Dating/partnered with a Big Dick

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Ive always wanted to be in a relationship with someone who happens to have a big dick, what are you guys expierences with that?
Making out and cuddling with someone whos hung so i can feel their big manhood pressed against me nightly sounds so hot.
What was it like when u found out your partner was hung? Did u know in advanced or was it revealed to you before the sex. How long did it take for you to get used to it, or do you guys like to share positions.
Do you get jealous when he wears clothes that reveal his big bulge or do you like it that he flaunts it.

just some fun convo share your story!
 
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1. Sex with a guy with a big dick isn't automatically hot. The man that it's attached to is *way* more important. A jerk with a dick of any size is still a jerk. A jerk won't cuddle with you. A guy who cares about you and how you feel is a lot hotter than a specific measurement.
2. I'd had extended conversations with my late partner before he dropped his pants. He wore baggy pants that hid it. That way, guys would actually have meaningful conversations with him, instead of asking only about his big dick. It was those long conversations that turned me on so much.
 

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I'll endorse what Leftie said. My most recent partner was perhaps a bit below average in terms of cock size, but in terms of fucking me he's absolutely outstanding. He's learned what works for his cock and he definitely knows his was around a man's hole. It's that skill and experience that makes him so much fun.

I'll say right now, any size queen who's got a rule like, "I only get with guys who are 8 inches or more," is a freaking moron who is leaving SO MUCH good sex on the table.

That being said, there are certain sensations that work particularly well with men of a certain size. I'll admit to enjoying meeting someone in a bar or wherever and having him find a way to draw attention to his bulge, either visually (there's a reason 501s are probably always going to be great for cruising) or better, by innocently and no doubt accidentally finding a way to press that bulge up against my hand, leg or ass or something.

It's been a while since I had a particularly well hung partner, but I'm the kind of guy that not only loves my partners to flaunt what they got, but to go a few steps further and whip that fucker out and (assuming the management doesn't object) shove it right into some hot pig that we've been admiring. But then I'm totally turned on by really promiscuous guys, so I probably wouldn't be drawn so much to guys who weren't into enthusiastically embracing an open relationship.
 

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I've dated a few hung guys. One of them would have been my ideal partner, but he was having some personal issues and ended up dropping out of school and moving across the country. As for the rest, they were fun sexually, but we didn't match up on many other things. So dating them wasn't an option in my book.

The best guy I dated was also the one with the smallest dick. We matched on so many things (which are all more important than a guy's dick size). His dick is on the smaller side of average. But he was the most talented with what he did with that dick. He was the best top I had dated.
 

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FYI just wanted to clarify that my original intent of the post was not to imply all hung guys are great lovers. And yes of course I know guys of any length can be suitable partners and know how to satisfy.
This was just a post discussing hung guys specifically (since the message board is actually about having a large penis).
 
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I've only ever dated guys with big cocks and it's as varying as dating anyone else regardless of their body. Some were overbearing, abusive narcissists. Some were absolute teddy bears. Some fucked me like a pornstar whenever, wherever we wanted. Some needed 20 mins to get half way hard for 2 mins and couldn't cum unless they went to the bathroom after and jerked off. Some were intelligent, funny, and successful. Some had to be TOLD to bathe everyday and always needed to borrow money.

A huge cock doesn't really have a universal purpose past aesthetics if it's attached to a shitty person
 

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I was in a relationship with this older white guy i had met at the gym who had a really big dick. I had a sense it was big because you could visibly see it through his gym shorts that it was big even while flaccid. He invited me to his place for drinks one night and one thing lead to another and I went to unzip his pants only to pop out a massive pink dick which was 8 inches and really thick or so it was definitely the biggest dick I had seen. Aesthetically I’ve always liked big dicks but never had one that was bigger than 6 inches so I had difficulty taking him in my butt at first but eventually came to really enjoy it.
 

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Being fucked regularly by a well sized man makes it more enjoyable compared to only doing it occasionally. The longer time to relax to take a big cock can kill the intensity of the moment.

When a guy is well hung, he can get his cock through your "second hole".
I only bareback with long term partners, so one benefit is having him ejaculate deep in your second hole.
 
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When a guy is really hung, the only thing that can disguise his bulge to a degree are heavy fabrics like denim.

Briefs can disguise the shape a bit but you still see this mound moving with each step.

In summer, there's just no hiding it. Dark colors or busy patterns is the best you can do.

Because of this, dating a hung man requires you to be a reasonably confident personality type. He will draw more attention than usual from guys without doing anything to encourage it.

If he is also good looking, a hung partner could have just about any gay man he wanted, just remember that he has chosen you and be happy.
 
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I’ve been with my partner for years at this point and after all this time it still turns me on if we’re laying in bed and I feel his big bulge against me. I also enjoy being out together and when people can notice his print through his pants. Specifically if we’re at a gay bar, it’s very arousing that others know it’s all going to be inside me at some point. But that being said, I do echo what’s been posted by others, a big dick does not make a relationship, there needs to be more of a connection there to make things work.
 

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I met my lover at a nudist event hosted by a mutual friend. Since everyone was nude (house rules) I obviously knew he had a big dick as soon as I saw him across the room. That was over 20 years ago and we've been together ever since!

To answer the OP's questions...
What was it like when u found out your partner was hung? Honestly, for me it was love a first sight and as others have stated its the quality of the man and his personality that counts. His big dick is just a bonus.

Did u know in advanced or was it revealed to you before the sex. I think I answered this question pretty well in my statement above.

How long did it take for you to get used to it, or do you guys like to share positions. We immediately clicked at that nude male party and we raw fucked each other's brains out that night (we've never used condoms with each other). We're both versatile and have absolutely no issues taking each other's dicks orally or anally. We just seemed to "fit" for lack of a better term.

Do you get jealous when he wears clothes that reveal his big bulge or do you like it that he flaunts it. We're both avid and dedicated nudists so what little clothing we do wear in public is of course very revealing and we both get turned on watching the reactions of people noticing either or both of our bulges through our clothing. Neither of us own any underwear so we go commando everywhere. We also wear matching stainless cockrings (our form of wedding rings) which pushes our packages up and out making them very prominent under clothing.
 

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My boyfriend is very well hung... 8x6. He's the first guy I've dated who was that hung and I fucking love it. The sex is great and I get so turned on by his size and worshipping his big cock. I'm not sure I could go back to dating an average sized guy now that I've had a well hung bf :p
 
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My boy and i are both 8 incher :D I love his dick.
 
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Is it bad that I tend to avoid hung guys when it comes to dating?
 
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