1. gimme_another_inch

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    When I am dating I usually am not into porn, when I am away from my partner or when we break I still am off for some days, as if I had no need but then I fall back into the trap, I have tons of porn but I do need more to just watch for a few seconds and that's it.

    Now am gonna try, starting today no porn, gonna take off the drive where I saved it and let's see what happens, how long can I stay away, if I am addicted to it.

    Share your experience with addiction to porn vs relationship status
     
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    I've seen this website posted a million times on this forum: yourbrainonporn.com

    Porn addiction is a serious problem. All of the guys who stopped watching porn and masturbating reported much higher levels of sexual satisfaction with their partners, more energy, and more time and productivity in their lives to do other things.

    Take it from someone that used to masturbate 1-2 times a day and watch at least 4 hours of porn daily: it's fuckin damaging and will ruin your life if you don't nip it in the bud. I can gladly report elevated levels of everything I just mentioned. I don't even ejaculate now unless I'm having sex.
     
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    No change for me, but in a relationship I try not to ejaculate to porn so I can actually do the things they do in porn lol.

    Masturbation helps me keep sane, it dulls my sex drive so I can actually think with my brains and not my dick.
     
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    In my educated opinion, "porn addiction" is a problem invented by people who don't like porn; rather like allowing prohibitionists to decide what is alcoholism.

    That said, one of the most consistent signs of addiction is "pledging" or "swearing off" things. If you want to store up semen or whatever, do it. But trying to control your future behavior by completely stopping past behavior is a signal.
     
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    If porn is an addiction than every man has it lol
     
  7. gimme_another_inch

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    Porn often used as a substitute of real life action can lead to have a distorted view of real life/relationship, I find it's ok when you are in a single's status and to cool down the sex drive coming out of missing action, different is if one thinks to translate what seen on screen in real life, not that some men/women don't do or like that but it is far away from everyday's routine, that's my fear/question and also the fact that it becomes an addiction, you never have enough and want more alienating from real life and relying on the fictional one we see in porn flicks, perfect bodies, strangest fantasies and so on.

    I wanna try to keep away from it along with my actual status of "single", sometimes the porn helps overcome the con side of being a single but I wanna keep away from it for a while, let's see if it works and let me hear your opinion!
     
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    watching porn for masturbation should be a google search, three mouse clicks and a squeeze of a lotion bottle top. 5 to 10 mins, tops. if you arent getting things done at home, school, work, errands, or neglecting parts of your social life due to hours of viewing pleasure, its about time to cut it out. trust me, id know.
     
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    Thatt what I was thinking, porn addiction is another name for male
     
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    The bolded is very true and a big part of why I have been trying to give up porn. I've started to think that I might have body image issues, or even body dysphormic disorder, partially because of porn. Because my penis doesn't measure up to the ones in porn, I haven't been able to bring myself to have intercourse in over a year. Not from lack of opportunity, but because I can't imagine a woman enjoying my penis.
     
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    Hell 4 hours of watching porn, I would have cum 6 times. I did jo 2x already today because of a sexy IM chat I had with a girl the night before.

    I cum faster from my own hand than any other method so I don't worry, and unless it is a Sat morning, I try to come quickly. So I would say I watched about 30 minutes of videos today, and believe it or not the video that got me off the second time wasn't even porn it was a video from youtube.
     
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    I think porn has definitely had an effect on me. Since I started watching gay porn I became much more inclined to get sexual with guys and has also made a littler insecure about being with women. Also it takes me much longer to cum without porn...I wish I would stop watching porn to good
     
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    Been away from porn since opening the thread and not missing it, I guess it's like smoking, you have the cigarette there, till you don't take a breathe you can make it without...
     
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    maybe need to change the percentages lol
     
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    Anything taken to extremes is a bad thing, no matter the addiction.
    I can see from both sides of the table, watching and not. I learnt my first tricks like how to deepthroat, give blowjobs and fuck from watching porn and also explore bi sexual fantasies.

    I have a fetish for vintage porn, be it straight, bi and gay and previously had a big collection. I deleted alot and tried to delete more but some i just couldnt part with. Now i only watch a few ole favourites but have the rest on HD just so i have it.

    Cuddle
     
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    If my boyfriend was watching it all the time then i could see bringing it up but the occasional masturbation session at the computer is fine he is a man I understand.
     
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