Ok, so since I split from my ex I haven't been interested - let alone active - with anyone else. To be totally honest this is more that I am still in love with her than anything else, but I guess that's a different matter. Anyway, since I've become more aware of my size over the past months, I've become nervous that if and when I find another partner, I may find I gain some form of reputation owing to my size, and have women trying to use me as a bit of a 'novelty' (as someone else on this site described it). I know a vital factor here would be to be careful and not rush into things and such, but as we all know, far from all relationships work out in the long run. I guess maybe this sounds a little big-headed (no pun intended) of me, but to be honest, I just don't want to end up being used for my member. So my question is this, to both gay and straight guys, have you ever had the problem of a large-cock reputation such as this, and if so how did you sort cope with it? Even if you haven't been in this situation (and to the females on the board too), any other comments, advice, thoughts, suggestions - basically anything on this subject - are more than appreciated!