Dating Men with a Foot Fetish

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  1. Notthe7

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    I'm not sure if any of you other women with nice feet get this, but I continually seem to date men with a foot fetish.

    I'm already anal about my feet (pedicures, soft skin, etc) and this has compounded the issue in my mind.... that they always have to be 'perfect'.

    It's funny really;regardless of race, job, income, penis size... the guys I date always get down on some feet. Recently however... the guy I had been seeing took it to a whole new level. Foot jobs anyone? I've never felt so inadequate in all my life! (Tips are welcomed by the way)

    I almost felt silly but I know he is REALLY into doing this... :redface:


    Ladies: comments, suggestions, stories....
    Guys.. you're welcomed to join in
     
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    I've always found it a wee bit surprising how many foot fetishists there are out there. I have practically zero juice for foot love. Sure, an extremely attractive (and clean!) ladies foot can be a mildly pleasing accoutrement to my overall appreciation of a fine woman and her bod. But I generally direct my attention elsewhere.

    And I have seen some feet in my day that are downright unsexy. And men's feet, don't get me started......yuck.

    Can't say that I'd turn down a footjob, but I'd be infinitely happier with her wondrous hands.

    Good luck FootGirl! :biggrin1:
     
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    wanted to try one since running across a hottie into feet on chat roulette! tell me. is the foot worship fun?thebf told me i'm welcome to find one, provided it was only play with my feet
     
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    Oh, wait. Disregard my last post.

    I'm totally into petite feet! :wink:
     
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    I think I have a mild foot fetish... in that I find sexy feet very attractive... small, tan feet with small toes and perfect pedicures are a definite turn-on.. and ugly feet are a turn-off.. but that's almost as far as it goes.. I don't have a shoe fetish to go along with it..

    I've been known, in the middle an extremely hot fuck, to suck on toes... that's a turn on too...

    Foot jobs are very hot so I don't see why that would have made you feel inadequate.. seems like a compliment to your sexy feet to me...
     
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    First, Nothe7, you LOOOK MAAVELUUS ( Billy Crystal humor). And if you take care of your feet like it appears you take care of the rest of yourself, then I can understand the attention. Feet can be very sensual; shoe dangling, toe cleavage, and long toes that curl during orgasm, can be very arousing. But they should be considered in the context of the rest of you. If someone dwelt on your feet to the exclusion of the rest of you, first, he would be a fool; and second, he might be just plain strange.
     
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    Is he dating your feet or is he dating you and just likes your feet? They are two different scenarios. A guy that is really into you and also adores your feet shouldn't be a problem. A guy that just is into feet and isn't interested in keeping you satisfied is going to be a issue.
     
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    #1. He is into me first then my feet. He actually only confessed his adoration of my toes after a month or so of speaking to one another. I had not even seen him LOOK at my feet before that point. But now that it is out in the open air, he talks... touches.. massages freely. Clear distinction, he isn't obsessed with my feet... but I've never had a guy be so damn appreciative. Lol. Most boyfriends I have will make the comment of, "Doesn't Notthe7 have a great ass?" or something of the sort to their friends... (and lots of ass compliments have been thrown my way) BUT to his friends... "Doesn't Notthe7 have the most beautiful feet you've ever seen..?" He's well-rounded is my point. It's not JUST my feet.

    #2. I felt inadequate because I didn't know what the fuck I was doing -.- Granted he took charge.... but i still felt... retarded... trying to learn the ropes on such sort notice. I guess when he said, "Your feet are so sexy I'd fuck them..." I should have taken him more seriously.

    #3. I'm having fun with this.. it isn't a problem.

    Petite: it's so much fun... the continual foot rubs are nice after work too.... Plus, it's something different after feeling like you've done it all.. even though i haven't... its a breath of fresh air.
     
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    Just let him take over and relax into it.....sit face to face and let him lube himself and your insteps up and then he'll no doubt grip both your heels in one hand and the "body" of both feet in the other and slide/slot his cock between them and "go to town".

    I look at it the same as titty fucking....the only pleasure I get from it personally is just how much he ( generic "he") enjoys it.
     
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    LOL! You're sweet. :kiss:

    See, that's what I thought!

    I had never given foot fetishes a single thought, except that it was sort of weird, until I ran across this really hot, cute, sweet guy on Chat Roulette who was just so bashful about his appreciation of feet, and sooooo cute! I really liked him and suddenly the idea of a guy putting his cock on my feet no longer seemed so weird. Evidently, if a guy is really hot, I might be aroused by the idea. Who knew? :tongue:
     
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    I never thought I would be into it really either... like full-out foot fun? Naw, not me.
    But, honestly it's a blast. He He He. And arousing because you feel naughty doing it, kinda like when you first started maturbating. He's very, very physical attractive and fantastic in bed... just an added bonus.
     
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    or fisting for us, i will do it because (to me) a lover gives and takes and a good one enjoys one as much as the other
     
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    Negative............ fisting and titty-fuck are not level to level matches.
     
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    they are in the sense they are 1 sided acts that give no PHYSICAL pleasure to the top only the pleasure of pleasing
     
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    Titty-fucking and foot-jobs much more level to level. Fisting and licking a guys asshole..... level to level.
     
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    umm..... ok...... in either case, either you see the point or you don't. I'd still do it if asked
     
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    You should talk to Kute_Feet here ... she and her hubby would be great help to you in this area...give you great insight.
     
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    doubt it, it'd be easier for you to shed light on tittyfucking........ you either get in to it or not
     
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    One tip: Buy full-fashioned stockings and window shop a high-end shoe store, like at Nordstrom or some other place with over-priced brands. On a good day, you may find an opportunity to receive a free gift from an admirer- no strings attached if you can be firm enough. I'm certain the economy has impacted this, but it has worked (by accident!) in the past. There are many men out there who fantasize about just this type of encounter.

    Let your man take care of your feet. If he wants them perfect, let him maintain their perfection. The men I have know with foot fetishes have all been very submissive, sexually. They have been responsive to that sort of demand. Get him to go with you when you get your weekly pedicure to pay for it and to observe. He should learn how each step is done, and what each step is for. That way, at least three times a week, he can come along and maintain the pro job. He can push back our cuticles, clean under the nails, file, repair chips, and exfoliate.

    Why should the pressure be on you?

    One more tip: Incorporate tease-and-denial into your foot play. Any fetish is ultimately a mental thing, so mind games and fetishes go hand in hand. You may find it makes you feel powerful, and he may find that the tease makes it so much more intense when he finally gets what he wants.
     
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    I've sucked a toe or three in my day, but foot fetishes are just weird.

    I remember in about 8th grade, in the days before internet porn, I found a porn magazine, was like "FUCK YEAH!" Took it home from the woods, whipped out my dick, started reading the stories

    "and then we started to 69, she was licking my toes as I worshiped hers" What!?

    "I love to play with myself. I love to walk around, and get my feet real dirty, and then suck the dirt off my toes, it taste so tangy..."

    Ahhh GOD FUCKING DAMMIT! I find one pron magazine this year and its a foot fetish magazine! :mad:
     
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