You get to spend all major holidays alone, something always comes up on your birthday, and there is onone to kill spiders for you. Not a great idea!
I wouldn't put this just on married men. I have been in relationships with gay single men who are so independent that they find other holiday plans or spend holidays and birthdays with immediate family. When I got tired of their closeted attitudes and them not including me in their lives, I dumped them.
Also met a Latino married dude with children many years ago, my 1st MM, who ended up using my pad for his personal whore house (without inviting me, the bastard!), he was gone too.
Despite these unfortunate experiences, I would consider another married man but only if all parties know what is going on. Ideally, he would invite me to dinner with the wife and . . . :biggrin1:
As for married guys nite out, bonding with other men, etc., if the wife has no idea, the "secret" may eventually come out (pun intended) and you should be ready to accept the consequences.
P.S. Married men ***DO*** make fantastic bottoms! :smile: