment than size. You don't know what it's like to wrap your pussy around a cock of any size. So what would you know?

EDIT: I'm not trying to speak for all women. I am fully aware that for many women, size is very important. I just do not support some man telling those of us for whom it is not that we don't know any better. It is patronization tantamount to telling a lesbian that she just hasn't met the right man!

First, I think you're confused. I just said big dick not huge dick (big>=7" and huge>=8"). Second, given the studies, unless you're swinging and putting out the advert for only big/huge dick, I can't imagine that you get that much of it. It is rare. If in fact you have a lot of sex, then sex itself is enjoyable to you and you are likely to find all dick to be basically equal.

For recreational sex, skill being equal, big dick matters. Just watch some amateur porn for reasonable proof (It is free and all over the internet). Average (6") dick with skill trumps big dick with no skill. The basis of skill is staying power.

Caveat being that length is being proportional to circumference. Thickness is 70% of size for the sake of aesthetic and physical stimulation.

I'm cut and happy enough with the fact, but with a good looking penis women love a foreskin when giving a hand job. The mechanics of it seem to entrance them. It's funny to watch.

P.S. 6X5 inch dick with skill makes almost all women happy enough.
 

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First, I think you're confused. I just said big dick not huge dick (big>=7" and huge>=8"). Second, given the studies, unless you're swinging and putting out the advert for only big/huge dick, I can't imagine that you get that much of it. It is rare. If in fact you have a lot of sex, then sex itself is enjoyable to you and you are likely to find all dick to be basically equal.

For recreational sex, skill being equal, big dick matters. Just watch some amateur porn for reasonable proof (It is free and all over the internet). Average (6") dick with skill trumps big dick with no skill. The basis of skill is staying power.

Caveat being that length is being proportional to circumference. Thickness is 70% of size for the sake of aesthetic and physical stimulation.

I'm cut and happy enough with the fact, but with a good looking penis women love a foreskin when giving a hand job. The mechanics of it seem to entrance them. It's funny to watch.

P.S. 6X5 inch dick with skill makes almost all women happy enough.

Still patronizing women! I am NOT confused. I know how to use a measuring tape, and I also know the exact lengths of my fingers, my palm, and my forearm. When I give a number, it's a real number, not an internet number. I have had more than my share of partners with dicks whose length measured between 6" and 8", but I have had a few partners with lengths between 8" and 10". Like I said, I hit the lotto over and over, and I know it. Even more rare are opportunities for sex with men with penises between 2" and under 5". Some of the lengths in that range are just as rare, and surveys imply that these men are by far less sexually active than their larger counterparts. I'm attractive, I have a nice body, I'm friendly and approachable, I'm charming whenever I like, and when I was single I made no secret of being open to casual sexual relationships. I assume only a certain kind of man knows how to respond to a personality and mindset like mine. I also know from reading threads and chatting with men on measurection.com that guys who think they have small cocks DO NOT approach tall women with large breasts. They say things like, "Men with huge dicks deserve to get girls like that, not me." I am only attracted to very tall men, and in my experience very tall men with small pricks are even less likely to go for my type. Men with small penises think women with my body type are A: Used to bigger dicks already, and B: Born with larger vaginae than short, petite women. Trust: my actual experiences as a sexually active woman trump your speculations regarding the female experience every single day of the week.

Next, your definitions of what "big", "huge", and "average" penises measure are nothing more than subjective semantics, dipped in speculative bullshit. Big, and huge can only ever be subjective, and the best studies put the average length closer to 5.1"-5.7".

Now. For me, for recreational sex (which we'll define as all sex where offspring are not the main objective, AKA: damn' near all sexual encounters) skill being equal (read slowly now) SIZE DOES NOT MATTER. For me. A guy who knows how to give and receive pleasure with his specific penis is not going to have a problem with me. Shorter-hung men have found sensitive regions inside me that men on this site never mention. They are probably too big to receive a measure of pleasure which is comparable to the pleasure I receive when a man strokes those zones. Likewise, smaller men, regardless of skill, do not, cannnot provide certain sensations which only bigger men can. I like a very full, stretched feeling throughout. A smaller guy can only (if the angle is just right) give the same full, stretched feeling to one section at a time, and that section is never symmetrical. It feels great though.

