1. You cut out whatever someone said to him first where he replied "gross, Ur a dude". That's convenient
2. He's a "bible thumper" so that's his faith, right or wrong.
3. He's claiming persecution for his faith
Bottom line, it seems the people commenting about him are the ones saying the vile, rude, impolite things (just like in this thread too). He's just saying he's straight, not homophobic, works with gay people, but doesn't want unwanted advances from gay men because he believes in the bible and won't cheat on his wife.
That's the evidence you provided and it doesn't support your claim. In fact it exonerates him and makes some people here look hysterical.