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I met a guy from Grindr on a date a few weeks ago and within a week, we saw each other 4 times. He was on vacation which made things easier but since then, we've seen each other a couple more times. He stayed over at my place for the first time last night. I feel like we have a great connection but I've noticed that in between dates, he barely texts me and he seems to be online on Grindr a lot.
My insecure side sees this as him not being that into me but in person, he's very enthusiastic, affectionate (always holding my hand, cuddling me, kissing me, etc.) and he seems to be opening up as far as talking to me about personal things. We've talked about what we wanted and he said while a relationship would be great, he doesn't want to rush into things.
Am I just overthinking things or these signs red flags?
I really like him and I am trying to take it easy but sometimes, I feel overwhelmed when I start analyzing everything and it gives me terrible anxiety.
What do you guys think?
My insecure side sees this as him not being that into me but in person, he's very enthusiastic, affectionate (always holding my hand, cuddling me, kissing me, etc.) and he seems to be opening up as far as talking to me about personal things. We've talked about what we wanted and he said while a relationship would be great, he doesn't want to rush into things.
Am I just overthinking things or these signs red flags?
I really like him and I am trying to take it easy but sometimes, I feel overwhelmed when I start analyzing everything and it gives me terrible anxiety.
What do you guys think?