What it boils down to for me is that I find the pleasure from a smaller-hung guy to be equal but different to the pleasure from a larger, or even much larger-hung guy. It is absolutely not the same set of sensations, but I happen to equally enjoy the full gamut. I have spoken to women in my personal life, as well as online with far less sexual experience than I who have said the same thing. They feel the difference, they just happen to love the feelings anyway. For women like us, the size doesn't matter. It's just a non-issue. My one disclaimer would be that when I have had opportunity with men who packed fewer than 3" I did not take these opportunities, because the overwhelming evidence was that it wouldn't work out. One in particular seemed to lack basic make-out skills. To everything there is a limit.

I disagree that the basis of skill is staying power. The basis of skill is sexual knowledge of one's own body and pleasure. Only with this self-awareness can one guess at the best way to give pleasure to another. Communication is key, but if a partner can't even guess, can't get himself into the ballpark, how does one guide him or her? Endurance is also necessary, but endurance without sexual knowledge of oneself is completely worthless. I don't care how long a man can last if he can't do anything right!

I don't mind that I had to break this down for you like this. Learning from each other is one reason we're all here. I mind that I had to explain it to you not because you asked respectful questions, but rather because you are the kind of know-it-all who thinks he can speak for an entirety of a group of people to which he doesn't even belong! Your post was inflammatory, patronizing, condescending, poorly defended, and just plain insulting.
 

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Still patronizing women! I am NOT confused....insulting.

Strange girl. :rolleyes:

I think you're mainly objecting to the matter of fact tone. I don't think you can point out a single thing in which I contradict you.

And for you, your argument relies on personal experience and anecdotal moments. I use the same and point out that I did what amounts to an informal survey of amateur porn (by watching a lot :). (Justified it by pretending it was an anthropological exercise)

Size matters. Larger than average (not humongous) is preferred by most women by the expression on their face and the reaction to sex and the choices they make when offered more than one cock at a time.

Staying power is key to skill. It is 50% of the total. Foreplay, rhythm, attitude, rate of position change, number of positions (highly size dependent) and other stuff make up the balance. A guy that lasts 1.5 minutes will never make the grade. Nothing funnier than a guy fucking, cumming and his girl desperately trying to finish herself off with his waning stiffy. You can actually see the dejection projected onto her ass as it sadly slumps after trying and failing to maintain the thrusting. Usually the guy was probably a mere 1-2 minutes from doing his job right (dumb fuck).

If there is anything a short dick has on a big dick, a big dicked guy can make it up with fingers during foreplay.

For your wonderful sex life I'm glad for you. Nice to hear someone is happy about it. :)

Size matters. Every woman has the perfect size for her. For most (60-70%) it happens to be on the large average of the size scale.
 
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staying power, staying power, staying power.

part of being a great lover is knowing when to stop.
too much of a good thing becomes a bad thing.
i hate the silly assumption that all women want a three hour fuckfest.
and i hate being in bed with some egomaniac who needs to be great in bed. it makes me feel like little more than an extra in his own mental porno scene.

no, you are NOT da man.
 

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For you dumbass men out there who might take my opinion wrong.

PE doesn't work. You're likelier to mutilate your dick than make it appreciably "bigger".

If you have an average dick or smaller, work on your skills, as evidenced by all the women commenting here and everywhere you'll make them happy with that.
 

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i'm glad you didn't,
because everything you've ever posted makes me think you're not.

the best sex i ever had was with a virgin.
the energy, enthusiasm, excitement and connection made it great.
 

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i'm glad you didn't,
because everything you've ever posted makes me think you're not.

:rolleyes:

the best sex i ever had was with a virgin.
the energy, enthusiasm, excitement and connection made it great.

