I registered to find out where I can find inexpensive under ware and pants that fit but not boxers since they bunch up too much as I spend most of my time in a chair. Why can't men have pouch sizes like woman have bra sizes? My flaccid size is around 7.5" long by 6.75" in girth. My erect size is 8.75 +" x 7.5". I 'll post pictures shortly. I am happily married and am not interested in any other relationships. I have always been embarrassed because my regular cotton/microfiber under ware makes me look like a freak in the locker room; I don't mind being big, but I look weird because I am not that big/tall myself ( 5" 10" x 180 pounds). Also, my wife is going through menopause, and now I really hurt her more than usual and make her very sore. Any suggested lubricant for her?