Wasn't I on your ignore list? :biggrin1:

BTW, I was gallery trolling (nothing YOU can do about that), nice gallery pics.





Now go take your grudge fuck fantasies back to your boyfriend and tell him to thank me when you're done with him. :cool:
 

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i can still see where you're quoted,
and choose to view a post if i'm in the mood to tell you how much you suck.

congrats on thus far resisting homophobic {or is that biphobic?} comments.
 

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i can still see where you're quoted,
and choose to view a post if i'm in the mood to tell you how much you suck.

congrats on thus far resisting homophobic {or is that biphobic?} comments.

Why, are you a a homo?



Okay, I've done my job frustrating you now go get laid by your girlfriend.
 

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Strange girl. :rolleyes:

I think you're mainly objecting to the matter of fact tone. I don't think you can point out a single thing in which I contradict you.
No! I told you my objection but your ego is in the way. My objection is to the fact that you said women who say size doesn't matter have not had great sex with a big dick and do not know for themselves if size matters or not. I know size is important to many women, but for me it just isn't! I resent being told by a man who doesn't know how to operate a pussy from an ownership perspective is telling me I'm wrong about my perception of my own damn' pleasure. Size matters to a whole lot of women, and maybe even most women. But size does not matter to all women, and so if we say it doesn't matter to us, we must be taken at our word. Thinking further along that line: A woman who actually does lack the experience to make the distinction is still right. Up to that pooint, size hasn't mattered for her. She is satisfied.

And for you, your argument relies on personal experience and anecdotal moments. I use the same and point out that I did what amounts to an informal survey of amateur porn (by watching a lot :). (Justified it by pretending it was an anthropological exercise)
No. You use your perception of a moment you didn't personally witness. You haven't asked those couples any questions, you probably haven't seen the same amateur females with a range of cock sizes in order to gage an individual woman's response over a spectrum, and you have no personal experience to report because you do not have a pussy.

Size matters. Larger than average (not humongous) is preferred by most women by the expression on their face and the reaction to sex and the choices they make when offered more than one cock at a time.
Actually, what you are saying you know for sure is that this is true of women interested in putting on a free sexual show for unknown masses. Let's be real. How many women not in the sex industry actually want more than one dick at a time? I don't. I like the idea in fantasy, but every time it's been even a remote possibility I was repulsed. I don't know many women who admit to wanting mfm or trains. I do agree with you, for entirely different (and more reasonable reasons) that most women prefer a larger than average penis.

Staying power is key to skill. It is 50% of the total. Foreplay, rhythm, attitude, rate of position change, number of positions (highly size dependent) and other stuff make up the balance. A guy that lasts 1.5 minutes will never make the grade...
Of course not. But a guy who can last an hour but doesn't know anything else is a bad lay. A guy who knows what he should be doing, but just can't stay hard enough to do it can figure out how to keep a woman excited until he can finish the job properly. This is a much better lay. You may continue to disagree with me on this point, but I'd venture that you're making some women here think that you must be a pretty bad lay.

If there is anything a short dick has on a big dick, a big dicked guy can make it up with fingers during foreplay.
I don't think so. I like fingers too, but they feel like fingers. Sometimes I want to feel fingers, but what I most look forward to in a sexual encounter, is the cock. What a man does with his fingers can be great, but does not replace the feeling off a penis.


Size matters. Every woman has the perfect size for her. For most (60-70%) it happens to be on the large average of the size scale.
You'll never learn, because you're closed-minded. I do not have a favorite size, and I've definitely the experience to form my own opinion. I believe other women who say that for them, size doesn't matter. What's your real objection to my contradictions? Do you have a large penis? Do women like me threaten your sense of your sexual value? If so, that would be your problem, and not ours. If this is true, please do not project your insecurities on women who are already fine with their own sexual needs.
 

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No!
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I told you If so, that would be your problem, and not ours. If this is true, please do not project your insecurities on women who are already fine with their own sexual needs.

:rolleyes:

I have no intention rebutting you point by point. Suffice it to say most thinking guys will read truth and see it and it will set them free.